Friday, 11. December 2009, 03:38:38
Northwestern Pennsylvania is where I grew up. I left the state at age 19 for California, and I haven't lived in Pennsylvania since then. Although I maintained close ties with my immediate family in Pennsylvania, the considerable distance between myself and my childhood home made it difficult for me to develop and maintain a close relationship with my extended family.

My cousin, Deanna
I now live in Ohio which is just West of Pennsylvania. When my brother died this past spring, my cousin Deanna was a great help to me. Among other things, she put me up a number of times when I came to the area for my brother's funeral and to deal with his estate. Deanna is about 70 years old now.
Her husband had a twin sister. He was named Wayne after my dad, and his twin sister was named Dorothy after my mom. Sadly her husband has Alzheimer's now, so he lives in a nursing home. My cousin Deanna visits him almost every day, and spends many hours with him each visit. She even brings weights along with her to assist him with his physical therapy.
At any rate since then we have been corresponding, and we are trying to stay in better touch. To that end, my daughter (Dee) and I drove there for a visit this week. It's about a three and half hour drive from my home. While there we also visited with my nephews, took in an alpaca farm, and had pie in a diner that was decorated with taxidermal displays.
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