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www.squidoo.com/the-tao-of-badass-download If you date men or women long past the point when you are still exploring whether or not s/he is your ideal match, take heart! · He must tell her directly that he will be actively dating other women.
· If they are sexual he will have to let her know that their "new" friendship-relationship will be platonic.
The ball is now in her court. She really likes him and from everything he says, she probably thinks he is a pretty close match.
· Is she going to continue having fun being with him in this new relationship structure?
· Is she willing and able to continue seeing him knowing that he is not going to date her anymore, and he is going to actively date other women?
· What will she do with her feelings of attraction? Feelings of affection?
· Will she use this as an opportunity to continue seeing him and try to change his mind (trample all over his values and boundaries)?
· Will she try to include children in her life/relationship plan (collapse into herself and abandon her values and boundaries)?
I hope you can begin to see that changing the nature of a relationship, staying friends with someone with whom you've been emotionally involved, can be tricky. It can be done if both people have a commitment to honor their values and requirements, the courage to tell themselves and the other person the truth, and the willingness to stay engaged in the process!
Clarify your values, needs, beliefs and the vision you hold for you life. Appreciate everyone who comes into your life and weave the threads of the connection you had with them into the rich fabric of your life.
Learn to say goodbye so you can use your physical and emotional energy to attract the man or the woman who will make your heart sing every day for the rest of your life.
Remember, only YOU can make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
If you like this article, please read more about
Dr. Jackie's relationship dating advice and help for issues and problems.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name, web site, email address and telephone number.
In this ever troubled world, dating is one of those things that is just not as safe as it was back in the good old days. If you're going to have any chance of getting out of your dating experience alive, you may want to read what follows.
The dangers of dating, now with the Internet revolution, have taken on a new meaning. There are more pitfalls to going to the local soda shop than ever before. Being careful is not enough. You need to be educated as well. But where do you get this education? It's not like there's a course you can take to teach you about dating dangers. Hopefully, these tips will give you some guidance.
The biggest problem with dating today is actually finding somebody you can trust to go out with. There are a lot of unstable people walking around in this world. With all the influences of drugs and alcohol, you have really get to know somebody well before you even decide if you want to ask them out on a date, unless of course you like to live dangerously.
· If they are sexual he will have to let her know that their "new" friendship-relationship will be platonic.
The ball is now in her court. She really likes him and from everything he says, she probably thinks he is a pretty close match.
· Is she going to continue having fun being with him in this new relationship structure?
· Is she willing and able to continue seeing him knowing that he is not going to date her anymore, and he is going to actively date other women?
· What will she do with her feelings of attraction? Feelings of affection?
· Will she use this as an opportunity to continue seeing him and try to change his mind (trample all over his values and boundaries)?
· Will she try to include children in her life/relationship plan (collapse into herself and abandon her values and boundaries)?
I hope you can begin to see that changing the nature of a relationship, staying friends with someone with whom you've been emotionally involved, can be tricky. It can be done if both people have a commitment to honor their values and requirements, the courage to tell themselves and the other person the truth, and the willingness to stay engaged in the process!
Clarify your values, needs, beliefs and the vision you hold for you life. Appreciate everyone who comes into your life and weave the threads of the connection you had with them into the rich fabric of your life.
Learn to say goodbye so you can use your physical and emotional energy to attract the man or the woman who will make your heart sing every day for the rest of your life.
Remember, only YOU can make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
If you like this article, please read more about
Dr. Jackie's relationship dating advice and help for issues and problems.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name, web site, email address and telephone number.
In this ever troubled world, dating is one of those things that is just not as safe as it was back in the good old days. If you're going to have any chance of getting out of your dating experience alive, you may want to read what follows.
The dangers of dating, now with the Internet revolution, have taken on a new meaning. There are more pitfalls to going to the local soda shop than ever before. Being careful is not enough. You need to be educated as well. But where do you get this education? It's not like there's a course you can take to teach you about dating dangers. Hopefully, these tips will give you some guidance.
The biggest problem with dating today is actually finding somebody you can trust to go out with. There are a lot of unstable people walking around in this world. With all the influences of drugs and alcohol, you have really get to know somebody well before you even decide if you want to ask them out on a date, unless of course you like to live dangerously.
