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10. April 2010, 18:30:06

Okwutata

Posts: 16

Surrounded by many but still lonely.

I'm away from home staying with a step brother. My brother loves me but his wife hate and despise me and jealous my success. This make me lonely and miss mum and home alot. What do I do?

10. April 2010, 20:31:30

lopera

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Posts: 436

Befriend yourself.
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10. April 2010, 21:41:07

Billymish

Posts: 167

Thats very common,especially when sisters visit their brothers,"frm blacks perspective" i'm not sure about whites.you better ask your mom for advice,maybe she should visit also.

11. April 2010, 01:00:32

rjhowie

Posts: 14631

Try an get out a bit more and mix if that is possible. You will only end up moping and in turn feel sorry for yourself and get worse.

11. April 2010, 10:50:01

Okwutata

Posts: 16

Originally posted by lopera:

Befriend yourself.

I appreciate this but how is that possible?

11. April 2010, 12:39:25

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11. April 2010, 13:37:00

Frenzie

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Originally posted by Okwutata:

Originally posted by lopera:

Befriend yourself.

I appreciate this but how is that possible?

Add yourself on your IM application of choice. p
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11. April 2010, 16:15:38

Jaybro

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If this is a persistent problem, seek professional help of some sort. Don't depend on a place like this, nice as most of the people here are. That's particularly the case if the problem is longstanding. If it's transient, the problem is likely to evaporate with time. But whatever you do, don't trust me! jester
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11. April 2010, 21:36:10

lopera

Ice angel

Posts: 436

Originally posted by Okwutata:

Originally posted by lopera:

Befriend yourself.

I appreciate this but how is that possible?



Inside you have a caring, compassionate, loving Self, that can become friends with the parts that are suffering, and that can talk with those parts, listen to them, get to know them better, and make them feel supported.
I know it sounds easy, yet it is very hard to do. But that is what it comes down to.
And all other people say very good things too :-)
Wishing you the best.
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12. April 2010, 02:35:50

thedawgfan

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I suggest going to a pub and meeting people.
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12. April 2010, 14:31:25

Thabotizz

Strange enough... not complicated!

Posts: 848

Don't take those advises!!!

Make your sister in law feel comfortable by listening to her view and then be brutally honest about your feelings towards her. Like,"your looks towards me gives me a creepy feeling. Are you an alien?"
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12. April 2010, 23:44:44

MAXXTHRUST

Posts: 1519

In laws are very difficult to get along with.

Originally posted by Billymish:

frm blacks perspective" i'm not sure about whites




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13. April 2010, 05:08:50

KANJEDZA

Posts: 352

since she is jelousy of your success, how about moving out and be on your own?

29. April 2010, 23:47:54

Hadilfrancisco

Being lonely

Posts: 73

Simple advice do what makes you happy,
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1. May 2010, 15:46:05

TroyMclure

Posts: 1370

Women act like they sometimes hate someone, but they don't really hate them!!!!
Sometimes its the opposite.
Just try and act normal and if she's nasty to you she will make herself look like the bad person she is in the end.
Has she got any nice mates? What about double dates and the like. That might soften her up, and you might get a shag out of it.
Kill 2 birds with one stone!!



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