Posts tagged with "Prayer"
Friday, 2. May 2008, 05:03:10
Prayer, Pallottine, UAC
Apostles for TodayFundamental Rule no. 30
Jesus, infinite love, wishes that the sinner convert and live
St. Vincent Pallotti wrote:
Our Lord Jesus Christ in his final agony wished to suffer the greatest anguish of all, namely, that of being abandoned by his Father, so that the sinner convert and live even though he deserve to be abandoned by Grace because of his sins. Therefore, for love of our Lord Jesus Christ we should be ready and happy to bear each and every suffering in order to obtain the conversion of poor sinners. This too must be one of the characteristics of our Union (OOCC III, p. 79-80).
Through this point of the Fundamental Rule, St. Vincent invites us to enter into a journey of conversion and to accept God's saving gesture of reconciliation and of pardon. The response to the offer of salvation is born of God's infinite love and mercy for the person. The salvific gestures with which God shows his mercy and his great love for the human sinner are the passion, death and resurrection of his Son and the sacrament of baptism. Through the sacrifice of his Son on the Cross God makes the sinner just, and in baptism he gives him in Christ his love.
We should remember that the activity of God in the Paschal mystery of Christ is born of his gratuitous love. This is how St. Paul describes this love of God for us sinners:
"The love of God has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit which has been given us. We were still helpless when at his appointed moment Christ died for sinful men. It is not easy to die even for a good man - though of course for someone really worthy, a man might be prepared to die - but what proves that God loves us is that Christ died for us while we were still sinners." (Rom 5, 5-8).
God's merciful ways become real in the welcome he extends to the sinful person, even though he has a radical aversion for the sin.
The sinful action, even though it may signify a rejection of the love of God and indeed of God himself, cannot annul the divine-human relationship of communion with which the person was called into existence. God's fidelity to his loving project is a guarantee of his benevolent attitude towards the person even though he/she is a sinner. God desires reconciliation and this is both made manifest and fulfilled in Christ's Paschal mystery. In the death of Christ on the Cross God shows that he has taken sin seriously and has directly confronted it: the death and resurrection of Christ is God's response to the sinner.
St. Vincent saw sin as a refusal to respond to the gifts of God:
"You, o God, source of grace, know that all of my life has been an opposition to your gifts … My God, sin, indeed each and every sin, is infinite evil …" (OOCC X, 295-296).
The mercy of God is shown very clearly in that God does not condemn the sinner, rather he welcomes and loves him/her so that he/she may convert and live: "God loved us with so much love that he was generous with his mercy: when we were dead through our sins he brought us to life with Christ"
( Eph. 2, 4-5).
Mercy calls to conversion
St. Vincent Pallotti shows us the way, he teaches us the Christian attitude towards the sinner:
"love, patience and gentleness must increase … they should not approve of what he does, or says, but they should feel pity for him, and with Christian compassion and with committed charity and industrious love they should cooperate in his conversion"
(OOCC I, p 299).
It is fundamental that one rediscover the relationship with God as a story of God's fidelity in the face of man's infidelity; God seeks out the person, he wishes to be reconciled with him/her and to save him/her.
There is a great deal of thoughtlessness in the attitude of people with regard to sin. A true sense or consciousness of sin is lacking today, a greater awareness of God's merciful love is necessary.
The love of God for sinners is expressed clearly and with tenderness in the parable of the Prodigal Son
(Lk. 15, 11-32). It is said that the Father is anxiously awaiting the return of his younger son, he runs out to meet him, he embraces him, kisses him, pardons him, he takes from his hand his list of sins, he celebrates the return and he gives him back his sense of being a son, and through his affection, he transmits to the son a desire to take up his life again
(v. 20-32).
The Father is not content to merely welcome his son who came home, with love; he wants a feast, a celebration and he organizes it to honour him.
The celebration was a great banquet (
Lk. 15, 22). The food for this banquet is, according to Pallotti,
"…the true and glorious body and blood of Jesus Christ, …" (OOCC XII, p. 188). "In the Eucharist it is not merely the divine Person of the Incarnate Word who is present, but the Father and the Holy Spirit are also there. Thus He (God), mercifully nourishes me, and destroys my infinite evilness…"
(OOCC X, 451-452).
"God destroys in me all my sins and all the consequences of my sins. He becomes nourishment so as to transform me into Him to the point that I am like God, and being one with God, all that is me is totally annihilated, and God is all in me"
(OOCC X, 698).
A community of reconciled sinners
St. Vincent, when faced with the experience of knowing himself to be "nothing and sin", also had deep experiences of God's mercy, he savoured the joy of forgiveness, the outpouring of mercy and all the expressions of God's loving favour.
Pallotti could address God as "my mercy" because he had lived experience of the mercy of God, so much so that he would exclaim: "My Jesus, my judge, who died so as not to condemn me to death!"
(OOCC X, 668)
We Christians are called to show that we have experienced the grace of God's mercy, a mercy which creates new attitudes and relationships. While there is condemnation of sin and of injustice there is a welcome for the sinner, mutual forgiveness, a refusal to judge …
Conversion is both a necessary and on-going attitude in the life of the Christian. A Christian is one who converts to Jesus Christ, who reveals the Father, a Christian lives life in a new manner which is to see reality with new eyes, eyes that know oneself to be a sinner, but one who is saved, a child of God, who is loved and forgiven.
While on the path of conversion St. Vincent Pallotti wrote:
"…take courage in God, and with trust in the intercession of the Mother of Mercy resolve to convert and indeed, convert …"(OOCC 13, p 699). For Vincent
"…the Marian month was experienced as a most efficacious means to obtain conversion and the sanctification of many souls" (OOCC I, p 239) and he invites each one of us to a true conversion:
"…be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect. O children of the Church if one is a sinner, turn to Mary and never loose confidence." (OOCC XIII, p 699); and
"…the more you see that the conversion (of a person) is difficult the more you should increase your prayers, and you are to do it with great confidence and you will be able to prepare (the person) to die as a sincere and holy penitent" (OOCC I, p 298).
Mercy and conversion are inseparable.
God does not desire the death of the sinner, but that he/she convert and live!
The Word of God leads us to reflect …
- Lk 15, 3-7 - Lk 10, 29-37 - Lk 7, 1-50
- Lk 15, 11-32 - Jn 8, 1-11 - Lk 19, 1-10
Topics for reflection
(personal or as a group)
- - What is my attitude towards those who are far from the faith or who live in a disordered manner? Do I put into practice the invitation of Jesus to show mercy in fraternal correction?
- - Mercy is the fundamental characteristic of God which Jesus revealed to us. Do I accept God's mercy as the path to a new life of conversion?
- - How often do I approach the Sacrament of Reconciliation, do I receive it with a true desire to be renewed?
- - Is the forgiveness that the Lord gives to me a cause of joy and does it lead me to a greater commitment for the good of the community?
Prayer to the Queen of Apostles
O holy Virgin Mary, Queen of Apostles and advocate of the human race, we humbly pray to you: intercede for us with your only Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, so that with the grace of the Holy Spirit we may be courageous in increasing, spreading and defending faith and charity.
Answer our prayers. In your mercy accept our petitions. Deign to obtain for us the grace, so that having fought the good fight, having finished the race we may keep the faith, and so may be among the ranks of the holy Apostles to receive the crown of righteousness
(cf. 2 Tim. 4,7-8), through Christ our Lord, Amen.
Tuesday, 1. April 2008, 06:16:46
UAC, Pallottine, Prayer
Apostles for Today
Fundamental Rule 29
Thirst for the glory of God and the salvation of souls
St. Vincent Pallotti wrote:
Our Lord Jesus Christ while in his agony said "I thirst" (Jn. 19,28), with this phrase he wished to express not only natural (physical) thirst, but more his mystical thirst for the glory of the Father and the salvation of souls. Therefore, for love of our Lord Jesus Christ, we are to make use of all the spiritual means at our disposal in order that our thirst for the greater glory of God and for the well-being of souls, be alive and growing in us each day until death. This perfect and growing thirst should be one of the distinctive characteristics of all members of the Union. (OOCC III, page 57-58)
Reflection
When the executioners heard Jesus say “I thirst”, they thought he was asking for vinegar to relieve his pain. Jesus accepted this humane gesture of pity when they held up a damp sponge for him, but he merely moistened his lips and refused to drink. With this gesture he wanted to acknowledge human mercy but, at the same time, show that the real thirst of the heart cannot be satisfied simply with worldly means.
The “I thirst” that Jesus uttered acquires paramount significance once we realise the circumstances. Jesus is about to die, he is fully aware of his condition. On the one hand, he is in agony and every single word has to break through the barrier of excruciating pain and deadly exhaustion. On the other hand, his death is the crowning of his mission and so he wants to give us his final teaching and for the last time recap and convey the very essence of it. This shows us that suffering and dying cannot be an excuse to dispense us from thinking about the most important things, but rather they can be an opportunity to see them in perfect freedom and truth and cleanse us of our disorderly desires. Jesus wants to tell us that his thirst was the driving force of his life, the original cause for the incarnation and the reason that led him to the cross. In a spiritual sense, Jesus is dying of thirst. But what exactly does he thirst for? In its essence, this thirst is love.
Firstly, Jesus wants to show how much God cares for people, if he decides to die for us. “For love is strong as death” says the Song of Songs (Song 8,6). Every person who has truly loved knows that real love is inseparable from suffering, as it requires one to be open to another person and thus also open to rejection or longing. In another book of the Old Testament God says “For I desire steadfast love and not sacrifice” (Hos. 6,6), emphasising that it is only the voluntary and selfless love of man, rather than his religious practices, that satisfy the thirst felt by God. In fact the whole history of creation and salvation is one great “I thirst” addressed to man by God, a desire for reciprocation. God desires the salvation of every sinner and he especially wants to be with this sinner at the moment of death.
Secondly, Jesus voices his thirst also as a human person. Everyone knows how many needs we have to satisfy so as to survive and achieve at least a minimum of happiness. Undoubtedly, Jesus can feel all those desires of all persons in all times, their insatiable needs, fractured dreams, their inability to be fully satisfied, their thirst for food, safety, health, intimacy and happiness. Jesus know, however, what the deepest thirst of each human being is and wants to be the model of how this thirst may be satisfied, to be the model of a perfect human. The deepest desire of the person is to be united with God, which can be achieved by fulfilling his will. Jesus encourages us to distinguish the hundreds of desires that we experience: desires for useful things, of comfort and pleasure, from the one and only real thirst we feel.
A good illustration of two different responses to this teaching of Jesus are the desires demonstrated by his two fellow convicts. The first one only wants to save his life, to escape death, while the other opens himself to his deepest thirst of being united with God in heaven.
Through his death Jesus provides an example of the deepest union with his Father. By crying out "I thirst”, he wants to show that his sacrifice was not a sentence imposed on him from the outside, but rather his personal choice taken so that all things could be fulfilled.
An author writing about Pallotti’s life observed that our patron comes to embrace this posture of Jesus as his own: “This union with God’s will that Pallotti now strives to achieve exceeds any previously practised posture of obedience. He no longer resolves questions by his own choice or his own judgement, neither is it mere waiting for or conceding to the course of events; not at all, instead we can see a soul that is thirsty for love and consciously pursues its purpose. It no longer says "Fiat – let it be” but instead cries out “Sitio – I thirst!”.
In our lives, prayer is a practical means to explore the depths of God’s thirst. Pallotti says: "If you want to please Jesus, you must entreat him at all times to grant you his precious ‘I thirst!’ – the thirst for the salvation of souls.”
In a moment of prayer reflect on your deepest thirsts. Consider if and how those desires converge with God's will for you. Pray God to cleanse and give order to your desires and aspirations so that you may become a true witness of Christ and follower of Pallotti.
Excerpt from a book by Father Marie-Dominique Phillippe, OP
This cry of thirst (...) is also for Mary and for John and for us. This cry should be considered in conjunction with a different proclamation: “On the last day and greatest day of the festival, Jesus stood up and proclaimed, ‘If any man thirsts, let him come to me! Let the man come and drink who believes in me. As scripture says, 'Out of his breast shall flow rivers of living water.'’ He was speaking about the Spirit which those who believed in him were to receive; for as yet the Spirit had not been given” (Jn. 7,37-39).
This thirsty cry was uttered by the crucified Christ in order to incite in us an ever greater thirst for Jesus and his love. As always, Jesus is present to awaken us, to "concretize and actualize" in us something which in him is complete and eternally fulfilled, but in us has still to be realised. This is the final teaching of Christ to Mary, to John and to us. That is the reason why John communicates it to us. John lived on this thirsty cry; each of us embraces this cry, in proportion to the value of our love, by practicing our faith. This is the most beautiful thing. This is a call addressed to each of us by one who begs for love, an exceptional call incarnated in the Crucified Body. The fact that this cry is lived by the whole body of Christ makes it “authentic”, as we would say today. This is the final call of Jesus to human kind.
Biblical Texts for Further Reflection
The thirst of Jesus is also discussed in another important text of the Gospel in which Jesus meets the Samaritan woman at a well (Jn. 4,1-26). He asks the woman to give him a drink and then tells her that real satisfaction may only be found in God, saying: “Whoever drinks the water that I shall give will never be thirsty again; the water that I shall give will turn into a spring inside him, welling up to eternal life." (Jn. 4,14).
A burning thirst for God is also expressed in a psalm: “As a deer longs for flowing streams, so longs my soul for you, my God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God; when shall I go to see the face of God?” (Ps. 42,2-3)
Prayer
Lord Jesus, when dying on the cross, you fully experienced all the most burning and deepest human thirsts. Blood and water flowed from your pierced side and became a spring of fresh water quenching all the deepest human needs. Through your death and resurrection we pray:
- for all people suffering from hunger and thirst
- for all those yearning for the Good News, as man does not live by bread alone
- for all those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, that they be satisfied
- for all married couples who are open to the gift of life but whose godly desire to have
a baby cannot be satisfied
- for all those living in de facto unions who cannot satisfy their yearning to be close
to you through sacramental life
- for all the dying, that in the final moments of this earthly life they may clearly understand
that man’s deepest desire is the thirst of God
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Albert Peter Walkenbach SAC, Der unendliche Gott und das «Nichts und Sünde», Lahn-Verlag, Limburg 1953
"J'ai soif". Entretiens sur la sagesse de la Croix. Éditions Saint Paul, Versailles, 1996
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Saturday, 1. March 2008, 10:31:49
UAC, Pallottine, Prayer
Fundamental Rule 28
Conversion of Sinners
“Our Lord Jesus Christ promised paradise to the good thief who asked him to remember him when he came into his kingdom. Therefore out of love for our Lord Jesus Christ, and with confidence in his infinite mercy, we must work for the conversion of poor sinners even if they had been obstinate throughout their lives and remained obstinate even when in danger of death. In such cases we should increase our prayers, our humility, our trust and all spiritual efforts in accordance with the spirit of the Congregation.”
(OOCC III, p. 57)
Reflection
This month we are moving towards Easter. During Holy Week we will relive the passion of Jesus and together with him, we will celebrate the victory of his resurrection and new life. In this time of preparation we listen to words of Pallotti in which he refers to the encounter on the Cross of Jesus and the criminal crucified beside him. When we allow these words of Pallotti to speak to us, which images come to our minds? What ideas do we form? Perhaps there are images of preachers and missionaries, standing in front of others, telling them what they have to do and what they may not do, how they have to live. Ideas that involve a higher and lower order, an above and a below, a better and a worse
However, Vincent Pallotti presents an image completely different to us. His basic concern is that in visualizing the image of Jesus that we, looking at him, our example and model, may be transformed and become similar to him. In giving us the Daily Practical Memorandum he urges us to make this our basic concern too. He unfolds this basic concern in his fundamental rule of the 33 Points: we look at Jesus so that his image, his likeness, may be more and more impressed in us and that we might act according to his example.
This is the image of Jesus that Pallotti refers to in this point: Jesus is hanging on the cross, between the two criminals who were crucified with him. He is not standing in front of them or above them, he does not indoctrinate them, nor does he tell them what they have to do. He is hanging beside them and grants this promise to the one who asks him: ‘Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise’ (Lk 23, 43). In this manner he continues his path of saying ‘Yes’ to the Father’s will, enduring his own powerlessness, and listening to and accepting the confession and the plea of the criminal beside him. The sinner does not convert because Jesus is preaching to him, but because he experiences the example of Jesus. Let us listen to the biblical account: ‘Two others, who were criminals, were led away to be put to death with him. And when they came to the place that is called The Skull, there they crucified him, and the criminals, one on his right and one on his left. And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” … And the people stood by, watching, but the rulers scoffed at him, saying, “He saved others; let him save himself, if he is the Christ of God, his Chosen One!” The soldiers also mocked him, coming up and offering him sour wine and saying, “If you are the King of the Jews, save yourself!” … One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, “Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!” But the other rebuked him…’ (Lk 23, 32-40). All that Jesus does for this person is to assure him that he will be with him in paradise.
Thus the example of Jesus tells us in which way we also can and shall ‘convert sinners’:
- by affirming again and again the will of God in and for our lives
- by accepting and using what God has given to us: life, gifts, talents …
- by accepting the stones put in our path, the cross laid on our shoulders
- by enduring injustices and by forgiving
- by orienting ourselves towards God and saying ‘Yes, Father’ when we experience the fullness of life and when we experience our powerlessness
- by being attentive to the confession and the pleas of others
- by feeling their desire and by assuring them, in God’s name, of life and salvation
- by, in the words of Vincent Pallotti, multiplying our prayer, increasing our humility, our trust and all spiritual efforts.
In the midst of all of this we should not forget that we ourselves are the first sinners to be converted. Therefore Vincent Pallotti prompts us again and again to care for our own and our neighbour’s eternal salvation.
In this way Holy Friday changes and becomes Easter. In this way, in the midst of the powerlessness of love, life can break through with all its power, but without violence.
Meditation
In his first encyclical letter Deus Caritas est Pope Benedict reminds us of this powerless love of God: ‘Hosea above all shows us that … God's love for man goes far beyond the aspect of gratuity. Israel has committed “adultery” and has broken the covenant; God should judge and repudiate her. It is precisely at this point that God is revealed to be God and not man. “How can I give you up, O Ephraim! ... My heart recoils within me, my compassion grows warm and tender.”(Hos 11:8-9) God's passionate love for his people – for humanity – is at the same time a forgiving love. It is so great that it turns God against himself, his love against his justice. Here Christians can see a dim prefigurement of the mystery of the Cross: so great is God's love for man that by becoming man he follows him even into death, and so reconciles justice and love ... This divine activity now takes on dramatic form when, in Jesus Christ, it is God himself who goes in search of the “stray sheep”, a suffering and lost humanity. When Jesus speaks in his parables of the shepherd who goes after the lost sheep, of the woman who looks for the lost coin, of the father who goes to meet and embrace his prodigal son, these are no mere words: they constitute an explanation of his very being and activity. His death on the Cross is the culmination of that turning of God against himself in which he gives himself in order to raise man up and save him. This is love in its most radical form.’ (Deus Caritas est, 10.12)
This is the way God uses to convert us. This way we shall learn from him – for the path of our own conversion and for our encountering others.
Biblical Texts for Further Reflection
There are also many other episodes in which we encounter Jesus as the one who meets and invites people by loving, asking and in humility. Let us take some time to deepen within ourselves this image of Jesus.
‘Jesus … said to him, “Zacchaeus, hurry and come down, for I must stay at your house today.” So he hurried and came down and received him joyfully. And Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, since he also is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost”’ (Lk 19, 5-6.9-10).
‘Come to me, all who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light’ (Mt 11, 28 – 30).
Prayer
L. Lord, you have given us your love.
You open for us the road to life.
A. Lead us ever deeper into the mystery of your love.
L. You came so that people may have life
and have it to the full (Jn. 10,10).
A. You ask us to give your love to others
And thus help all to enjoy this abundance of life.
L. You said: I came to cast fire upon the earth. (Lk. 12,49).
A. Do not let us rest until this fire has inflamed us all.
L. Our holy founder Vincent Pallotti was impelled by your love.
A. Lord, we sincerely ask you:
fill us with the fire of your love, with the power of your truth,
with your divine life,
until we too are impelled to bear witness to you
to the ends of the earth. Amen.
(Pallottine Community Prayer, Tuesday Midday Prayer)
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Friday, 1. February 2008, 05:46:13
Prayer, Pallottine, UAC
Apostles for Today
Fundamental Rule 27
Seeing his mother and close to her the disciple he loved, Jesus said to her: 'Woman, here is your son’. Then he said to the disciple: 'Here is your mother’ ( Jn, 19, 26-27).
St. Vincent Pallotti wrote:
"While he was dying (on the Cross), our Lord Jesus Christ, said to Mary, most Holy, 'Woman, here is your son’ (Jn 19, 26), with this gesture he gave us Mary, most Holy, as our Mother. And when he said to John : 'Here is your Mother’ (Jn 19, 27), he made us children of his Mother. Therefore we must be ever grateful to our Lord Jesus Christ for such a precious gift. So too we should propagate (make known) the glories of Mary most holy in whatever way possible, and even more by encouraging the use of the devout practices that are approved by the Church and have been enriched by indulgences. We should stimulate a greater confidence in ourselves and in all persons, in the powerful intercession of so august a Mother. As children of hers, to console her, (to make her happy,) we should strive to become as similar as possible to our first-born brother, our Lord Jesus Christ. (OOCC III, 56-57)
St. Vincent Pallotti turned frequently to our Mother Mary, and he addressed her in many forms using many adjectives to both recognize and honour her, which all confirm his devotion and his certainty that each work, every act that he commends to her care, and which we too commend to her, will be blessed and protected very specially.
We find him addressing her as 'my most beloved Mother’, or exclaiming: 'In Mary the abyss of grace shines forth’ (OOCC X, 289).
St. Vincent used to carry around in his hand a picture of the 'Mother of Divine Love’, an image very dear to the Romans. He placed the Union under the spiritual protection of 'Mary, Queen of Apostles’. He promoted devotion to Mary through the exhortations of the 'Month of May’. In these texts he addresses Mary as Mother of God, as Daughter of the Eternal Father, as Spouse of the Holy Spirit. These exhortations of Pallotti were not only addressed to his contemporaries, but are also very relevant for us in our devotion to Mary.
The presence of Mary in the life of St. Vincent was so strong and so fundamental that in reading his writings one comes across constantly the words ‘the Mother´, ‘the Spouse´, ‘the Queen´. We are drawing inspiration now from number 27 of the Fundamental Rule, but in every volume of his writings and in the various chapters we also encounter these references, for example in the daily rule, in his spiritual exercises, in the Rules of 1846, 1847 and 1849; and we could go on listing the references.
Prayer (OOCC XI, 85-86)
O Immaculate Mother of God, Queen of Apostles!
With you and all the angels and saints in paradise,
I thank the Holy Trinity that I have been given the gift of faith.
I am happy, dear mother, to greet you with the title of Queen of Apostles,
because while this title gives honour to you, it gives courage to me.
So I implore you to unite yourself as a mother to me, a sinner,
and to the entire heavenly court,
while we offer now and forever the Precious Blood of your Son,
his merits and those of the whole Church. Amen.
In the Fundamental Rule which is the subject of our reflection this month, the sentiments of St. Vincent in his recognition of the infinite mercy of God in giving us our Lord Jesus Christ as our first-born brother in the words he addressed to Mary 'Here is your son' are of special importance.
Some quotations from his writings
'The God of Infinite Love’ are particularly relevant:
XXIV. The infinite love and the infinite mercy of God in giving us our Lord Jesus Christ as our first-born brother.
XXV. God, in giving us his divine Son, made man for us, as our first-born brother, gave us also the most holy mother of his divine Son as our mother. He gave us all the saints as our brothers and sisters, and this is why the holy angels look up to us.
Prayer
My God, my merciful Father, you alone know and understand how ungrateful I have been. Not only have I forsaken you, but I have betrayed my brother Jesus as well. I have betrayed him as many times as the sins I committed and helped others to commit. Moreover, many times I have wounded the heart of my dear mother, Mary, with the spear of iniquity. I have neither profited from her mediation nor from the mediation of all the Saints, my beloved brothers and sisters. I have always been a sinner, because I never cared to imitate the virtues of the Saints as I could and should have done.
But now, enlightened by your grace, through your infinite mercy and through the infinite merits of Jesus Christ, through the merits and intercession of Mary, my most beloved mother, and of all the Angels and Saints, I firmly believe that you will grant me perfect contrition for my sins and the grace to imitate the Saints in order that I may closely imitate my dear mother Mary, and my first-born brother, Jesus Christ, with greater perfection until death.’
MARY OUR MOTHER. Short reflections based on the book
El silencio de María
(The Silence of Mary) by Ignacio Larrañaga:
- Mary´s personality is striking due to her traits of humility and courage. Throughout her life she stayed hidden, always in the shadows of the background; however, when the hour of humiliation arrived, she came forward and took her place in the forefront, dignified and silent.
- The Romans, keepers of law and order, used to ensure that the bystanders were kept at a distance from those crucified, with few exceptions; one of these was Mary, she was at the foot of the Cross, a solemn moment in her life and in that of the Church.
- It is here that Mary´s spiritual maternity is born, what appears to be a series of circumstances which give way to a simple domestic arrangement to take care of the mother, contain a messianic meaning.
- In the context of the social customs of that period the task Jesus entrusted to John must have seemed very strange, were it not for another very clear and patent meaning.
- Jesus established a double relationship, but the most important part was announced first. This first part is a descending relationship, commending Mary to receive John and to care for him as if he were a son. In the person of John he gives Mary as Mother to all of humanity.
- Given the fact that the Mother is one and the children are many, it is sufficiently clear that, in John, all those whom Jesus wished to redeem, are represented.
- From that moment on and forever, all the redeemed have a Mother by the express and final will of the Lord, she is his very own Mother. Nobody need ever complain of being an orphan or of loneliness in life´s journey.
- Jesus Christ revealed the Father to us and gifted us with a Mother! He gave his Mother to Humanity in order that it would take care of her with faith and veneration, and he gave all of Humanity to his Mother so that she would care for it and transform it into a Kingdom of Love.
- Humanity in general does not exist, men and women exist. It was because of this that Jesus, the great teacher, gave the gift of his Mother to the concrete person John, who represented all of Humanity. With this symbolic gesture Jesus wished to signify that just as the maternal-filial relationship of Mary and John was expressed in mutual attention, so too should be the relationship of the redeemed with our Mother.
- We live in the world of faith: we have been redeemed by Jesus Christ, who died and rose from the dead, we are embraced by the strong loving arms of God the Father, and we are cared for by a consoling Mother whom Jesus gave to us in his final hour!
- Mary is consolation and peace for every moment. She transforms bitterness into sweetness, combat into tenderness. She is benign and delicate. She suffers with those who suffer, she stays with those who remain, and she departs with those who depart. Our Mother is patience and security. She is our joy, our delight and our tranquility. Our Mother is full of sweetness and of invincible strength.
Final prayer: Hail holy queen, mother of mercy, hail our life, our sweetness and our hope. To you do we cry poor banished children of Eve, to you do we send up our sighs mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then o most gracious advocate your eyes of mercy towards us and after this our exile show unto us the fruit of your womb Jesus. O clement, o loving, o sweet Virgin Mary. Pray for us o Holy Mother of God so that we may be worthy of the promises of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
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Wednesday, 16. January 2008, 02:29:56
UAC, Prayer, Pallottines
Apostles for Today
Fundamental Rule 26
Jesus, with infinite love, prayed to the Father for those who crucified him.
St. Vincent Pallotti writes:
Our Lord Jesus Christ, having just been crucified, with infinite love prayed to the Father for his Crucifiers, that he would forgive them: therefore, for love of Our Lord Jesus Christ, we are obliged in the same way to regulate the feelings of our hearts, so that we may always be disposed to pray for our enemies, and to forgive any serious or minor offence done to us by anyone, even those we have helped most; and therefore the prayers of the Congregation will be directed also to pray for all our enemies. (OOCC III, P. 55-6).
Through this point of the Fundamental Rule, St. Vincent directs our attention to something at the very core of the Christian life, something that marks true Christian love and is of its very essence – in imitation of the God who is love itself, and who has revealed the unfathomable depths of this love to us in Christ his Son, we are called to love not only those who do good to us and to others, but also to love and forgive even those who hurt us, who do evil to us and to those we love. In the Gospel, Christ himself calls us to go even one step further: ‘Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who treat you badly’ (Luke 6:27-28) We are called to a love that not only forgives those who hurt us and the people we love, but that even reaches out to do good to them, ultimately to love them as brothers and sisters – we are called to a love without limits! ‘You must therefore set no bounds to your love, just as your heavenly Father sets none to his’ (Mt 5:43-48 - this is either an explanation, or a very particular translation of the text!).
This is one of the great challenges of the Christian life, and one that is impossible to meet by human resources alone. St. Vincent himself knew first-hand the demands that this kind of love makes on us as we struggle with ourselves and with the effects that the actions of others have on us. It is said of him that he was of an innately passionate temperament ‘which incited him naturally to anger, disdain, and resentment’ and that he only managed to keep this natural irritability in check with great effort, ‘with indefatigable vigilance over every irregular motion of the mind… in such a manner as not to do the least act inconsistent with the meekness and sweetness of Jesus Christ whom [he] had chosen as his model’ (Fr. R. Melia “‘The Life of the Servant of God Vincent Pallotti”, p. 160). This he managed, amidst numerous, prolonged and serious trials, not by mere force of will, but as a fruit of his profound personal experience of the infinite love which is God himself and of his own deepest identity in the light of this love. God is infinite merciful love; our deepest identity is that we are made in the image and likeness of this love; this image and likeness has been damaged and distorted by sin; it is only through Christ that this love of God within us is restored and deepened, that we are filled with the love which is God himself, who through us desires to reach out and do good even to those who do evil to us and to others.
This can seem like an impossible dream when we look into ourselves and see all those petty resentments and feelings of irritation raging up within us, sometimes at the slightest misunderstandings or unintended slights, not to mention the truly monumental struggles we can have when we have been deeply hurt by another or when we look out on our world and see the terrible things that human beings do to one another. And yet as followers of Christ we are given no opt-out clause when it comes to forgiveness of others: ‘If you forgive others their failings, your heavenly Father will forgive you yours; but if you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive your failings either’ (Mt 6:14-15).
Let us call to mind again St. Vincent’s conviction that if anyone believes in Jesus and strives to imitate him with humility and trust, then Jesus himself will destroy in that person all that is lacking and will come and live and work in and through that person, continuing his life through them (cf. OOCC III, p. 37). Again and again he reminds us that we must begin this path with prayer and continuously deepen it with prayer. Let us make our own some of St. Vincent’s thoughts and advice on learning to imitate Jesus in his spirit of forgiveness, some of which he puts on the lips of the Blessed Virgin Mary (Month of May for the Faithful):
When tempted to pettiness in relation to others:
‘If sometimes you find yourself … disappointed, or offended by a brother [or sister], or see others, even undeservedly, chosen or distinguished, then in order not to lose charity remember that you must be patient and kind, you must not carry resentment or envy…nor be rude, but rather remember the precept of Jesus Christ, who expressly commands us to love our enemies, to do good to those who do us evil, to bless those who curse us, to pray for our persecutors …’ (OOCC VI, p. 256).
Christ is not merely an example to follow, but also the source of the strength necessary to do so:
‘Remember, my child, that in Jesus you not only have the divine exemplar to encourage you to be peaceful, but in him you also find the grace, the virtue necessary to imitate him perfectly (OOCC XIII, p. 590, 7th Day of Month of May for the Faithful).
No one has been treated as badly as Jesus who was innocent – how can we refuse to imitate him in his forgiveness?
‘…although Jesus was holy, innocent, without sin, no one had as many enemies as he, no one was cursed and calumniated as [was he]… and with all this he loved all, blessed all… and in the extreme anguish of his painful agony, with infinite love turns to the Father, and prays for his enemies, for those who hate him, blaspheme him, calumniate him. Tell me, O child, in the ineffable splendor of your divine exemplar Jesus, holy and innocent, can you refuse to imitate him?’ (OOCC XIII, p. 639, 17th Day of Month of May for Faithful)
The less we trust in ourselves, the more we are led to trust in God:
‘If in your resolution to imitate Jesus you do not trust your own strength, do not lose courage, but rather know that such distrust disposes you and leads you to trust in the grace of Jesus himself!’ (OOCC XIII, p. 639, 17th Day of Month of May for Faithful)
Offer the merits of Jesus’ forgiveness:
‘To obtain more easily the perfect gift of forgiving offences I would like that you fairly frequently offer to the Eternal Father the infinite merit of the forgiveness which Jesus asked for his cruel crucifiers’ OOCC XIII, p. 669, 24th Day of Month of May for Faithful).
The spirit of reconciliation sows seeds of the Kingdom, seeds that can truly change the world: we think of people like Nelson Mandela in South Africa and Gordon Wilson in Northern Ireland (who forgave those who killed his daughter in the Ennis Killen bombing and opened dialogue with members of the group responsible).
Let us be humbled and inspired by two modern examples of the depths which forgiveness can plumb in the hearts of those open to God:
Bishop Hassam Dehqani-Tafti, the first Iranian to become an Anglican bishop – an assassination attempt on him failed and he fled to Cyprus, but his son Bahram was killed instead. He wrote the following, poignantly titled, ‘A father’s prayer upon the murder of his son’:
O God, we remember not only our son, but also his murderers; not only because they killed him in the prime of his youth and made our hearts bleed and our tears flow, not because with this savage act they have brought further disgrace on the name of our country among the civilized nations of the world; but because of their crime we now follow your footsteps more closely in the way of sacrifice. The terrible fire of this calamity burns up all selfishness and possessiveness in us; its flame reveals the depths of depravity and meanness and suspicion, the dimension of hatred and the measure of sinfulness in human nature; it makes obvious as never before our need to trust in God’s love as shown in the cross of Jesus and his resurrection; love which makes us free of hate towards our persecutors; love which brings patience, forbearance, courage, loyalty, humility, generosity, greatness of heart; love which more than ever deepens our trust in God’s final victory and his eternal designs for the church and for the world; love which teaches us how to prepare to face our own day of death. Our son’s blood has multiplied the fruit of the Spirit in the soil of our souls; so when his murderers stand before you on the day of judgment remember the fruit of the Spirit by which they have enriched our lives. And forgive.
A wonderful prayer found scribbled on a piece of paper near the body of a dead child at Ravensbrook camp where 92,000 people died:
O Lord, remember not only the men and women of goodwill, but also those of ill-will. But do not remember all the suffering they have inflicted on us, remember the fruits we have bought, thanks to this suffering – our comradeship, our loyalty, our humility, our courage, our generosity, the greatness of heart which has grown out of all this, and when they come to the judgment, let all the fruits that we have borne be their forgiveness.
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Thursday, 1. November 2007, 05:09:32
Pallottines, Prayer, UAC
Apostles for Today
Fundamental Rule no. 24
Jesus, persecuted for his good works,is our model.
Introduction
In number 24 of the Fundamental Rule we read a meditation on how to imitate our Lord.
“Our Lord Jesus Christ coepit facere et docere (‘first of all did and then taught’, Acts 1.1), and for the glory of the heavenly Father and for the eternal salvation of all souls he went about the towns and villages of Palestine preaching the Gospel of the Kingdom, curing all weaknesses and illnesses, giving sight to the blind, speech to the dumb, health to the sick, life to the dead, satisfying the hungry and evangelizing the poor, thus he always did good to everyone, and occasionally he withdrew alone to pray for us to his heavenly Father; though he was often persecuted he did all and endured all, with infinite love. Therefore for love of our Lord Jesus Christ we must maintain a life of prayer and be frequently in solitude so as to exercise the works of the sacred Gospel ministry for the greater glory of God and for our greater sanctification and that of our neighbour: and above all, according to our holy Institute, we must promote all those works and holy institutions that are ordered and admitted by our Holy Constitutions and the Pious Society, also called, of the Catholic Apostolate, instituted by our Congregation. So as to ensure that we truly strive to imitate our Lord Jesus Christ in our little Congregation, no person is to be admitted to exercising the Gospel ministry if he is not mature in holy works and in doctrine having imitated our Lord Jesus Christ in coepit facere (firstly in doing), and then go on to imitate him in docere (teaching). In order to obtain more abundant fruit from all the evangelical works in imitation of our Lord Jesus Christ, we must strive to do good to all the needy of every kind by exercising all the corporal and spiritual works of mercy, rejoicing and giving thanks to our heavenly Father if, after having done all this, we are persecuted; because this would be one of the most precious gifts for us if he deigned with such persecutions to make us similar in some way to his beloved Son on whom his favour rests.” (OOCC III, p. 53-54)
St. Vincent looks at Jesus as he walks amongst people preaching the Gospel, doing good, generously bestowing divine gifts, and despite all he is persecuted.
We, like Jesus, should not be afraid to
“spend ourselves”, to go out from ourselves in helping all those in need with deeds of material and spiritual mercy, even though we may be persecuted for doing so.
Meditation
To act as Jesus did means to imitate him so as to be as similar to him as is possible.
In Jesus
“the image and likeness” of God in human form (Gen 1,26) finds its fullest expression. Jesus is the
“ideal man” and as such is the model for every person, a sure guide for our steps, an enlightened response to our weaknesses, uncertainties and unbelief, an antidote to the temptation to indulge in compromises and easy options in our lives of faith.
The rule of St. Vincent is to look at Jesus always, to imitate him at every moment: this is
“In all the various circumstances of the day, before starting any activity, we should consider what the thoughts of our Lord Jesus Christ would be, what would be the movements of his divine heart”. (OOCC III, p. 36)
It is important to have constancy in seeking Jesus because to compare oneself with him is to live in continuous prayer.
It is essential to have an intense desire for God and for faith. St. Vincent says:
“ In the soul (the person) who believes in Jesus Christ and who, with humility and trust, strives to imitate him, Jesus Christ destroys in it every deformity and weakness. Jesus Christ enters into that soul. He lives in it and he applies the merits of his most holy works. In this way that which Jesus says: he who believes in me will do those same works that I have done and will do even greater ones, will be realized”.
(OOCC III p. 37)
We constantly try to put ourselves in the limelight and we are full of self-love, so each time that we manage to empty ourselves of all this in order to be filled by Jesus our lives are lightened by charity because Jesus is Charity, by humility because Jesus was humble even to assuming the condition of a slave, by love because Jesus is, in his essence, Divine Love.
Jesus repeatedly invites us to direct our capacity to love towards others, he says:
“You must love your neighbour as yourself”. (Mk 12, 31)
He encourages us to imitate him, to do as he did:
“Love one another, as I have loved you”.
(Jn 15,8-13)
The first duty of a Christian is to give freely that which he has received freely: in bringing the Good News, in being light for the person who is in darkness, in sharing the joy of faith in the Word of God.
The appeals in our world to a spirit of love and of charity are truly many. Poor persons who ask for help, sick persons who need moral support, older persons who suffer from solitude, young persons rendered helpless by depression or driven crazy by drugs, countries in which hunger, sickness and tribal warfare decimate so many lives.
When St. Vincent urges us to:
“strive to do good”, he is speaking not only about a commitment to doing things, but also to being sensitive, to being attentive to the needs of ones neighbour …
“I would wish to be perpetually in the hospitals, in the prisons and to be in every place on earth in order to alleviate the sufferings of the poor and the illness of the sick;…but to do so in a manner which goes unseen. Except by God alone… I would wish to became food to satisfy the hungry, clothing to clothe the naked, drink to quench the thirst of the thirsty, liqueur to fortify the weak; soft feathers to give rest to the weary limbs of the exhausted, medicine and health to heal the sick, the lame, the crippled, the deaf,; light to enlighten the blind both spiritually and corporally, life to raise up the dead, … so that they could do the great things that they would do for the glory of my God, my Father, my Creator, my Good, my All, if they came back to this earth again … and for this I offer myself to suffer whatever suffering, disgrace, even infinitely, but with your grace and loving infinitely but without being noticed. My God, my God, my God” (OOCC X p. 114-16)
Let us avoid remaining immersed in that superficiality which prevents us from seeing the suffering all around us. Let us ponder on the fact that charity produces miracles of consolation, even when it is made up of small things such as a listening ear, a smile, a caress.
The definitive meaning of Fundamental Rule 24.
Jesus is our vital essence. How can we truly love others, forgive those who offend us, if not with his grace? The Lord says “Cut off from me you can do nothing”.
(Jn 15,5).
It is only with his grace that we will be able to accept that our good works will give rise to criticism, disapproval or be opposed because of prejudice, the dictates of social convention or by a lack of understanding on the part of those who live distanced from the faith.
So we conclude with St. Vincent that
“persecution would be among the most precious of all gifts”.
Let us pray with St. Vincent
“My Jesus, he who does not love does not live. May all the love of eternity, and if it were possible of all infinite eternities, by mine in every instant for all of eternity. For infinite eternity, may all be lost in love, and may it not be more than all the flames of love. My Jesus, may your Passion and the dolours of Mary be my book for all of eternity, all fire and flames.” (OOCC X, pp. 226 -227)
“Oh if I could love for ever in doing penance and being infinitely humiliated, so as to do all for the infinite glory of God and for the salvation of souls! Oh if I could only suffer infinitely for our Lord Jesus Christ, for the Father and for the Holy Spirit, oh if only I could”. (OOCC X, pp. 231-233)
Final prayer
Herald of the love of the eternal Father
you were completely lost in Christ,
so that the poorest of the poor could experience
the mercy and the goodness of God.
You became all things to all persons just as Christ did
while here on earth.
Help us to follow your example and to see Jesus always
so that his love may live in us.
Herald of truth, all the baptized are called by God to be apostles.
Form the hearts of the faithful in the knowledge
and awareness of this call.
Make of us one flock under one shepherd
so that your peace may reign in the world.
May your blessing be with us now and always.
(Text H. Perne, 1985)
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Thursday, 4. October 2007, 20:57:01
UAC, Pallottine, Prayer
Apostles for Today
Fundamental Rule no. 23
Solitude, prayer, a life of mortification and humility in order to overcome temptations
Introduction
Knowledge of the Fundamental Rule brings us back to the source, that is, to the experience St. Vincent had at Camaldoli in 1839. He himself described it in his Spiritual Testament1 in 1840:
“Having arrived at the Holy Hermitage on July 10th, God in his mercy, inspired me to be seriously attentive right from the beginning to the reordering of my poor spirit … Then …I began to write the Rules for the Pia Casa di Carità established in Rome by the Pious Society (Union) of the Catholic Apostolate …
Having finished the writing of the Rules for the Pia Casa di Carità and while reading in the Life of the Blessed Virgin of how the Apostles after the coming of the Holy Spirit were led to preach the holy Gospel in the diverse areas of the world, our Lord Jesus Christ put into my mind the idea of the true nature and the works of the Pious Society (Union) “ (OOCC III, p. 26-27).
This experience gave rise to the Fundamental Rule; point number 23 of the Rule is the subject of our meditation for the month of October 2007:
“Our Lord Jesus Christ, before beginning to preach His heavenly doctrine for our spiritual welfare, withdrew into the desert where He prayed and fasted for forty days, and He humbled Himself even so far as permitting the devil to tempt Him three times. Out of love for Our Lord Jesus Christ, we must strive to imitate Him
- in love of solitude, to which we must frequently aspire. For this reason our houses are called ‘retreat houses’, and we should also make good use of the ten days of Solitude prescribed by the Constitutions:
- in a life of prayer, praying especially, with great fervour and diligence, all the vocal and mental prayers that are also prescribed by the Constitutions:
- in a life of mortification, observing the Fast days of the Church, and all the fasts, abstinences and penances prescribed by the Constitutions
- in a life of deep humility and trust in God learning to practise the difficult are of overcoming all temptations”.
(OOCC III, p. 52-53)
Meditation on a biblical episode
Our Holy Founder in the text Daily Practical Memorandum
2 invites us to ensure the identity of the Union, which has as the
“…Fundamental Rule of our little Congregation the very life itself of Our Lord Jesus Christ” (OOCC III, p. 35-36). Let us place ourselves into the episode in the life of Jesus Christ (Mt 3,13-4,11) from which point number 23 comes.
Jesus came to the Jordan: I invite you to meditate, watching how he arrives. John recognized him (cf. Jn. 1,29-34): now accept the grace to know Jesus, together with John the Baptist. Jesus presented himself for baptism at the hands of the precursor: try to see and to feel all that is taking place. Jesus came up from the water: He did not confess his sins like all the others were doing, He is Holy; renew in your heart the memory of the sanctifying grace of your holy baptism. A voice was heard from heaven:
“This is my Son, the beloved, my favour rests on him” (Mt 3,17): meditate on the words of the Father, which he pronounced also for you, in Christ. And then … Filled with the Holy Spirit, Jesus left the Jordan and was led by the Spirit through the wilderness, being tempted there by the devil for forty days (Lk. 4,1-2).
We take notice of the decisions which were taken by Jesus, they are a victory over temptations gained for us by Him
“in the wilderness”: Man does not live on bread alone but on every word that comes from the mouth of God (Mt 4,4); You must not put the Lord your God to the test (Mt 4,7); Be off, Satan! For scripture says:
‘You must worship the Lord your God, and serve him alone’ (Mt 4,10). So should it be, and so it is, right from the start of every faith journey.
The example and the teaching of our saintly Founder
“Our Lord Jesus Christ before he began his heavenly preaching for us, withdrew into the Desert …”: the events which are described in the wilderness took place for us and we participate in them together with St. Vincent, as experienced at Camaldoli:
“… our Lord Jesus Christ put into my mind the true idea of the nature and of the works of the Pious Society” (Union).
Our saintly Founder had an experience similar to that of Jesus when He was led by the Spirit into the desert for forty days, and where he was tested by the devil. He indicates for us four aspects or elements which “form in my mind the true nature” of the life of the Union. They are:
- 1. a love for solitude … this is not a flight from people, nor an unwanted solitude; in the holy retreats the members should practise this “going off to a lonely place” following the example of Jesus who as the “Beloved Son” “lived in the Holy Spirit for forty days in the wilderness”;
- 2. a life of prayer … the Founder has left us a clear principle: “therefore, even if it is not with perfect and uninterrupted compliance [but] at least with a right intention, the life [of the member] will be a life of prayer” (OOCC II, p. 63). Here we see that we should have the intention of growing in our faith, of going beyond saying: “I do have faith, help the little faith I have! (Mk 9 24), that is, to pass from a prayer that requests – “Lord, teach us to pray” (Lc 11,1) – according to the principle of “ius credendi ius orandi” (the standard (law) of prayer determines the standard (law) of belief) … to a “deep humility and trust in God”;
- 3. a life of mortification ... our saintly Founder is, for us, an example. Already in 1816 he wrote: “In all of my actions, and always, I intend to combat my body which has rebelled against reason, and to humiliate and to mortify the spirit that has rebelled against God, thus ensuring that the powers of my soul, the feelings of my body and my entire self concur so as to give glory to God …(OOCC X, p. 74).
In 1846 in the Rule for the Society of priests and brothers, he wrote:
“So as to live in perfect observance of the holy Law of God, of the Church, of the Rules and of the Constitutions … we are obliged to strive to create in ourselves a spiritual building with the holy virtues as exercised by Our Lord Jesus Christ … we, out of love for our Lord Jesus Christ, from the moment of our entry into the Congregation until death, with the most perfect mortification of all of our passions, are obliged to live and to die in the practise of a life of sacrifice”. (OOCC III, p. 42-43);
- 4. a life of continuous deep humility, and trust in God … Vincent’s deep desire to imitate Jesus Christ in his spirit of humility and trust in God shines through in his letter to Fr. Parenti: “Live in a constant mistrust of oneself and of ones strengths; in perfect trusting abandonment in God and have no fear, because God will support all when we do all, sure that we cannot do anything without God” (OCL II, p. 56).
In a letter to Mons. Piacentini we find a concrete indication to help us trust in God: “He who trusts in God is not confused. Therefore, if you are confused, it is a sign that you do not trust. Look at God, and look at yourself; you will never encounter God without mercy, nor yourself without need of it. God is always favourable to your poverty, and your poverty is the object of the goodness and mercy of God”.
(OCL III, p. 126)
To be an apostle according to Fundamental Rule 23
- Firstly: to live a balance between ensuring “the reordering of my poor spirit” and allowing Jesus Christ to “put in my mind the true idea of the nature and the works of the Pious Society (Union)”.
- Secondly: to acquire and to assimilate the four characteristics of the imitation of Jesus Christ as they were meditated above.
- Thirdly: “for us”, without this one cannot “be an apostle”. The more we live in communion with Jesus Christ convinced that He has done all “for us”, the more we will fulfil our call to be apostles.
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A. I. D. G. A. S. A. A.. D. P.
1 OOCC III, p. 23-33
2 OOCC III, p. 34-39
Wednesday, 1. August 2007, 01:58:51
Prayer, Pallottine, UAC
Fundamental Rule no. 21
Wisdom and grace shone forth in Jesus…..
Introduction
In point number 21 of the Fundamental Rule we read a new meditation on the hidden life of Jesus.
"St. Luke (2,52) tells us that our Lord Jesus Christ, subject to Mary and Joseph in the house of Nazareth, "progressed steadily in wisdom and age before God and men", that is, as He advanced in age, there shone forth in Him, more and more wisdom and grace. This was because He fulfilled exactly all the duties of an Israelite and of a son; while Mary fulfilled those of a mother and St. Joseph those of a foster father.
Therefore, out of love for Our Lord Jesus Christ and so as to imitate Him in our progress in the spiritual life, we must consider and keep in mind the sacred ternary: Jesus, Mary and Joseph, who formed the small family in the house of Nazareth, in fulfilling perfectly all the natural and religious duties and take them as models for every Christian family. And even more must we take them as models for the family formed by our little congregation as a whole, as well as, by the individual communities in our holy houses/retreats.
And so, each one of us in his office, in his rank, is obliged to imitate with all possible perfection Jesus, Mary and Joseph, in the fulfilment of all duties towards God, superiors, confreres, fellow-men, and even in regard to our very selves, by striving for greater holiness. Therefore, all of us must do our work as prescribed by the holy Rules and Constitutions.
And, as there was never in the Holy Family of Nazareth even the slightest expression of laziness, each of us is likewise obliged to keep far from the community, from others and from oneself the slightest expression of laziness.
Finally, as in the Holy Family of Nazareth there reigned perpetual peace, charity, holy cheerfulness and spiritual joy, so too we must strive so that these virtues also reign in our congregation and in our holy houses/retreats as one of their distinctive characteristics". (OOCC III, 50)
Reflection
Who knows how often our Founder, in his contemplative prayer, tipped into the home of Nazareth on his toes!
What would he have observed?
What would he have learnt?
What revelations would he have received?
He would have been enchanted to meet the peaceful gaze of Joseph, the unconditional attention of Mary and the prompt obedience of Jesus.
What would the revolutionary feelings in St. Vincent have been?
Who knows how many times he would have gotten lost in the peaceful ecstasies of the House of Nazareth.
How much peace and joy reigned in those hearts and how much radiance shone on those faces …
How he revelled in letting himself be moulded by the members of the Holy Family.
A wonderful exchange of energy!
Vincent learnt from each member the art of living, he learnt to listen, he learnt to anticipate the needs of the other, he learnt to pray, he learnt to contemplate the wonderful work which God has done …
He knew that the small family of the Catholic Apostolate could survive only if it nourished itself with this energy which he, as father, transmitted.
Yes! What else could he leave to his children if not the desire to imitate the "sacred ternary" (the Holy Family) as he called it?
Who knows how many times he entrusted each member of the UAC to the care of the ternary, with the dreams and hopes for each member?
The highest dream or aspiration would have been that of holiness.
To be holy as those three were.
To live communion as they lived it.
The communities, the holy retreats, the families, were all safe under the light of such example.
St. Vincent continues, today, to look at us in God, …waiting to sing the divine mercies for all eternity.
And now, dear brother and sister, you are going through this and reading these few words, listen to the desire of St. Vincent.
Read and make your own the behaviour and the silent teaching of Mary, of Joseph and of Jesus.
Take them as models for your life.
Strive to begin a conversation with the Founder and turn to him in all your needs.
Ask yourself:
1."Jesus subjected himself to Mary and to Joseph".
How do you live your relationships with others?
2."Jesus progressed steadily in wisdom and age before God and men".
How are you taking care of your life?
Does wisdom shine forth in you?
Do you allow yourself to be enlightened by divine grace?
3."Jesus fulfilled exactly all the duties of an Israelite and of a son; while Mary fulfilled those of a mother, and St. Joseph those of a foster father".
Do you know how to imitate Jesus in your civil, religious and moral duties?
Ask Mary and Joseph for a new heart so as to live intensely your duties as mother, as father, with your loved ones and with all those who have been entrusted to you.
4. "In the family of Nazareth there was never the slightest expression of laziness".
Try to evaluate how you are using the time that God gives you.
Laziness is the father of all vices - so says a proverb - examine how you use time to spread Love, to revive faith, to encourage those who live in sorrow, in anguish, in desperation, and so do the work of the Catholic Apostolate.
5. "In the Holy Family of Nazareth there reigned perpetual peace, charity, holy cheerfulness and spiritual joy".
Look at your family, at your Community, at your work place and observe the atmosphere there.
What can you do in order that peace and love may grow and increase?
What can you invent so that spiritual cheerfulness and joy can always reign there?
Turn to the Holy Family and to St. Vincent and listen to their suggestions.
Prayers
From the writings of St. Vincent Pallotti
""Most loving Virgin Mary, Mother of mercy, Queen of the angels and saints, our support and our hope, look with mercy on our community which you have cherished from the beginning. Guard it now and in the future and bless it with continued growth. May poverty, chastity and obedience, the spirit of prayer and the sharing of resources, in a spirit of serving with the love of Christ, remain alive in our hearts. Preserve our community from all harm, especially from any danger of luke-warmness. Mary, our support and our hope, obtain these blessings for us from your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns for ever and ever. Amen.
(Pallottine Community Prayers, p. 234-5)
""Eternal Father, in union with the most holy hearts of Jesus and of Mary, we offer you the precious blood of Jesus Christ in thanksgiving, as if you had already given us the gift of perfect observance of the holy rules, and for all the possible ends that please you".
(Le Preghiere - A. Faller - p. 290)
Let us pray together
Let your mercy fall upon us abundantly, O Lord our God,
and through the merits and intercession of the
Immaculate Virgin Mary, of St. Joseph
and of our holy father Vincent,
preserve our community and help its growth.
Grant that it may grow in spirit and in number
and thus may be able to glorify your Name on earth
as it already is glorified in heaven. Amen.
(Pallottine Community Prayers, page 229, no. 12)
Thursday, 5. July 2007, 03:24:22
Prayer, UAC
Fundamental Rule 20 - Perfect Obedience and SubmissionOur monthly reflection continues to be oriented by the 33 points of the Fundamental Rule which St. Vincent Pallotti left to us. This month we come to point 20 which speaks to us of Jesus' obedience.
"Our Lord Jesus Christ, having been found in the temple by Mary and Joseph, returned with them to Nazareth, where He lived until he was thirty, the Gospel says of Him, "He was obedient to them", (Lk. 2,50). He was obedient and subject to Mary and Joseph while He practised virtue in a life hidden from the world, thus preparing Himself for the preaching of the Gospel for our instruction and salvation (Rm. 15,4).
For love of our Lord Jesus Christ, for our greater sanctification and to prepare ourselves through the hidden life for every kind of apostolic work, and to enable ourselves to maintain and grow in holiness and perfection we must strive to live in the most perfect obedience and submission. Perfect obedience must be:(1) Christian and religious; (2)Universal; (3) Indiscriminate; (4) Exact and complete; (5) Prompt; (6) Blind; (7) Simple; (8) Humble and respectful; (9) Cordial and affectionate (Phil. 2.8).
In order to practise until death perfect obedience and submission with all the qualities enumerated, we must cultivate the spirit of obedience and submission not only to superiors, and our fellow members, but also to those outside of every rank, state, and condition, in so far as it is not against the law of God, of the Church, and our Holy Rules and constitutions. This is necessary for more effective cooperation in the various efforts undertaken for the greater glory of God and the salvation of souls." OOCC III, p. 71-2.Introduction Every faithful Jew, including Jesus, had a heart-felt commitment to respond to "Shema," to first "listen" and then obey God's will by responding completely. Christians will recognize this prayerful universal call: "Listen Israel: Yahweh our God is the one Yahweh. You shall love Yahweh your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength." (Deut 6: 4-5)
Saint Vincent Pallotti's Teaching on Obedience Vincent Pallotti modelled his life on Jesus, whom he saw as having responded to God's will completely, with heart, soul and all his strength. In his foundational documents, the daily Memorandum and Rules, Father Pallotti encouraged his disciples to give priority to daily reflection on and imitation of Christ. Vincent's twentieth rule called to mind the example of Jesus as a twelve year old, who, when Joseph and Mary discovered him in the Temple of Jerusalem, submissively returned home and
"was obedient to them." (Luke 2:50)
In this spirit, Vincent encouraged all his followers to hear God's call in the word of superiors, whether religious or lay, and to be prompt, complete, blind, simple, respectful and affectionate in obeying.
"This is necessary for more effective cooperation in the various efforts undertaken for the greater glory of God and the salvation of souls." OOCC III, p. 50. Here again Vincent cites the example of Jesus "who was obedient unto death, even unto death on a cross." (Phil. 2,8)
A Reflection on Vincent's TeachingActions speak louder than words, and the two together give us a portrait of greater clarity than either of the two in isolation. When viewed synoptically, or side by side, actions and words help us recognize nuances that otherwise we might overlook.
Consider, for example, Luke's story of the obedient 12-year-old Jesus and notice the tension. Jesus had disappeared for three days, hardly an act of filial compliance to his parents' intentions. Luke noted that in the temple, Jesus had been listening intently to the doctors. When Joseph and Mary found and questioned Jesus, can one detect a slight rebuke in his response: 'Did you not know that I must be about my Father's business?' What would happen if you disappeared for 3 days and then offered that line as an explanation to your local religious superior or employer?
In Vincent's life as with Jesus' life, we can recognize in his actions several levels of meaning. On the one hand we see Vincent's extraordinary generosity in his continually giving away his personal clothing. He did this from his childhood days until his last fateful winter when he gave his cloak to a penitent and then caught a cold which contributed to his death. These charitable actions were, no doubt, contrary to the admonitions of his family and friends. Vincent's intentions and actions, like our own, are not necessarily gifted with infallibility. On the other hand, when he believed his mission was wrongfully undercut by some religious authorities, he was not submissive but petitioned the broader community of the religious leaders in Rome. With their discernment and signatures, he succeeded in establishing the validity of his unique pastoral mission. So sometimes Vincent complied with authority figures. Other times he did not and instead, appealed to a higher authority, whether God's will or Church authorities. Life is rarely simple and without ambiguity.
Perhaps it is with this complexity in mind that one community of Benedictine monks portrayed their understanding of the vow of obedience. Just a little south of Rome, high on a crest, stands the Abbey of Monte Cassino. Here, in 529 A.D., St. Benedict, the founder of one of history's most prolific religious orders, established what is called the
"cradle of Benedictine spirituality." Here is where he lived the majority of his years and also where he died. This Benedictine Abbey's cathedral is filled with paintings that express the Order's spiritual insights. In one painting, high on a pillar, an artist portrayed the significance of the Benedictine promise of obedience. It shows a robed young woman, standing in perfect attention, with hand cocked to ear, listening with complete presence of mind, heart and strength. This painting reminds us of Isaiah's words:
"The Lord Yahweh has opened my ear . . . . So, too, I set my face like flint . . . ."( 50: 4,7) But to what is the woman listening: to religious superiors, to God's voice within the community, to God whispering in her heart or imagination? Our religious formation stems from many sources: personal relationships, biblical inspirations, creation and "sacraments" very broadly understood. Which areas are more nurturing for you?
For Prayerful Reflection on Your Experience of ObedienceWhen you were an adolescent, to what extent did your family or parents encourage you to follow authority blindly? What authority did they highlight: themselves, the Church, teachers, your conscience?
If you were to consider obedience as listening to God's voice, which are the sources for that voice in which you have a sense of confidence?
During your lifetime, who or what have been the forces encouraging you to develop your own internal guidance system, your sense of self-direction?
To what extent do you hear the voice of God speaking to you through questions that surface in your mind or imagination?
What are the places, situations or communities where you find it is relatively easy to hear God's voice for your life? Which are the difficult situations?
Who are the people who help you discern what God is saying to you?
Once you have discerned God's voice, how do you usually respond?
What are some areas in your life where your passion is strongest?
Based on how you use your time, which concerns more fully capture your mind, heart and strength? To what extent are these the priorities to which you want to be committed? What changes, if any, do you want to make?
As a concluding prayer, and consistent with the disciples' sharing in the Upper Room, consider sharing with others your responses to the above questions.
Here is a link for the Benedictine portrait of Obedience:
http://www.officine.it/montecassino/disegni/foto_htm/obbedien.htm
Tuesday, 5. June 2007, 05:52:25
Prayer, Pallottine, UAC
Fundamental Rule 19 – Obedient to God’s Will
St. Vincent Pallotti writes:
When His Blessed Mother meekly complained about His staying behind (in the Temple), our Lord Jesus Christ answered respectfully: “Did you not know I must be busy with my Father’s affairs?” Out of love for our Lord Jesus Christ, unless in some rare case when necessity and charity clearly demand otherwise, we must avoid the company (the conversation) of our relatives if there is a danger that it might prevent us from doing the Will of God our Father in all things and at all times. OOCC III, p. 48
There are further passages in Holy Scripture where Jesus teaches us that there can be situations in which the duties of family life do not take precedence.
Let us meditate on some Gospel passages:
In Mt 4,22 Jesus calls the sons of Zebedee … “At once, leaving the boat and their father, they followed him.” There would surely have been enough work for them all to do in order to provide for the family, but they followed Jesus’ call.
In Mk 3, 22 - 35 we read that the scribes thought Jesus to be possessed, therefore his family came and requested to talk to him, and he observed “Anyone who does the will of God, that person is my brother and sister and mother,” and he does not allow his family to intrude.
Finally, in Lk 10,42, he rebukes Martha for complaining that Mary did not help her to serve the guests, but rather was listening to his words, he said “Martha, Martha, you worry and fret about so many things, and yet few are needed, indeed only one. It is Mary who has chosen the better part; it is not to be taken from her.”
Thus, it seems to be a question of being aware of the heavenly family we belong to, of knowing its duties, and of responding to them. We are to hear Jesus’ call, follow his example and cultivate brotherly/sisterly relationships with all persons, so that all persons, but most especially those who did not have the good fortune of having a good family life, will experience God’s love through loving persons who know that they belong to the heavenly family, the family of Jesus, and who take others into this community.
Let us therefore pray with St. Vincent:
… Oh how foolish I have been in not profiting by the intercession of the Angels and Saints and my most beloved mother, Mary, as I could have and should have. …
I never cared to imitate the virtues of the Saints as I could and should have done. But now, enlightened by Your grace, through your infinite mercy and through the infinite merits of Jesus Christ, …I firmly believe that you will grant me … the grace to imitate the Saints in order that I may closely imitate my dear mother Mary, and my first-born brother, Jesus Christ, with greater perfection until death.” (from the 25th meditation of “God, the Infinite Love”)
But let us return once again to fundamental rule 19 and let us meditate on the phrase: “unless in some rare case when necessity and charity clearly demand otherwise”.
There is, in our time, a change in family life, the old traditions and standards, especially those of the Christian family, are carelessly and thoughtlessly abandoned. There is an urgent need to look at this reality, love calls us to respond in this pastoral and apostolic field which is the family because it is in the family that the foundation of a person’s life of faith is formed, here he or she learns to see life as being filled with the presence of God. Awakening in the child a sensitivity to God is fundamental, what is transmitted to the child by living in a truly Christian family cannot be learnt, even by the very best catechesis. It is unfortunate but many children grow up in non-Christian surroundings and this important education and formation of the heart is withheld from them.
Let us listen to Bishop Joachim Wanke, talking about this in his homily on the Feast of the Holy Family in the Cathedral of Erfurt, Germany, on December 31st. 2006:
… It seems that there was at least one successful family, namely the Holy Family of Nazareth. …
The experience of security and acceptance is part of Jesus’ humanity. The experience of having to learn what is required from each one by living together in cramped surroundings is part of his humanity. Enduring need and lack is part of it, as is the experience of just how precious solidarity and human sympathy can be in times of hardship.
As we celebrate this feast of the Holy Family, we unite our thanks for the Holy Family of Nazareth with our thanks to God for all the holy and, less than holy, families of today. There is a great deal of gossip about broken marriages and families, but let us also keep our eyes fixed on the reality of many successful marriages and families which form the basis of our human society.
Today we celebrate that God gives grace so that a man and a woman are faithful to one another, that they give life to children and nurture them to grow into life, that younger family members care for the older ones, sometimes to a heroic degree of caring for them in illness and debility for many years. It is a blessing that there are families!
The family is also, today, a learning space for successful human and Christian life. The family helps to introduce young people to the mystery of God and to stay rooted in it. One can understand the fundamental tenet of our belief, that we are loved by God, only if one can experience what this means: being accepted and being loved by another person. The warmth and security experienced in the arms of one’s mother and father, the active concern of parents, the community of brothers and sisters, of relatives, of friends: all of this is an introduction to the mystery of God’s presence, even today in our world which is characterized by reason and technology.
Let us not forget that all the love and solidarity that we give to each other is embraced by, is made possible by, God’s love and mercy. In Holy Scriptures the love of a father and a mother is referred to as a greater love which carries and sup-ports us even when all earthly securities fail.
Living together in a family is a school for selflessness. There is no better place in which there is the opportunity to practise selflessness than in a family: the experience of becoming richer instead of poorer by letting go. …
In the bosom of the family one learns best what we call Christian life practice. The feasts of the liturgical cycle of the Church’s year as entry doors to believing in God; the experience of praying and sing-ing together at home and in church, of talking about life while sitting at the kitchen table so that all the problems and difficulties of faith can be brought out and discussed, and last, but not least, it is in the bosom of the family that the practical model of Christian Catholic parents and grandparents who do not talk a lot, but just follow single mindedly and faithfully their path of faith within the Church, is seen. All of these are precious aids for the upcoming generation in order that they themselves may grow into being upright Christians.
For Reflection:
-Do I cultivate relationships with the persons I meet in a brotherly/sisterly spirit that is life giving?
-What about the relationships with my family; do I escape from my relatives and cultivate love for “my neighbour”, or for those outside of the family circle?
-Do I keep contact with my heavenly family and do I ask them for their help with all my concerns?