Wednesday, 27. December 2006, 18:27:30
Every morning, the cook comes to our house to make "rotis". She also works as a full cook in one other house and as a housemaid in four other houses.She has a son and a daughter aged 15 and 7 respectively, while she herself is about 35.
She is the sole breadwinner of her family. Her family stays on the poverty line, and she herself may never be able to get above the line. But, she is working a seven-day week every week of the year, so that her children will get the opportunity to conquer the line.
Her son is in the tenth standard, and her daughter in the second. Her son rarely attends school, while her daughter is diligence personified. They do not realise the blood and sweat of the mother.
Tuitions for her son, school fees, daily transport, and food and house for three are deftly managed within Rs 3500 in a city like Mumbai. For comparison, a months supply of 2-litre milk a day, comes to around Rs 1250. Monthly rent of a room in the slum area is Rs 700.
What is noteworthy, is the fact that she is a true heroine. Her children may not understand it now, nor may many people whom she comes in contact with everyday. She is striving real hard to make a better future for her family, while her husband gave up on it and took to drinking.
She is illiterate, and today has little chance of becoming literate. And so, she leaves no stone unturned to make her children literate. And all this, with a smile on her face.
Every mother, the catalyst of dehiscence..
Saturday, 7. October 2006, 16:46:08
meaning, name
A Philosophic Interpretation of 'Unmesh'
'Unmesh' is the opening of eyes. It is verily, expansion of the cosmic consciousness, which helps a seeker to understand the status and dynamics of 'will, knowledge and action'. It is an experience of a mental state, which can be characterised by the subjective and objective understanding. The force behind 'Unmesh' is a sanction from the eyes of saints and seers, who identified themselves with the triene of time, place and situation. It is a timeless knowledge, which is pure in 'thought mind', surveying the global view on the basis of reason and intellect.
'Unmesh' can help us to see the greater truth around us. It can act as a hidden call to foresee delight, when our souls will be charged with the glory of the ancient times. All the murky clouds are tend to change the human destiny, but Unmesh, the early dawn leads us to see what is substantial, within the frame work of our mental set-up. Through the opening of the eye, every glance will pass through the ray of our heritage, still vibrant in our psyche, to analyse the matrix of apparent time.
'Unmesh' - the apparent eye will find the clue for survival through 'Jnanam' the knowledge portion for the development of the physical consciousness which is 'Pranam' or life force.
Saturday, 12. August 2006, 20:00:07
dehiscence, journey, mind
Kindergarten to school, school to junior college, from there to engineering college, and from there to the first job. More or less, most of the decisions during these transitions were taken thanks to the HERD MENTALITY.
But after exactly 11 months into my first job, I realised, suddenly, that this was not what I really wanted to do the rest of my life. Kind of the first time, I really thought about what I was doing in life, and what is it that I would like to do in the future.
So, I quit the very next day. It is 14 months today since that day. In between, I thought some, I read a lot. I taught some Maths, and learnt a lot of French. I played a whole lot of badminton, and became passionate about my digicam. Met superb friends, designed intellectual classes.
Today, I am walking to I don't really know where, but I am walking with confidence. My state is best described by the words on my favourite childhood poster; " I don't know where I am going, but I am on my way."
Herein begins my journey into dehiscence.
Friday, 9. June 2006, 03:24:01
dehiscence
Aujourd'hui j'essaie d'écrire en français.
J'ai commençé apprendre cette langue il y a 10 mois. Mais encore, je ne peux pas penser facilement en français. Beaucoup de temps, je traduis d'anglais vers français les idées dans ma tête.
Donc, pour moi, la française est déjà une langue étrangère. D'aujourd'hui, j'ai décidé de devenir quelqu'un qui peut parler facilement cette langue.
Bonnes chances à moi!
Friday, 24. March 2006, 10:51:57
dehiscence
I WISH YOU...
I wish you many things good
And also a few things bad
For one gives you sweet fruit
And the other, a strong root
So that you have stars in your hand
And yet your feet still feel the sand
Ergo set not your standards low
Only before God do bow
Hence dear friend, make strong your roots
For strong roots bear best of the fruits
Hence I wish you many things ..
Some good some bad
Tuesday, 21. March 2006, 19:10:09
dehiscence
I am on a sabbatical since last june and have spent most of the year learning, enjoying and most importantly thinking. Thinking about how I would like to lead my life.
Here is a gist of what I have thought about.
Every ten or twelve months take up something new to learn.Till now I have learnt swimming, the guitar, French. And now I am thinking about photography.
Discover my country.Trek, backpack, travel and breathe in the life and the sights and sounds of India.
Make a library.Buy one book from each salary and collect vibrant books from as many topics as possible.
Maintain equilibrium.Give time for professional, personal and social life. One should not develop at the cost of the other. Because in the long term, short term profits become losses.
Smile.Spread this contagious disease everyday.
Every day would be a dehiscence.
Saturday, 11. March 2006, 10:41:08
dehiscence
Since I could read, books have been my companions. Most were good, and a handful have touched my heart in the way only a loved one can.
The complete works of Swami Vivekananda.
Each time I read any volume, I can actually feel the powerful wisdom exuding from it, even a hundred years after the master gave the speeches. I never cease to wonder what the effect would have been on the people, who actually listened to his incisive oratory a century ago.
Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach.
The book captures the pluck and the diligence of the seagull Jonathan, and somewhere deep down, tells us of the seagull in our hearts waiting to fly across the infinite skies.
Maverick written by Ricardo Semler.
Maverick shows the amazing changes that can be brought about, by constantly questioning old beliefs and by believing in people. I never knew that democracy could be so rejuvenating.
To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee.
"The first" book which touched me. Life in one summer vacation, as seen from an eight-year old's eyes. And how she sees her father Atticus Finch stand up and fight for a black fellow-being against the whole white commmunity in court.
The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James Waller.
WHAT DO I SAY OF THIS BOOK? Some books have to be read to be believed.
Exodus by Leon Uris.
The story of Israel. The story of Barak Ben Canaan and Ari Ben Canaan. The story of the love of one's country and the story of silent determination.
Each page, a dehiscence.
Friday, 10. March 2006, 09:38:33
dehiscence
I do not know if this is the same with everyone, but this is how it has been with me.
One legally becomes an adult at the age of 18, but I became an adult at the age of 22 years and some odd months.
I could drive a car at 18, I could vote for my country and my vote had the same value as every other person's vote. But I did not feel grown-up at all.
When I passed out of Engineering, and was into my job for about four months, did I start realising that my vote really counts in a free country like me. To be grown-up is to be able to make your own decisions, and to be completely responsible for them.
It is OK to fail, it is OK to succeed. What matters is that you get up and leave both of these behind to discover something novel each day.
And the most important thing that I discovered is that 'To be grown-up is to ENJOY and savour each moment that life offers'.
To be grown-up is to be inquisitive like a child, to be patient as a grandparent, to be vivacious as a teenager.
Every moment is a small dehiscence.