Online dating and weird situations.

Online dating and weird situations.

I have a weird situation.
I met a Japanese woman online about 5 days ago.

We talked about meeting up and she suggested a hotel that quite frankly is a bit out of the way.

Also, she i reluctant to talk on the phone as she is embarrased by her English apparently.

My thoughts and emails to her a few moments ago were, whats wrong with meeting in a bar in a more public place?


Also is it so wrong to want to talk to some one before you meet them.

Am i just paranoid? Maybe she just wants to meet up for sex? Or maybe i'll turn up get robbed and beaten up.

She's pretty keen. Have i tipped over into paranoid madness overlooking something good, or am i just being streetwise?
Surely a hotel is a public place though. Since we met she has removed her profile from the dating site.
I have got the horrors.

I strongly suggest using Google Translate. It may turn out that Hakamichi is Japanese for Gordon.

Or Yuka or short for Yakuza.
a few years ago i wouldn't have care, now i get scared easy.lol
My mates would just say-- yeah go and nail her. But i might be the one who gets nailed.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

I have a weird situation.
I met a Japanese woman online about 5 days ago.

We talked about meeting up and she suggested a hotel that quite frankly is a bit out of the way.

A bit hasty for a hotel.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

Also, she i reluctant to talk on the phone as she is embarrased by her English apparently.

I still hate talking on the phone, although I can't really pull the bad pronunciation excuse anymore.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

My thoughts and emails to her a few moments ago were, whats wrong with meeting in a bar in a more public place?

I'd prefer that as well, for various reasons ( you can always go somewhere else, beer selection usually beats any hotel bar etc. )

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

Also is it so wrong to want to talk to some one before you meet them.

Not at all.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

Am i just paranoid? Maybe she just wants to meet up for sex? Or maybe i'll turn up get robbed and beaten up.

Not paranoid at all, can't hurt to find out a bit more.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

She's pretty keen. Have i tipped over into paranoid madness overlooking something good, or am i just being streetwise?

From what you told us I'd say some caution is more than warranted.

Originally posted by TroyMclure:

Surely a hotel is a public place though. Since we met she has removed her profile from the dating site.
I have got the horrors.

Don't expect too much, there are all sorts of psychos out there. Don't get too paranoid either.

Cheers.

If her name is Clarabelle beware....

As long as she isn't into Oriental martial arts fulfill your curiosity and be thankful she isn't from across the pond.

Originally posted by rjhowie:

she isn't from across the pond.

Only the lost and forlorn...the others know where best.

Originally posted by rjhowie:

As long as she isn't into Oriental martial arts fulfill your curiosity and be thankful she isn't from across the pond.

A perfect topic for Mr. Howie!!!He sure do like it.In his next post,he will definitely make a long list of his entourage of "invisible"women

If you get a weird feeling I'd trust your gut on this one. Who knows if she/he is just going to rob you. Or worse if profile was taken off maybe going to make you her next stalking target. Either way I don't see the harm in meeting in a hotel but in the bar not in a room !

I prefer Rashomon or Tampopo.

Yeah that wasn't the movie I was thinking about, I saw that one, but the one I am thinking of is about that crazy chick who is a serial killer and it's generally really weird... I think it's Korean.... maybe...

Being robbed might be the best thing to come out of the meeting.

Originally posted by parkerjm:

Yeah that wasn't the movie I was thinking about, I saw that one, but the one I am thinking of is about that crazy chick who is a serial killer and it's generally really weird... I think it's Korean.... maybe...

You mean with the minigun mounted to her arm?

No, it was like.. some sadistic serial killer.. near the end of the movie she spiked a man's whiskey and then cut his feet off with piano wire... ring any bells? lol

'fraid not.

oh god this sums it up............



can i add it was a complete no no, wierdo ting tong. i need to do a blog. in fact i will ..................pauls blog

Why are you scared of meeting her in an hotel room? You probably been showing her stuffs on cam now you say you are scared? Dont forget your pepper spray.

Plus a clean pair of pants and full of jogging condoms .I hear Japenese woman like to think they are always in pain ,so i take a transalation book a long,and use in between takes ,You would not want to be done if it looks like it was forced .

i met her at the hotel. then we crossed over the M1 and went for an oasis drink.lol
gary and rj will know what imean.

meeting some bird in a service station off the M1. it cost me 10 to get there.

ting tong from fuvking tooting. apparently i was her 20th interview.

twas clearly a chinese bir(i think sojudging by the boat) and she was a bit fat, and just seemed reaally odd.
and thats me saying she was odd. i didn;t even think ablut sex. i'm not being interviewed by a fat bird!!!!!!!

Originally posted by parkerjm:

Yeah that wasn't the movie I was thinking about, I saw that one, but the one I am thinking of is about that crazy chick who is a serial killer and it's generally really weird... I think it's Korean.... maybe...

Asking about a movie about a "crazy chick who is a serial killer" is much like asking for one with a brilliant detective who is an alcoholic. I guess you mean Audition. Japanese.

Ftr, I was referring to The Machine Girl.

Anyway, this Audition thing sounds somewhat interesting. According to Wikipedia, "Audition had its share of audience walk-outs. When shown at the 2000 Rotterdam Film Festival, one enraged female viewer confronted Miike by shouting at him: "You're evil!"[2] During uncensored members-only shows at the Irish Film Institute in Dublin in 2001, some patrons collapsed in apparent shock. One audience member was rushed to the St. James's Hospital but later discharged himself.[3]"

Originally posted by jax:

Asking about a movie about a "crazy chick who is a serial killer" is much like asking for one with a brilliant detective who is an alcoholic. I guess you mean Audition. Japanese.

And yet you got it right on!