My OperaThe mother of turn arounds...
Monday, November 28, 2005 9:33:48 AM
Okay... I have changed my mind once more and this time it is for good!
I was wondering if Pete was maybe to one as I was upset over him. But to be honest with you that post ws made one day before my second date with Jon! So I guess I hadn't made up my mind at all!
Anyway... I have been very slack at updating and things are now going to change!!!
I believe that things happen for a reason in this life. I thought that my split from Jon was the worst thing that could possibly ever happen to me... But during that time, I met someone else, thought they were amazing but soon realised they weren't all they were cracked up to be and far from it! I also found my independence and my real friends.
Since getting back in contact with Jon, I have been a much happier person that he is back in my life. When he asked me to get back together with him, I was speechless and over the moon! I was confused at first as I was still with Pete... But, after a lot of unhappy run in's with Pete, I realised that Jon was the one for me. He made me happy - He challenged me mentally... And despite the problems we had in the past, I realised that the time we had spent apart was a good one and it had made me realise a lot of things, most of all that I need my friends and that JOn was far from being that bad! In fact, he is my soulmate and I say that sincerely and from the bottom of my heart.
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The Date...
I met Jon on Thursday. It was lovely to see him! (Again!) Our plan was to go outdoor ice skating, but I got sent home from work for being hung over and he was going to belgium the next day, so I didn't want him to get a cold! So we just went to dinner and had a couple of drinks at his local pub... It was a lovely night and the food was delicious!
Friday...
I met up with Harry, who is a friend of Tim who is a friend of Jon... lol! He's 19, but very mature and funny! We had a couple of drinks after I met with Pete to collect my money. Pete was cold and really horrible to me! He was supposed to be taking me out to dinner that night to give me my money after I had a drink with Harry, but he'd rathe go out with his work colleagues. It was supposed to be our goodbye dinner as in 3 months he had NEVER - Yep NEVER taken me out! But that didn't happen and he just treated me like shit for the rest of the night! Harry and I went to meet Tim and it was a genuinely nice night!
Saturday...
The rudeness continued - I got 2 missed calls and a nasty message from pete at 1.30am. I called him back and we spoke. He just kept going on about random shit as he does when he's had too many! He told me he'd be up before 12 to bring round my stuff that's at his!!! Was he? NO!!! Surprise surprise. This is no exageration, but Pete lets me down about 90% of the time! He never sticks to his word and he's terrible at taking responsibility for things which irritates me soooooo much! He'll just turn round and say f*&@ off to me!!! Which is another massive disrespectful thing to say to a woman! (If you can call me that hee hee!)
I eventually got hold of him at 1.20pm and he said that he couldn't talk as he was about to throw up and that he's call me back. half an hour wen past and I had still not heard from him so I called him - no answer - I called a few more times, then I got a text saying that he couldn't talk as everytime he spoke he threw up! I left it 2 mins and I called back! What a surprise - My phone flashed up "call waiting" - He was on the phone! The guy is a compulsive liar at times - That just pissed me off beyond belief. He didn't pick up for ages - Then I called him from my mum's chip - He picked up!!! I was so angry! we argued a bit, then I let him go and go to sleep. He said he'd drop my stuff round later on in the afternoon.
I text him saying that I would come to his and give him a hand (yes... nice person!!!), which I did - On the way over, he texts me and tells me that he's locked out of the house. How convenient! He had to break the lock apparently! (Looked fine wehn I got to his!) He told me he couldn't come to mine with all my stuff... By this time I was FUMING - I had just travelled from South London to East London to get my stuff (AND it was just to help him!) and now he was telling me that he couldn't help me!
Anyway, I got to his and said that I had had a long trip, and could I have a cup of tea... He said to me "Uhhhh, not really, I am very tired!" I was speechless! I had just come ALL that way for nothing, because of him and now he was denying me a cup of tea? He followed it up with "I have no milk anyway!" So I said fine, the least you can do is get me a drink! So he did! I tried to speak to him, beut every time he just told me to F off... charming!!! Eventually, I said to him, "Do you REALLY expect me to drag this massive bag across London by myself?" to which he answered "Well I am not doing it today!" - The bag comes up to my lower ribs and is massive - I am 5'4 and weigh 7 stone! lol! He's 6' and weighs 15 Stone and even HE struggled to take it outside!!! I got 4 houses down the road and burst into tears - I called my Dad and he told me to take it back and he'd help me the next day! So I did and I went home to go out with the girls...
Saturday night was amazing. I went out with Olivia and Joanna. It was a great night! I also met one of my idols - Freddie Ljungberg from The Arsenal! I was so happy! lol! So a rubbish day and an amazing night!!!
Sunday...
Sunday morning, I gave Pete the chance to bring round my stuff... Which he did - He tried it on when he was round, but he was going no where!!! lol! Anyway - I chilled out at home and then I got a much awaited text!
I was over the moon - I couldn't stop grinning! So I replied:
He then asked me out that night and I was so excited, I couldn't contain myself! ha ha!
So we went to the cinema then back to his to chill out! It was really nice - He helped me put some tunes on my phone and it was a memorable night! So I know that I am 100% for Jon. Pete has deadened me... I can't live with someone that treats me with such low resepct - especially when I have been there for him, kept him going financially and given him my all!!!
So... there we have it! The mother of all turn arounds and the mother of all updates! ha ha!
FB xx
I was wondering if Pete was maybe to one as I was upset over him. But to be honest with you that post ws made one day before my second date with Jon! So I guess I hadn't made up my mind at all!
Anyway... I have been very slack at updating and things are now going to change!!!
I believe that things happen for a reason in this life. I thought that my split from Jon was the worst thing that could possibly ever happen to me... But during that time, I met someone else, thought they were amazing but soon realised they weren't all they were cracked up to be and far from it! I also found my independence and my real friends.
Since getting back in contact with Jon, I have been a much happier person that he is back in my life. When he asked me to get back together with him, I was speechless and over the moon! I was confused at first as I was still with Pete... But, after a lot of unhappy run in's with Pete, I realised that Jon was the one for me. He made me happy - He challenged me mentally... And despite the problems we had in the past, I realised that the time we had spent apart was a good one and it had made me realise a lot of things, most of all that I need my friends and that JOn was far from being that bad! In fact, he is my soulmate and I say that sincerely and from the bottom of my heart.
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The Date...
I met Jon on Thursday. It was lovely to see him! (Again!) Our plan was to go outdoor ice skating, but I got sent home from work for being hung over and he was going to belgium the next day, so I didn't want him to get a cold! So we just went to dinner and had a couple of drinks at his local pub... It was a lovely night and the food was delicious!
Friday...
I met up with Harry, who is a friend of Tim who is a friend of Jon... lol! He's 19, but very mature and funny! We had a couple of drinks after I met with Pete to collect my money. Pete was cold and really horrible to me! He was supposed to be taking me out to dinner that night to give me my money after I had a drink with Harry, but he'd rathe go out with his work colleagues. It was supposed to be our goodbye dinner as in 3 months he had NEVER - Yep NEVER taken me out! But that didn't happen and he just treated me like shit for the rest of the night! Harry and I went to meet Tim and it was a genuinely nice night!
Saturday...
The rudeness continued - I got 2 missed calls and a nasty message from pete at 1.30am. I called him back and we spoke. He just kept going on about random shit as he does when he's had too many! He told me he'd be up before 12 to bring round my stuff that's at his!!! Was he? NO!!! Surprise surprise. This is no exageration, but Pete lets me down about 90% of the time! He never sticks to his word and he's terrible at taking responsibility for things which irritates me soooooo much! He'll just turn round and say f*&@ off to me!!! Which is another massive disrespectful thing to say to a woman! (If you can call me that hee hee!)
I eventually got hold of him at 1.20pm and he said that he couldn't talk as he was about to throw up and that he's call me back. half an hour wen past and I had still not heard from him so I called him - no answer - I called a few more times, then I got a text saying that he couldn't talk as everytime he spoke he threw up! I left it 2 mins and I called back! What a surprise - My phone flashed up "call waiting" - He was on the phone! The guy is a compulsive liar at times - That just pissed me off beyond belief. He didn't pick up for ages - Then I called him from my mum's chip - He picked up!!! I was so angry! we argued a bit, then I let him go and go to sleep. He said he'd drop my stuff round later on in the afternoon.
I text him saying that I would come to his and give him a hand (yes... nice person!!!), which I did - On the way over, he texts me and tells me that he's locked out of the house. How convenient! He had to break the lock apparently! (Looked fine wehn I got to his!) He told me he couldn't come to mine with all my stuff... By this time I was FUMING - I had just travelled from South London to East London to get my stuff (AND it was just to help him!) and now he was telling me that he couldn't help me!
Anyway, I got to his and said that I had had a long trip, and could I have a cup of tea... He said to me "Uhhhh, not really, I am very tired!" I was speechless! I had just come ALL that way for nothing, because of him and now he was denying me a cup of tea? He followed it up with "I have no milk anyway!" So I said fine, the least you can do is get me a drink! So he did! I tried to speak to him, beut every time he just told me to F off... charming!!! Eventually, I said to him, "Do you REALLY expect me to drag this massive bag across London by myself?" to which he answered "Well I am not doing it today!" - The bag comes up to my lower ribs and is massive - I am 5'4 and weigh 7 stone! lol! He's 6' and weighs 15 Stone and even HE struggled to take it outside!!! I got 4 houses down the road and burst into tears - I called my Dad and he told me to take it back and he'd help me the next day! So I did and I went home to go out with the girls...
Saturday night was amazing. I went out with Olivia and Joanna. It was a great night! I also met one of my idols - Freddie Ljungberg from The Arsenal! I was so happy! lol! So a rubbish day and an amazing night!!!
Sunday...
Sunday morning, I gave Pete the chance to bring round my stuff... Which he did - He tried it on when he was round, but he was going no where!!! lol! Anyway - I chilled out at home and then I got a much awaited text!
Hi Swanny, hope you had a nice weekend. I'm back now and have brought you back 2 presents
I was over the moon - I couldn't stop grinning! So I replied:
Welcome home Pea. 2 presents, who's a lucky girl then! So when do I get to see them? Thank you
He then asked me out that night and I was so excited, I couldn't contain myself! ha ha!
So we went to the cinema then back to his to chill out! It was really nice - He helped me put some tunes on my phone and it was a memorable night! So I know that I am 100% for Jon. Pete has deadened me... I can't live with someone that treats me with such low resepct - especially when I have been there for him, kept him going financially and given him my all!!!
So... there we have it! The mother of all turn arounds and the mother of all updates! ha ha!
FB xx
