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The perfect couple! ... love really is as we think?-Part 1 A relationship to share, love is free (note here it is approached from a viewpoint open more)

Growing up and having my first experiences unrequited love everything started to get complicated as to be with a partner not only be with that person anymore, but is also connected to your world, your family, your friends, your ideals, your duties, things that people do not often take into account and that usually leads to the stereotype "of hate toward in-law" and sometimes, that world of the couple does not accept you favorably and tries reject all conceivable ways, I take this as a proof of love, if real survive these things.

While this is true as I have mentioned Kain also the belief that it becomes a little tricky because sometimes people forget the meaning of the word love or have meaning distorted by society often what they really feel is the desire to possess the other person, in a real love should look incorporated each other's life support, accompanied and above all things accepted.

While it is not necessary to agree on everything with your partner must learn to accept each other because we can not get to change the lives of our partners if we say this is like what I mentioned earlier that only want to get their owner. If you took enough time to get to know this person you fall in love with it for what it is and that is true love.

If you do, comes the real test, because love is seldom true in all respects, at least not in the sense given to the word "LOYALTY". ". For though some would weigh and disturbed, WE ALLOWED and as such we have instincts and senses that, although sometimes unconsciously, we are susceptible to visual or hormonal seduction from other members of our environment. In simple terms, we feel sexual attraction and LOVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION two totally different points, which although basic and essential components for a REAL RELATIONSHIP PARTNER may also exist separately.

This is true as long as these issues are independent and can occur without the other after all as human beings we are told that we are of the few species can have sex for pleasure and not always based on instincts reproductive, but the reality is that a couple must have both also may experience either with someone else besides your partner, it's natural to experience sexual attraction to another person but sometimes love is given given experience if both feel the other person the relationship if this obviously would present real problems if cornices an affair with that third party. But not only provides a means to end the relationship because if you built your relationship with realities, honesty, communication and real love know that sooner or later open a slip and it does not end a relationship because if you are aware that the act of loving someone does not make you the owner or vice versa does not support it from falling into debauchery but we know that infidelity has occurred since time immemorial but I respect all views, finally you decide if you want to live in a relationship where both parties do the blind that this does not happen when inside you are aware of it. That if I personally prefer a relationship with sincerity, trust and formed of realities and hypocrisies. But well leave you with very personal definitions of my brother Kain about love and sexual attraction obvious I am in complete agreement with them judge you.

LOVE: You may feel doing, parents, siblings, friends, animals, plants, to be anyone who owns or has owned body and life. And his way is always original and unique to each being, even the romantic love will never be even minimally comparison between a couple and another because they are not met these people at the same time, place, circumstance, or were experienced the same adventures their side simply because PEOPLE ARE dIFFERENT by lot or a little but different in the end. And I think it's stupid faithfully try to compare you love more, because even brotherly love or FRIENDSHIP derived from the word "love" is never the same from one brother to another, or from one of our friends to another. That is the basic principle of love.

ATTRACTION (SEX): The attraction may vary as well, in this case only speak of sex. This attraction is governed by terms biological and / or psychological basically. Bone because our senses, especially smell, someone detects the type of pheromone that drives our reproductive interest. And do not think I need to explain that this situation is not usually noticed consciously when we are victims.

On the psychological side including, but not necessarily a factor sociocultural occurs when we see a person who possesses the desired physical characteristics and "deified" for us in the subconscious as correct characteristics of the couple to procreate, or we long to possess and although our body can not for physiological reasons as close to possess would be with someone who does. And this happens more subconsciously subconscious. In theory triggered by the sense of sight.

Up leaving the field merely psychological, attraction can also be applied when someone has some kind of voluntary or involuntary trauma on sexuality, examples of this are the people that their first intercourse was with someone:

- In certain gender (hetero men who have SEX with men too from time to time or women going through the same process with other women, and this does not make them gay why do not often do that especially not fall in love OF PEOPLE OF YOUR SAME SEX)

-Of a certain age (commonly in people who have sex at a young age or lack feel paternal or maternal, people much older seeking them for sex or even as a couple)

-With certain characteristics (skin color, eye color and hair type, certain stature or physique, social status, field craft, including certain smells, and the list goes on and on, is almost infinite. Or not have noticed that there are people who are attracted by a pattern of features?

So I learned the bad way like possibly many readers that however much you love someone and to be faithful or vice versa, someone, ALWAYS "will put the horns to someone else." Although this is relative, just ugly if seen from the traditionalist regime still what is supposed to be "love". If we do this then we are lost, for they never will find the promised "True Love", but if you understand what I said earlier as definitions of love and attraction, then things are looking better, as if in a relationship is understood this from the beginning, then you will understand that you can love one person and give all the heart, attention and place it deserves as a couple, but eventually there may be a slip, an instinctive impulse, a moment of passion, but this does not imply nor is evidence that loves not who is on our side, and this situation can occur and occurs in both sides of the relationship, so it's hypocritical play the victim and say "do not do that", how many times have we seen or suffered a betrayal or abandonment of the couple by another person? How many times have we seen as suffering both the beloved and the lover (and I speak the third) by a mistake of these? Making a drama for something that is technically impossible to avoid with the passage of time, sooner or later, and definitely ONE OF THE TWO FALL.

What I mean is that we should not spoil a love that has known what it is and send us to heaven by a small error that neither oneself is exempt and how we can do, we can reach cater. And if I agree that sometimes it may not be easy to overcome but when there is love nothing is impossible and if you understand that I try to explain from the beginning, everything becomes much easier to overcome.
And personally I think that sex is to enjoy and enjoy, among friends, among people who know people and having a good time and NOT NECESSARILY IN COUPLE PLAN, but I also think there is nothing like MAKE LOVE is aperson with special that it not only gives you pleasure but also softens you, makes you feel full and happy and makes you feel like making love and having sex, are NOT THE SAME, and of course if you have it so special, you have to know to value and foremost protect their best.

I can say that I do not seek an open relationship looking for a strong relationship in which most things are shared bed or a title but I want a relationship with honesty and realism as there is nothing wrong with having sex with another person outside of your relationship I do not mean that I spend sleeping with everyone rather than just'm realistic and honest that eventually happens and we do not own our partner came to share not to own Meditate and hope your opinion on the comment bar or messages in the module for registered users thanks for taking the time to read us.

The perfect couple! ... love really is as we think?-Part 2 LOVE AS A SOURCE OF INSPIRATION. LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE
(Note here addresses the issue from a slightly more traditional side)

Love is overrated. Love seems to buy now or shops in Beverly Hills Bijan. It is a fashion item that promotes the entertainment, politics, and is proportional to the amount of money they have lovers.
Love in our time has not only been overvalued, but also has been underestimated, paradoxically. Love is created and destroyed in the XXI century ... born of sight ... in the portfolio, and dies when you're just a fucking. So in brief. That's how real.
The day Freud told us that everything was related to sexuality, including love, we all understood that everything was related to our sexual activity. We did not understand sexuality as all moments and feelings we spent every day, moment by moment.

And today it is when I, the latter with moral courage to talk about it, I feel in this table to chat a bit with you about what to me, love means.
From my perspective, love is not created nor destroyed. Is there present. And sometimes you discover. But ever created.
Just sit down and think. Can we describe or define what we feel for a mother as a child? Can we define what we feel for our brother or our sister? Maybe you want to tell them, but .... Is it really love? ...
Love, also usually discovered not only in the field of everyday life with your family or your friends ... usually discovered in a friendship, or simply open or close the eyes. I overheard someone say that when living things reproduce, they are ALMOST identical copies of people and that's why sometimes we feel that need for a soul mate who actually does exist.

Are there perfect couples?
For me, no. Yes I believe in happiness, in monogamy and life partner heterocentrist as a model but as a model by which your heart dictates who you want to be. Who you really love, but whom eye ... LOVE ... SAY whom no love ...
Love on the first date, it is possible. But not in the first lying. Or at least I think so. While panting between his legs, I can tell you that I love and spend my life with him, but ... I'm being honest with me? ... NO.
It's durable, it is discovered over time ... or that is not discovered. It is nonsense to believe that the mere fact of bringing together 10 years, and why you love. It is completely false. At that time, could have learned and recognized that there really love them as a couple.

Is love is sought? I think not. Does it come alone? I do not know.
What I do know is that if everyone were to adopt love as a way of daily life, couples, families, and as human beings. We would live in it. A world of humans. Or as Lennon would want it to be ...


GIVE PEACE A CHANCE! GIVE LOVE A CHANCE!

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