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What Does the Word Family Mean? (thanks Brian)

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F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.


He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'


We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.


But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.


Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.


When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.


He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.


While I lay awake in bed,God's still small voice
came to me and said,


'While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.


Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.


Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.


He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'


By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.


I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.


'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.


I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'


I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'


I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'


FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.


And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?


Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Think Before We Speak - Another Funny e-mail from my friend BrianWhy we are who we are (an e-mail)

Comments

Dacotah 21. January 2008, 04:52

I got this in an email to.
It's a good lesson.

Christy 21. January 2008, 06:12

Yes it is. I thought this was lovely. :heart:

Dacotah 21. January 2008, 06:13

:heart:

Aadil 21. January 2008, 15:11

*tears in my eye*
It's so easy to forget who we are sometimes.

Dennis 21. January 2008, 15:49

:eyes: A C.O. with a heart! awww:lol:

Very nice poem! I'm writing this one out longhand, and (snail)mailing it to my family.:D

rea's community 22. January 2008, 03:13

wow...! now i know the maening of familt ...:D

Christy 22. January 2008, 03:28

This one is great, isn't it. I really fell in love with it when I saw it. I just had to post it. :heart:

rea's community 22. January 2008, 03:30

its really great !

Christy 22. January 2008, 03:44

:heart:

leena 22. January 2008, 17:11

to me? family means who they are the people they can be their WORST of themselves with and still always i will :love: them.

outside this door ,,the world misunderstands. ppl they can not be their *true* selves? :frown:
`tis sad but true we hide our shine ,,our sorrow ,, and more...

but! here? we seem to be accepted? yes. :up: many open-minded ppl. how fortunate are we! :smile:

btw ,,i believe i did forget how nice to make your acquaintance Homer: Doh!
epileptic memory ...i am sure this you know well! *gah!

Buca ,,my dog ,,i do mistype somehow (again Homer: Doh!)
he is about #70 or so. so hard to think in pounds! :lol:
your doggie is sooo much the handsome one. very nice.

Christy 23. January 2008, 00:25

Thank you. Nice to meet you as well. What type of dog do you have? They are great to help us, aren't they? I don't know what I would do without mine.

leena 24. January 2008, 17:57

Buca is a Siberian Husky like this... except more dirty from running in the forest :lol:

my poor *old man* (staruszek) mostly he can not perform Public Servicework :frown: so he looks in on me at home :love: at first. driving this is sooo scary! without him. already couple of times i relinquish my license because levels not so much good.

here is what i take ::
Topamax˛˛Lamictal˛˛Klonopin˛˛Baclofen˛˛as well some times also Valium for if szs get ugly :down:

and yourself?

O yes. also? i will mention this...
F...families
A...always
M...mourn
I.....if not
L....loving
Y...you

`twas some thing about like so from school from a daughter of mine too long to remember exact (*gah* ...this age thing)

Christy 25. January 2008, 03:10

I love Huskies. They are so beautiful. I had surgery today and I had a seizure before my surgery because I wasn't allowed to eat for almost 2 days except jello and water (and you know how we have to eat) and I had one on the operating table. Not good.

I take: Topamax, Trileptal, Zonegran and Klonopin. I also take Verapimal for HBP and Zomig both for my severe headaches after my seizures. Do you get headaches after your seizures?

I even have Morphine here if it gets too bad, but I rarely, if ever take that.

I mostly just take my seizure meds and also my blood pressure meds.

How do you like Topamax? Some people hate it. I love it. It has been great for me.

leena 28. January 2008, 02:09

ok i understand :smile:
good for you! surgery fantastic! i am most happy for you.
couple few times i was tested but. i can not be a candidate because three lobes of my brain are affected. i have more than one type of epilepsy that is to say.
good luck and congratulations to you! :yes:

trileptal. zonegram. many many others...
try a few months/years of trial to no avail and move on.
so far topamax i can not keep levels on. as with all others. ALL others.
same with lamictal. but. i am only so far on a low dosage. only of 700mg. and 600mg. of lamictal. so is room to play yet. because. neither either both? they hardly do register in my blood. it is my metabolism! cRaZy!

yes yes O i get headaches. migraines they turn into furthermore. as a family trait. MUCH medication is tried for this. big problem here is i can not take many from mitro valve alap and it makes a problem for my hands and more from medications such as Zomig and Imitrex and the like. also i am allergic deathly from aspirin and ibuprofen. i have such limits. :frown:

finally we do this for now. 2 fioricet as needed. 2 tramadol as needed. use inhale in nose the spray of Migranal. because it is not so much as all over. for pain from muscle spasm mostly is best to use just the patches from morphine i save. but this gives to me nausea. :yuck:

Christy 28. January 2008, 02:24

Unfortunately, the surgery was not for the seizures but for something else. That surgery will hopefuly come later in the year. I also take Zomig, which I like for my headaches. They are the only pill that helps me. Imitrex almost killed me, literally. I too have more than one type of epilepsy. I have partial, complex partial, drop seizures and grand mal. Lots of fun aren't they. Whoppe. :D

One friend I went to the movies with even told me I wasn't there for a part of the movie, then all of a sudden came back, so I guess I should add absent seizure to the mix. :smile:

It is so hard to find the right medicine. I have been on so many.

leena 28. January 2008, 03:13

O yes
yes yes yes
in fact :lol:

i have photo sensitive epilepsy *true*
so this cursor who she says `CHRISTY' is blinking i must not look at
and park way away on corner of screen :lol: OR ELSE :ko: :faint:

Christy 28. January 2008, 03:54

I also have that and I recently had a terrible seizure from a bouncing ball someone sent to me on MSN, so be careful if that ever happens to you. I tend to look away from this cursor too. Someone did this blog for me as a Christmas present and I hide the cursor in the white area when I am working. :D

leena 28. January 2008, 04:32

yes ...as well the sun she flickers through tree leafs or branches as they move.
this is terrible as i drive! especially here in the country p: much MUCH forest!

Christy 28. January 2008, 04:35

I am not allowed to drive. In Maryland if you have one seizure you cannot drive for one year.

Bummer, but it does make the roads safer. :smile:

rea's community 20. April 2008, 02:25

the dogs are very funny !

Christy 2. May 2008, 04:20

Dogs are great. So cute. :smile:

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