My OperaSkills of Effective Listening
Friday, October 23, 2009 10:04:42 AM
We all believe we listen well and yet many times we feel others are not listening to us. However, listening goes in both directions--aswell as you may believe you are listening, how often have you completely forgotten what was said to you? There are a few ways to become a more effective listener.
1. Make Eye Contact
Make eye contact with the person who is talking to you. People put out visual clues when they talk that add to the conversation and meaning of their words.
2. Stop Talking
You can't listen and talk at the same time and completely receive the meaning of the other person's words. Wait your turn and take in what has been said to you before you make a reply back.
3. React Without Words
Let the other person know you are listening through physical reactions, such as head nods, smiles, frowns and eye movement. These gestures may also help to let the speaker know whether you are accurately absorbing their words.
4. Concentrate
Concentrate on what the other person is saying. Clear your mind of other thoughts and emotions and focus on the conversation at hand. Be in the moment of that conversation, not thinking about what you want to say back.
5. Act As A Listener
Behave as an effective listener. The more you continue to behave as a listener, the more you will be an effective listener.
Source: http://www.ehow.com/
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