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Growing old...

Because I had lost my password for lack of posting on this blog, I started another one BLACKLittleTHORN 902 doh

It is slightly different in the sense that I shall really try to concentrate on photography / art. So if anyone is interested in browsing you are more than welcome!

A bientôt alors....

PS : I shall try to keep the present blog alive at the same time

Fête de la Musique



Breaking the waves

This Lars Von Trier's film Breakding The Waves was recommended to me back when it was released, in 1996. But at the time I did not get the opportunity to go and see it and frankly at that time I could not careless (Ah, youth!). I first watch this movie about two months ago and it hit me in the face! I thought it was a really powerful movie, raw and showing that life can be so cruel: that no one escapes but some with deeper scrapes and bruises than others. There is no fairness. It seems to me that when you are born you are entering a giant virtual casino, roll dice, and then keep rolling them until one day you get the final number.

I have since watched other films made by him but none have made such a deep impression on me. There is however a constant: life seems to be unfair...

21

bigeyes Gosh!!! I can't believe that this blog is 21-page-long already! A few years have gone by and a few thousand miles of travel too! Which taken individually don't seem that much but in fact it is pretty amazing really...Since the beginning of this blog, I have gone to the UK, worked there, lived in London for a while, gone back to Paris, travelled back occasionally to London, went on holiday in Italy, twice, on holiday in Normandy, Alsace (France), to Edinburgh, Germany, Prague, discovered Stockholm love, returned to Stockholm once more, travelled again to London... Seen Dita Von Teese twice, went to (only) 2 concerts, went to the Crazy Horse for the first time in my life, collected Dita Von Teese autographs and memorabilia among other past-times. I have changed addresses 5 times in nearly 6 years! Have changed jobs 3 times for various reasons and lived 5 more years basically...

To Sacha...

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Today of all days, my heart goes to Sacha my three-year-old Birman because he's sick and I hate the very thought of the fact that I cannot prevent it, protect him! It's nothing serious but I hate it just the same. So because I love him, and because all cats are precious, I am posting these quotes that I particularly favour:

"Of all God's creatures, there is only one that cannot be made slave of the lash. That one is the cat. If man could be crossed with the cat it would improve the man, but it would deteriorate the cat." - Mark Twain

"With their qualities of cleanliness, discretion, affection, patience, dignity, and courage, how many of us, I ask you, would be capable of becoming cats?" - Fernand Mery Her Majesty the Cat

"Everything I know I learned from my cat: When you're hungry, eat. When you're tired, nap in a sunbeam. When you go to the vet's, pee on your owner". - Gary Smith

"You can keep a dog; but it is the cat who keeps people, because cats find humans useful domestic animals."- George Mikes

"There are two means of refuge from the miseries of life: music and cats." - Albert Schweitzer

"If a dog jumps into your lap it is because he is fond of you; but if a cat does the same thing it is because your lap is warmer". - A. N. Whitehead

"I love cats because I enjoy my home; and little by little, they become its visible soul". - Jean Cocteau

"When I play with my cat, who knows if I am not a pastime to her more than she is to me?" - Montaigne

"No amount of time can erase the memory of a good cat, and no amount of masking tape can ever totally remove his fur from your couch". - Leo Dworken

"The trouble with cats is that they've got no tact". - P. G. Wodehouse

"Cats' hearing apparatus is built to allow the human voice to easily go in one ear and out the other." - Stephen Baker

"As anyone who has ever been around a cat for any length of time well knows cats have enormous patience with the limitations of the human kind". - Cleveland Amory

"Two things are aesthetically perfect in the world - the clock and the cat". - Emile Auguste Chartier

There are plenty more available on CatQuotes.com

Six Feet Under

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As of late, I have been watching the whole series Six Feet Under! I really like it. Some might think that it is not in the best of taste, but I think that it shows a part of "life" that is usually hidden or taboo and why should it be? OK granted it's not the most joyous of occasions but it's inevitable. When you live you inevitably die. Because it's taboo people are probably more scared than other events in life. The shroud of mystery surrounding the end of life is making it the most feared. I cannot say that I am not scared to die (well not of death itself but rather the way in which it will happen) but this series shows you how one minute you are alive and the next you are gone and sometimes in really strange circumstances. I now look at things in a slightly different way and I look at the people around me when I commute to work, or walk down the street.

Moreover, there is also all the American tradition of embalming people ready for viewing. It's so strange to see this from Europe where we do not do this. But in the US they apparently have mastered the art of reconstruction, which I guess is a good thing for the relatives of the deceased to see them the way they were.

I do recommand this series anyway because it is actually quite eye-opening and in the end kind of therapeutic. Not to mention that the actors are absolutely brilliant too!

Not to be missed I think!

New beginnings (sort of)

After a rather long pause in my postings (a mere year or so) I have decided to resume the keeping of this blog: a resuscitation really!

I just would like to share my enthusiasm about Stockholm. I have been there twice in a year and I love the place! More often than not, people usually go in search of warm climate and sunshine. Not me. When most people head south, I head north! I find that the "northern" countries have so much to offer and they are quite frequently ignored by the crowds. Fine by me.

Anyway, here are some pictures taken in Stockholm during my two visits and I hope that these two visits are only the beginning of much more thorough discovery of Sweden (and more generally Scandinavia).

I have created a photo album that is not yet full but I anticipate to complete it very soon....

I know

I know that I should write more often but well about what? My life at the moment is at a stand-still, while the country, France, is spiralling down into recession, people are going totally nuts: just the other day, a mother stabbed her ten-year old girl because she was playing with her PSP....and to top it all she let her five year old boy blame himself for the stabbing! Everyday when taking the underground there are delays due to suicide attempts...I mean frankly what can I write? I do wish I had some entertaining things to say (well apart from my cat playing with my husband's socks). And why exactly am I writing this anyway ?????confused

Actually I do have a short anecdote: I went to a job interview two days ago. It went really well I thought. When I came back I had a message from the temping agency asking me to call back. So I did. And the bloke said that they really really liked me but....(here we go I thought, and nothing had prepared me for this!) you will have to change your clothes. I am afraid but they want people to wear bright colours, especially this person who fled Iran because he found that women were dressed in black too much (?!? was that the only reason he fled ?????). I retorted that I could not afford to change my whole wardrobe (not that it is totally black, but I tend to wear some yes!). He then said that they appreciate people making an effort and wearing bright and cheerful colours.... Where is this country going? So first I was dismissed because my boss did not like the look of my face and now I am told to dress according to the fancy of one man? If I were to dress badly I could understand, but I am not and frankly I thought that remark was not welcome as I went to great length to be very smart that day...

The sock catcher



Sacha, my little Birman, is a bit of a devil! Well not exactly a devil, but he's certainly full of energy at times (usually when you want to rest!). During the day he sleeps and you cannot wake him!!!! But in the morning (around 4 am usually or around 7 or 8 in the evening) he's brimming with energy and is like a live wire! So if he feels fustrated he goes to the pile of clean clothes that I haven't had time to put away (well not exactly "time" since I do have TOO MUCH time on my hands at the moment...) and he goes and fish out socks (he literally digs the pile with his nose and search!) which he then drags in his mouth to the middle of the lounge, where he will leave it there lying.... He has tried his teeth on various other pieces of clothing, usually belonging to my husband bigsmile, but the socks seems to be his favourite: probably because it's small, manageable, easy to carry...

Sometimes he's so "mad" that he will run, skid across the floor and hit his face against the French window in the lounge and will keep running in all directions!

When my husband is working on his computer, Sacha will come and sit on the floor beside him waiting to get his attention. When after a few seconds he's still ignored, then he climbs on his hind legs and with his front paw taps him on his bum or thigh. If he's on the floor doing something, he will give him a nugde in the back with his head. He's full of tricks. I do believe that he percieves my husband as his "big brother" or play-pal... He does not behave like this with me. My role is taking care of him and being his cushion when he sleeps! rolleyes

Haute Couture - behind the scenes

On Friday, last week, I went to a craft fair in Paris. Inside there was also an exhibition on the crafts involved in the Haute-Couture industry: embroidery, pleats, weaving, etc. It was rather interesting, although a bit too succinct, but I took some pictures (not all good because the light was not strong enough for the camera).

A skirt pleating support:


The detail of a jacket designed by Christian Lacroix:


A hand-embroidered bodice:


The embroiderer's working desk and samples:


Styling a dress on a manequin:


Matching fabrics for each design: