My OperaNew Outlook on Life...
Friday, April 21, 2006 10:42:12 AM
What are the most important things in life?
I think this is a question that most people ask themselves at some point in their lives. It's all about prioritising and making sure that you fulfill your hopes and dreams. I used to be very different and would think about other people before myself. Little did I realise was that you have to be confident and happy within yourself before you can even think about making other people happy.
Everybody's prorities will be different, but essentially the process is all the same. So anyway - I have been think about this and what my priorites are and how can I make myself naturally happy.
So, what is important to me - list 5 points?
So they are my 5 most important things in my life that will contribute to my happiness! I think when it comes to the important people in ones life, the most important thing to remember that is in order to maintain a healty and happy relationship, you must have a high element of trust.
As many of you know, a while back in August of last year, Jon and I decided to go our separate ways... If I was honest with myself, I didn't fully trust him as he had said and done things that led to this. Nothing major, they were only little things, but they were enought to break up a 2 year relationship. So after spending 3 months with another guy who clearly had no trust in me, I started to realise that the way I was feeling was probably how Jon was feeling when we were together. And due to this happeneing, I feel that the break was a message and meant to happen in order to correct my ways. We are now very happy together and I can happily say I am in love for real.
As for friends and family, again it's all a case of trust. If a person dents my trust, then it takes a very long time for them to regain it. Although this may be a flaw in my personality, but I tend to always trust people upon first meetiong them - I give everyone a chance, but I believe everyone deserves a chance and no one should be judged before given a fair go... I have had many people hurt me and take advantage of me, and although I have not many real friends, I can safely say that the ones that I do have are for keeps. I would consider myself as trustworthy and I am available for my friends whenever they need me... It's what friends do...
On the work front, it's a case of doing what you have to do. If you have problems, then they should be voiced immediately. In the past I have joined companies where I have loved working at until a certain someone disrupts it. I always used to back dawn and leave. I have changed and any problems I have these days I say out loud. It's pointless keeping things inside - it only destroys you as a person. So be happy - say how you feel! Then way of life will come from a happy job!!!
So there you have it - my new outlook on life!
Ciao
FB xx
I think this is a question that most people ask themselves at some point in their lives. It's all about prioritising and making sure that you fulfill your hopes and dreams. I used to be very different and would think about other people before myself. Little did I realise was that you have to be confident and happy within yourself before you can even think about making other people happy.
Everybody's prorities will be different, but essentially the process is all the same. So anyway - I have been think about this and what my priorites are and how can I make myself naturally happy.
So, what is important to me - list 5 points?
- My family
- Jon
- My friends
- My work
- Way of life
So they are my 5 most important things in my life that will contribute to my happiness! I think when it comes to the important people in ones life, the most important thing to remember that is in order to maintain a healty and happy relationship, you must have a high element of trust.
As many of you know, a while back in August of last year, Jon and I decided to go our separate ways... If I was honest with myself, I didn't fully trust him as he had said and done things that led to this. Nothing major, they were only little things, but they were enought to break up a 2 year relationship. So after spending 3 months with another guy who clearly had no trust in me, I started to realise that the way I was feeling was probably how Jon was feeling when we were together. And due to this happeneing, I feel that the break was a message and meant to happen in order to correct my ways. We are now very happy together and I can happily say I am in love for real.
As for friends and family, again it's all a case of trust. If a person dents my trust, then it takes a very long time for them to regain it. Although this may be a flaw in my personality, but I tend to always trust people upon first meetiong them - I give everyone a chance, but I believe everyone deserves a chance and no one should be judged before given a fair go... I have had many people hurt me and take advantage of me, and although I have not many real friends, I can safely say that the ones that I do have are for keeps. I would consider myself as trustworthy and I am available for my friends whenever they need me... It's what friends do...
On the work front, it's a case of doing what you have to do. If you have problems, then they should be voiced immediately. In the past I have joined companies where I have loved working at until a certain someone disrupts it. I always used to back dawn and leave. I have changed and any problems I have these days I say out loud. It's pointless keeping things inside - it only destroys you as a person. So be happy - say how you feel! Then way of life will come from a happy job!!!
So there you have it - my new outlook on life!
Ciao
FB xx
