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3. April 2010, 13:21:35

Thomylee

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does ladies love to be with bad guys.

Ladies alway love to be with bad guys why.And what about the cool guys.

4. April 2010, 02:11:42

TroyMclure

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does ladies love to be with bad guys.





Say hi to the bad guy!
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4. April 2010, 03:10:53

OnetimePoster

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Originally posted by TroyMclure:

does ladies love to be with bad guys.





Say hi to the bad guy!


Cool.

4. April 2010, 12:59:39

Museatlantis

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Yes ladies do like to be with the bad guys
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4. April 2010, 18:05:40

rjhowie

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Aaah, a wise man from a goodly part of Africa. I cannot really answer this question being a good guy judging by the views of women along the way.......

4. April 2010, 18:29:56

av1ez

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PersonAlly, i reAlly dont think so. But At leAst it needs objective survey for A fAir conclusion.
Alright, i'd rAther put it this wAy...

4. April 2010, 18:46:44

MariiekeA7x

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I do.

As long as he doesn't kill/hurt me. [A']

4. April 2010, 20:26:19

jivelissie

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Some do,some don't. Frolicking with a bad guy has its own consequences of which i personally choose not to ignore.
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4. April 2010, 23:57:31

johnnysaucepn

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Ladies do not love to be with bad guys. Ladies love to be with exciting guys, interesting guys, guys that get into your head and stay there. Guys who fade into the background get ignored.

Eventually ladies stop being excited by danger, and look for someone to settle down with. Then once they've settled down for a while, they start looking for excitement again.

Men are very similar.

10. May 2010, 21:51:25

Thomylee

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personally i think girls love to be bad guy.not the guy who kill or bring danger to them or others but bad in the sense rough.

10. May 2010, 22:40:09

Tagasin

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Yes Ladies love to be with bad guys because there are some things most ladies like which nice guys finds difficult doing like the first sight approch, quick romance and even sex.

12. May 2010, 01:56:21

rjhowie

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Some women like bad guys because it is exciting for them which in turn shows they have a flaw. As a number of women have loved me they have obviously proved to be flawless.

12. May 2010, 02:52:54

starree

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We like confident guys. "bad" guys usually appear confident but really it's extreme insecurity. Then we find that out and it's too late and most feel trapped so stay in crappy relationships. Then their self esteem gets whittled away because what kinda girl stays in a bad situation, etc and they stick around with jerks.

It's a big fat circle. If nice guys would actually approach us, we'd be willing to give them a shot, thing is they RARELY do. They are always shy.

Confidence is sexy, period. If you don't have it, fake it and eventually you will have it. How many guys do I have to say this to till you guys get it? smile

12. May 2010, 08:57:00

johnnysaucepn

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

Some women like bad guys because it is exciting for them which in turn shows they have a flaw. As a number of women have loved me they have obviously proved to be flawless.


Wait. Did you just imply that you're incredibly boring to women?

12. May 2010, 09:00:13

johnnysaucepn

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Originally posted by starree:

It's a big fat circle. If nice guys would actually approach us, we'd be willing to give them a shot, thing is they RARELY do. They are always shy.


Sounds good, but doesn't work in principle. Approaching isn't enough - even bad guys will tend to get pushed back if they do that. Confidence is one thing, what you need for that situation to work is obstinate persistence.

It's slightly different if you meet and are introduced socially - then you have an in.

12. May 2010, 16:51:35

Denny77

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Ho's always liked me because I was such a nice, tender person. angel
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12. May 2010, 17:26:01

Juggalo1

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Originally posted by Denny77:

Ho's always liked me because I was such a nice, tender person. angel

yuck bigsmile

I am a Juggalo... I am an individual guided by Light... I know who I am and who I want to be. I recognize that the path to Shangri La requires an open mind... I shall not judge. I am part of a Family... I shall Love my Family as I would my blood. I shall do my Family no harm as I know what is done to others shall surely be done to me. I shall strive to honor my Family and not disgrace their name.

12. May 2010, 23:05:36

Tagasin

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Originally posted by starree:

We like confident guys. "bad" guys usually appear confident but really it's extreme insecurity. Then we find that out and it's too late and most feel trapped so stay in crappy relationships. Then their self esteem gets whittled away because what kinda girl stays in a bad situation, etc and they stick around with jerks.


Uh!! yikes lol

13. May 2010, 00:31:55

rjhowie

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More damn blatant envy from hohnnysaucepn trying to manipulate words to hid this.

13. May 2010, 01:56:36

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

More damn blatant envy from hohnnysaucepn trying to manipulate words to hid this.



One of your more 'special' contributions Howie. What does it mean in English?

13. May 2010, 02:37:53

starree

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Hey I was just saying what I know from personal experience and other women *shrug*

13. May 2010, 08:34:51

johnnysaucepn

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

More damn blatant envy from hohnnysaucepn trying to manipulate words to hid this.


Did you or did you not say that women who look for excitement in men are flawed, and that the women that are attracted to you aren't flawed?

14. May 2010, 02:25:12

rjhowie

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While you are cuddling with words I am cuddling the women so word on. Hhhhm this is better.

14. May 2010, 02:34:45

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

I am cuddling the women so word on.



Keep trying RJ. One day you will get past cuddling, teary eyed farewells, looks of wonderment and actually make it to first base. I'm rooting for you!!!

lol

14. May 2010, 03:02:27

thedawgfan

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

While you are cuddling with words I am cuddling the women so word on. Hhhhm this is better.


If it isn't too much to ask, can you please post a pic of one of your numerous women? You say you have an abundance of them, so this shouldn't be a difficult task to acquiesce to.
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14. May 2010, 03:22:05

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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I'm not saying this is one of them. But after a while, a mental image does tend to form in one's head...

14. May 2010, 09:45:17

johnnysaucepn

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

While you are cuddling with words I am cuddling the women so word on. Hhhhm this is better.


Wait, you're cuddling the women while you're typing this? Writing about how many women you've been cuddling? RJ - you dog!

In the meantime, I am very happy that I have a strong command of the English language and a single, exciting girlfriend that I cuddle exclusively. Like a good Protestant boy.

15. May 2010, 00:10:08

rjhowie

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Well I admire garydenness's courage in putting his wife's picture up here for consideration but I do not go out with married women. Don't wish to hurt his feelings but if he is trying to offload her he has a problem?

Aaah, johnnsysaucepn, I am very flexible.....

15. May 2010, 00:45:25

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

Well I admire garydenness's courage in putting his wife's picture up



I really don't mind a jest, but do try and make it original, or failing that funny. That line comes straight out of a pub full of drunk teenagers, and is followed by the 'my penis is bigger than your penis' line. Usually from someone with a small penis....


Originally posted by rjhowie:

Aaah, johnnsysaucepn, I am very flexible.....



Knew you were a closet homosexual! Thought you'd never admit it, but at last you have! Congratulations on coming out Mr Howie!

15. May 2010, 12:26:46

Denny77

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Originally posted by johnnysaucepn:

In the meantime, I am very happy that I have a strong command of the English language and a single, exciting girlfriend that I cuddle exclusively. Like a good Protestant boy.



I see you have crossed the line... mixed marriages are fine..cheers
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15. May 2010, 17:27:08

thedawgfan

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I see Mr. Howie was unable to acquiesce to my request.
Can't say that I am surprised.
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16. May 2010, 01:05:49

rjhowie

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Oh but you do mind a jest garydenness when it backfires on you! It struck home with you throwing in the pub scenario and penis matters, etc, has only helped betray that and shows your attribution to me. It's okay trying to get at me but when it is something personal to you how the mood is different. Tough.

And to take the pressure we have your wee acolyte boy in your top pocket coming along (thedawgfan) to take the heat off. As for johnnysaucepns' throw away - it is a that a throw away and pointless. Thanks for the picture but stay in Me-he-co a little longer!

16. May 2010, 01:09:15

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

Oh but you do mind a jest garydenness when it backfires on you!



When one backfires on me, I'll let you know. It'll probably have gone over your head! smile


Originally posted by thedawgfan:

I see Mr. Howie was unable to acquiesce to my request.

Can't say that I am surprised.



One word. Closet.

wink

16. May 2010, 01:25:05

thedawgfan

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

And to take the pressure we have your wee acolyte boy in your top pocket coming along (thedawgfan) to take the heat off.


Not at all. I made a simple request to you, and you, like Gordon Brown, cannot/will not give a straight answer.
Is it really that difficult to post a picture of one of your numerous wummins?
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16. May 2010, 03:06:47

starree

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if rjhowie is such a ladies's man, how does he find the time to post so much on here? bigeyes

16. May 2010, 12:28:59

Macallan

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Originally posted by starree:

if rjhowie is such a ladies's man, how does he find the time to post so much on here? bigeyes


The answer is in the closet right
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16. May 2010, 17:37:06

rjhowie

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I know when garydenness is desperate when he tries to stick the poofter label on me - old labels die hard and expected. Was a nice try getting at me with the family picture but do feel free not to post personal pictures - choice is yours!I notice the other members of the crazy Gand -Macallan and thedawgfan are in a choir chorus. Maybe they have shitlifter tenedences as those who go on about such have something to hide themselves. So come clean - bix-sexuals maybe?They are of course typical of those I often refer too who lambast others for closed minds but practice such

As for garydenness yakking about how he would say if something backfired that is so blatant nonsense he insults people who can never believe that. He is so perfect! Anyway i didn't ask him to post family pictures here. Maybe that is what his Me-he-can acoyltes think is beauty. Is that why maybe he left the UK due to neghbours doing a bodyswerve? Ha, ha. Truth!

Yet again sidetracked from my mission to keep woemn happy with my company. The other night got a call from a lady I had given a chain and locket to and she put it under her pillow. Hey maybe gary could put that women under his pillow and hold it?!

16. May 2010, 18:07:27

thedawgfan

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At this point, things have just gotten downright sad.

I have learned something today, never trust a Scot to give a direct answer or acquiesce to a request.
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16. May 2010, 18:27:33

Thabotizz

Strange enough... not complicated!

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I'm a bad guy! lol I don't see ladies flocking? confused
Keep it simple. Tizz.

16. May 2010, 19:46:39

Tagasin

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Originally posted by Thabotizz:

I'm a bad guy! lol I don't see ladies flocking? confused



bad guys do not say it do what they do then you will see them

17. May 2010, 00:08:43

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

He is so perfect!



That's not true. If you had more than just Glaswegians to compare me against, you'd know I'm far from perfect. lol


Originally posted by rjhowie:

I know when...



RJ, given how shockingly little you know about anything, that's not the best way for you to start a sentence.... lol


Originally posted by rjhowie:

Hey maybe gary could put that women under his pillow and hold it?!



RJ, no matter how ugly Glaswegians happen to be, I'm not going to start killing them just for cracking mirrors!


17. May 2010, 02:13:12

rjhowie

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And you keep your wife's picture away from Me-he-cans or you are in for deportation with frightening children thrown in for goodly measure. Ye Gods I have know Edinburgh women better looking than that.

17. May 2010, 10:39:23

johnnysaucepn

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Originally posted by thedawgfan:

At this point, things have just gotten downright sad.

I have learned something today, never trust a Scot to give a direct answer or acquiesce to a request.


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17. May 2010, 11:33:50

Jaybro

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That's it for today's installment of the Rj Howie show. Tune in tomorrow as the usual suspects attempt to put the dapper old guy through his paces!

Bye, bye for now.
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17. May 2010, 13:17:15

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

Ye Gods I have know Edinburgh women better looking than that.



But not Glaswegians. I'd be tempted to move to Edinburgh myself!

lol

17. May 2010, 23:58:59

thedawgfan

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(My apologies JSP and Acorn15. bigsmile)
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18. May 2010, 01:39:49

rjhowie

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Nah, garydenness. You might be a big fish in He-he-co but back here you wouldn't be noticed - even in Auld Reekie. However your luvvy picture would go down in well in Edinburgh but here in the gritty city we like our women to look like women so no offence dear boy. If you brought here here you would elicit much sympathy and a few free pints though. As for thedawgfan there is obviously something flawed in the Ex-Colonies educ system for him to get that far.

And with the thread in mind not being a bad guy I cannot really explain why women have been fascinated by me over the years. Being a modest, quiet and generally non-controversial type of person it has been a wonder....but a pleasant one. And just to penultimately end things nicely a lady friend sent me a text on my mobile a few hours ago asking when we were meeting for lunch. I only know about good women liking good guys.....

By the way Jaybro. Well spotted they love trying the noise up and of course I could never do that myself. Haven't worked out yet who amongst us has the biggest spoon?

18. May 2010, 01:45:28

thedawgfan

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

As for thedawgfan there is obviously something flawed in the Ex-Colonies educ system for him to get that far.


up up
You keep on representing Scotland and the UK now, ya hear?
(Feel free to continue to make it appear as thought the rest of that most excellent country is still stuck in the 19th century as you are doing such an excellent job of now cheers )
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18. May 2010, 12:57:23

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

You might be a big fish in He-he-co but back here you wouldn't be noticed



Like you, then.

Originally posted by rjhowie:

However your luvvy picture would go down in well in Edinburgh



You've been going on about that picture I posted rather a lot. It obviously hit a nerve. It must have been more accurate than I intended! And so I do apologise. We all have to make the best of what we've got, so I wish you both luck.

Here's another picture I've formed of your many partners, just to lighten things up....




beer

19. May 2010, 00:42:33

rjhowie

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Oh you try well to take the heat off yourself. I was rather surprised however at you being so brave as to show 'her indoors' to everyone. I know beauty is in the eyes of the beholder but there is a critical vein in these Forums that won't have your consideration or bravery. It shows that against all my summations of you there is that sharing of your domestic situ. It did touch a nerve in that I did feel a pang of sympathy for you. Not wanting to be too unappreciative of the display but as long as you have her we can get on with the normal ladies.

ps As no other pic appears I assume the space is the poor lady's brain pattern. Heavens what a challenge and maybe should view you in a new light?!

19. May 2010, 01:04:31

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

ps As no other pic appears...



You can't see the closet? Now why doesn't that surprise!

19. May 2010, 12:05:14

Thabotizz

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pssst Irn bru talking! lol
Keep it simple. Tizz.

23. May 2010, 00:18:13

rjhowie

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I bet garydenness's other half is bang ballistic about the picture going up out of the closet where it should have stayed? Do refrain from going out in public you might frighten the adults never mind the kids.

Ooh, how clever there Thabotizz, being give a tit-bit there about Irn Bru!

23. May 2010, 00:21:18

garydenness

In your face, loser!

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Originally posted by rjhowie:

I bet garydenness's other half is bang ballistic



Oh she´s a jealous one alright! Everytime she catches me looking at or chatting to a gorgeous Latina, she goes a a little ballistic. Strangely, there was no reaction at all when she saw me looking at the picture of one of your lady (boy?) friends on here....I think she understands the deal with Glaswegian ladies! Not a threat, shall we say...!

lol

2. June 2010, 21:35:14

Hadilfrancisco

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yes i like. Why because when bad boys fall in love they are really really nice he never let you down he always make you feel secure all the time. He will fight for you no matter what. And when its come to you he became the most weak person.. On earth.
Being Lonely..

5. June 2010, 01:12:37

rjhowie

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And if the great love affair goes belly up I take it he will just go back to being a bad boy until the next woman is conned?

5. June 2010, 07:48:30

Thabotizz

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Originally posted by Hadilfrancisco:

yes i like. Why because when bad boys fall in love they are really really nice he never let you down he always make you feel secure all the time. He will fight for you no matter what. And when its come to you he became the most weak person.. On earth.

very touchy! love I love this. heart
Keep it simple. Tizz.

5. June 2010, 14:36:07

Hadilfrancisco

Being lonely

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thanks Thabo any its true, but don't try to be a bad boy:lol:
Being Lonely..

5. June 2010, 19:39:01

Ummiey

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Yes,it's only the bad girls who always love the bad boyz.And that is not love is just "like" or "betray",but they can not understand because they are alwaz in bad fellings.So plz don't waste your time,the bad ladyz always wants to be with the bad guyz.

7. June 2010, 08:29:20

Hadilfrancisco

Being lonely

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mr uae, ya my some of them but usually bad boy fall for nice and sweet girl ya right when bad girl or bad boy be together there is a tendensy that it might be not love but where talking about here if a lady's wanna be with bad boys so just stick up with the question,. And its not wasting time,. One think that every body know that when love strike any body can turn into something..
Being Lonely..

7. June 2010, 10:26:06

Felinial

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Well I guess it's all subjective, some women do, some don't, some women like shopping , some like football. Some women shave some don't, some like brains, some like brawn. Individuals being just that usually have uniquely individual tastes which are usually a mixture of the tastes of people they admire. There is no concrete answer to that question there is only statistics, which pretty much distort our views of reality anyway and thus should be avoided.

18. June 2010, 16:41:14

Shackira

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Its de thrill bad boys bring, de danger not knowing if he z going 2 call

19. June 2010, 01:24:05

rjhowie

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Groan. More of this mobile/pidgin speak from it's aficionados from the usual places. Anyway not being a bad guy I cannot speak as to how it effects my long experience impressing the opposite sex. Had lunch with a student daughter of a friend of mine who described me as "sweet". Having been "cute" and other superlatives this was a new one to the collection.What wonderful creatures.

23. June 2010, 23:07:46

cuthead

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Yes for the most immature of women. Specially quite of young ones. But because they don't have self-confidence.

But women who like these kind of men are not interesting. They are pathetic.

24. June 2010, 13:05:33

reacher9

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Originally posted by Thomylee:

Ladies always love to be with bad guys why.....



This is self-contradictory.

If a female accompanies a "bad guy" then there's NO way she's a "lady".

26. June 2010, 20:39:14

rjhowie

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(Sigh, big one) I was only using the word description as given being a bit naughty (unlike normally) so you don't need to be too fazed. There are females still who get some kind of kick out of being dad guys - but not gentlemen of course (just to give balance!).

27. June 2010, 06:53:01

reacher9

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Women like bad guys?

Like Joe Marconi, Bad Leroy and Prof Braine?



And I'll refrain from commenting about their right hands. Must be bad though?

wink

30. July 2010, 21:47:36

Hadilfrancisco

Being lonely

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if his bad or good i wanna be with him but its really impossible i fall for him. Im really in a great pain and computions now if any body can advice me.
Being Lonely..

31. July 2010, 00:29:49

rjhowie

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Not easy to say how someone can get over such situations as we only have distant bits and pieces to go on so wouldn't try. Many folk have had broken hearts at some time it is part of life like births and deaths.

31. July 2010, 15:50:26

ledisi2010

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Good girls like strong men who are smart and can make his own money and the both can bring something to the table besides empty plates. There is nothing in the world like a smart man who knows all the right things to say, and is not afraid to show how he feels. If he is smart enough he can make money and when they both are smart the skies the limit.

8. August 2010, 16:19:23

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9. October 2010, 05:19:23

Hmarsdfasdasdshall

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Everyones different but as a woman who always seemed to be attracted to a 'badboy' I think its that we wanna be the one to tame him.In the long run we cant choose who we fall in love with so doesnt really matter lol and btw Im Scottish and near Glasgow n fkn prouda it!

9. October 2010, 19:55:09

r4335ny

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This is a silly question. In my experience most men that project a bad guy image are posers. They are nothing but false bravado. A true 'bad guy' would have to be a little stealthy to avoid trouble with rivals or police. I don't think women prefer 'bad guys'. I think most women prefer men that are attentive, generous, humorous, good in bed and trustworthy.

9. October 2010, 20:02:52

Iapeto

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No, no they don't.

9. October 2010, 20:03:05

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12. October 2010, 18:49:26

jivelissie

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Originally posted by Thomylee:

does ladies love to be with bad guys.



bad guys can be handy in some situation (like a backup plan).bigsmile
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12. October 2010, 21:26:11

rjhowie

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Not being a bad guy I cannot give a great answer to this thread popping up again.Most woman who have passed through a closeness with me have found me too nice......

12. October 2010, 21:39:10

TroyMclure

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No, no they don't.


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13. October 2010, 10:07:47

johnnysaucepn

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Women with low self-esteem are attracted to dominant men, who are more likely to be 'bad'.
The problem is that non-dominant men with low self-esteem are often attracted to women with low self-esteem, which ends up a horrible mess.

13. October 2010, 15:46:14

Iapeto

Banned user

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

No, no they don't.


Enlighten me lapeto.


Well, by bad guys, I'm assuming the TC means: a slick, suave but rough, smartass at times and tough kind of guy. Blah blah blah you get the idea.
It's just a no. I don't know where this idea, errr, notion came from.
Yes, women are stupid at times and might lean towards a guy resembling that kind of nature (it's mostly younger/inexperienced women that do, unfortunately... SOME), but they're not that stupid as to get fooled or played around by a guy like that for long.

I think there is just a misunderstanding. A girl doesn't want a guy that's taken the "bad" persona to the extreme, they just want a strong, confident, dignified kind of guy.
Both said personalities are bold, yes, but it's much more likely that a girl will choose the latter.... mainly because she probably doesn't feel like being abused later on in the relationship. p

13. October 2010, 18:27:56

TroyMclure

Posts: 1370

Well, by bad guys, I'm assuming the TC means: a slick, suave but rough, smartass at times and tough kind of guy. Blah blah blah you get the idea. It's just a no. I don't know where this idea, errr, notion came from. Yes, women are stupid at times and might lean towards a guy resembling that kind of nature (it's mostly younger/inexperienced women that do, unfortunately... SOME), but they're not that stupid as to get fooled or played around by a guy like that for long. I think there is just a misunderstanding. A girl doesn't want a guy that's taken the "bad" persona to the extreme, they just want a strong, confident, dignified kind of guy. Both said personalities are bold, yes, but it's much more likely that a girl will choose the latter.... mainly because she probably doesn't feel like being abused later on in the relationship.



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13. October 2010, 18:53:00

Iapeto

Banned user

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

I like it. I like it!


You're too nice!
But it seems like I chose some poor words to help put my two cents into this.
Not really an easy question, although it does sound simple enough, it's just that there are a bunch of factors you have to consider.

1. June 2011, 13:13:05

Tagasin

Posts: 74

Hm birds of same feathers flocks together. Bad girls prefer bad guys. Nmm

1. June 2011, 20:51:01 (edited)

MAXXTHRUST

Posts: 1519

Why do I find myself skimming past all the male posters here and stopping for the answers from the female ones.


Or perhaps Bad Boyz stink...

http://wanda.uef.fi/biologia/kortet/reprints/body_odor.pdf

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I am ungrateful to those teachers.
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2. June 2011, 00:15:00

rjhowie

Posts: 14631

Well if a woman wants to be with a bad guy she isn't no lady.

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