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过去的一些事情都会留下记忆，偶尔想起来也是正常的，而且适当地回想过去，也是一种总结。但是如果过分沉浸于过去的某个情境或某件事情，甚至因为此影响到现在的生活，就大可不必了。
就记忆而言，人要想活得快乐，不仅要学会记住该记的，也要学会忘记该忘的，特别是一些对自己并不理想的内容。
忘记过去的不愉快，简单有效的办法是重视现在和未来。以现在的时间为坐标，把你的关注点、关注力从以前向现在、向今后移动，多在现在和未来里找亮度，就能帮助人把现在过得愉快、过得有盼头。
具体的办法：下次脑子里再出现过去的回忆时，站起来走一圈、做点手工事情、找人说说话、大幅度活动身体比如抡抡胳膊踢踢腿等等，都可以帮你转移关注点，把思维拉回到现在。
未来的好日子还长着呢，不愉快的回忆不会也不可能影响你一生，除非是你故意想让它影响你。你想吗？相信你不会。

(Here is my translation)
It is very normal to remember the things before, from time to time. Memories can help us to make reflection and summary. However, if we immersed in the memory of one thing or one flame of mind, the memory would affect our daily life, and that would value nothing.

Not only is it very important to learn how to remember things to be remembered, but also to learn how to forget things to be forgot, especially those unpleasant.

The best and effective way to forget those unpleasant is to focus on the moment and the future.

Make the moment be your coordinate, draw your attention and energy from the past to now and the future and discover brightness in your life now, if do so, you will find that no one is happier than you and your life is full of hope.

Next time when the memory troubles you, here is some tips to make yourself be easy and back to now. Just stand up and walk around, do some things at hand, talk to someone or do exercises, for example, raise up your arms or legs. All these could help you get rid of tiresome memories.

Life is enough happy in the future, those unpleasant memories could not stop you, unless you want it do, do you? You DON'T.

Some friends say they haven't seen my new posts here for a longggggg time, sorry for that.

I am busy with work these days, exhausted. Desperately want to be relaxed and have a good long journey, maybe some one accompanying, or only me alone.

The sun rises up from the East and sets down in the West, day after day, "Every day is a new day!" I said to myself, though I didn't feel how new it is to me. Yeah,,,maybe tomorrow, tomorrow...

This morning when I was on the bus going to the company, I noticed a wisdom inside of the bus, "以清检律己,以恩信待人, 以夷坦去群疑, 以礼让汰惨急." Try to undersdand, I said to myself.

过分讲究方法和技巧，而不愿意下真功夫。语言的运用是一种技能，而这种技能不是靠技巧能获得的。太讲究方法和技巧会被其占用很多的时间和精力，而对学习的内容本身投入较少的时间和精力，因此反而会影响学习的效果。
过分将就速度和效率，不愿花时间经常重复复习学过的内容。语言运用是一种技能，技能只能靠熟能生巧，要不断重复才会熟练，只有熟练了才会形成一种不加思索的技能。
三天打鱼两天晒网，没有恒心，不能长期坚持学习。技能的额数联要有一个过程。在这个过程中会遇到各种困难，但不能向困难低头，要坚持不懈的反复学习，持之以恒。
不重视听力训练。语言是有声的，我们对语言的感受首先是语言的声音作用于我们的大脑。如果不练习听力，只是默默的阅读和背单词，其结果是不仅听不懂别人讲外语，而且阅读水平也难以提高。
只学而不用。语言的实践性很强，如果只学不用，就永远也学不好。我们学语言的目的就是为了应用，要学会在用中学习，这样才能提高兴趣，达到好的学习效果。

I like plum blossom for reasons that i couldn't tell. These days I have been searching for the pics of plum blossom in snow, but no result till this exciting time:yes: one of my friends Sean sent me some treasuring pics (all are collected in my photo list here in myopera). Really want to thank him, how excited i am when i saw those treasures!