Happiness
Monday, 9. November 2009, 19:26:08
I always wondered what happiness really is, and i was always trying to reach it... Once i though that happiness is when you accomplish to have excellent grades in school
but really if that will bring you true happiness then something is wrong with you...
Then i had obsession with being thin even though i was already somewhat thin, but who knows maybe some wrong view of perfection can bring happiness to me...
(sounds a little bit anorexic isn't it) of course that way of thinking could bring me nothing more then unhappiness with myself...
But then after some time spent thinking about my being i found out that actually real happiness can't be accomplished with changing yourself. Real happiness at least in my case is accomplished together with loving yourself the way you are.
Right now I'm happy mostly because i love myself no matter what others may say about me and because of that I'm free to change, free to stand up... Only if you are happy with yourself you can change the world that surrounds you... If you don't feel good about yourself you can be find in one monotone circle of life and you will not be strong enough to move from it and to make your life better...
In my opinion we were all born happy and lively but through growing up, and living in a world made by 'human' rules and many religions, we have lost happiness and children innocence we were all born with and became boring beings captured by the chains of the world that others who lived long before us created and that now some other people still keep like that mostly because of their stupidness...
I think we should all stand up and fight for our freedom. It is not very hard to do that, it's enough just to follow your dreams in order to accomplish it no matter what other people say about them so if you want to be singer then sing even though you don't have some talent for singing (thats what i do all the time, unfortunately for my family who had to listen to me while i do that)you may not become popular singer who others would like to hear but at least you will do something you like... It's even enough to dress the way you want no matter what someone says about combining red and pink if you like it why not (but i really don't think that can look nice, maybe something like some short pink haircut and red coat...anyway who knows)...
but really if that will bring you true happiness then something is wrong with you...
Then i had obsession with being thin even though i was already somewhat thin, but who knows maybe some wrong view of perfection can bring happiness to me...
(sounds a little bit anorexic isn't it) of course that way of thinking could bring me nothing more then unhappiness with myself...
But then after some time spent thinking about my being i found out that actually real happiness can't be accomplished with changing yourself. Real happiness at least in my case is accomplished together with loving yourself the way you are.
Right now I'm happy mostly because i love myself no matter what others may say about me and because of that I'm free to change, free to stand up... Only if you are happy with yourself you can change the world that surrounds you... If you don't feel good about yourself you can be find in one monotone circle of life and you will not be strong enough to move from it and to make your life better...
In my opinion we were all born happy and lively but through growing up, and living in a world made by 'human' rules and many religions, we have lost happiness and children innocence we were all born with and became boring beings captured by the chains of the world that others who lived long before us created and that now some other people still keep like that mostly because of their stupidness...
I think we should all stand up and fight for our freedom. It is not very hard to do that, it's enough just to follow your dreams in order to accomplish it no matter what other people say about them so if you want to be singer then sing even though you don't have some talent for singing (thats what i do all the time, unfortunately for my family who had to listen to me while i do that)you may not become popular singer who others would like to hear but at least you will do something you like... It's even enough to dress the way you want no matter what someone says about combining red and pink if you like it why not (but i really don't think that can look nice, maybe something like some short pink haircut and red coat...anyway who knows)...
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