Confusion - help please!
Monday, 2. November 2009, 22:48:24
So here I find myself in a tricky situation... There is a girl, i've liked her for a long time maybe for over a year now. And sometimes I feel like I even more than like her. She seems perfect. Shes nice, shes lovely, we always get on and I find myself always smiling around her. She is also so hot you can't imagine! And insanely pretty... In fact I think she is perfect. Lets call her laura. Me and her have been close friends for a long time and I am going to the end of school prom with her 
but I have always been given the impression that she doesn't fancy me but we are really close friends. Recently I have been getting closer to another girl. Well when I say closer we haven't been friends for a long time but I fancied her and she fancied Me so I asked her out about a month ago. This is when it goes downhill. She doesn't treat me badly really but she never seems to treat me like a proper boyfriend especially around other people. At parties or when we are on our own it seems okay but as long as we are in a big crowd she is normally teasing me or deliberately flirting with other guys to get a reaction from me. I do admit I can be a bit jealous but because I know she is joking it is okay, what annoys me is that she does it to annoy me... After all that ranting it may sound like we are bad but its okay thats only a little thing. Another thing I am sortof having issues with is kissing or snogging. She always seems very open about things when we are texting but she has told me that she isn't ready to properly kiss yet and this makes me sound like a dick but its not like sex or anything and im trying to be supportive... Despite this I want to try on and see what happens, but tonight, something happened which really changed my perspective. A very close friend who I spoke to about fancying laura before going with my current girlfriend has told me that laura now fancies me and has done for a while. This puts me in such a bad situation because I really do love laura and its like a dream come true but im in an okay relationship. The question is: Is it worth leaving the one I like for the one I love? I really need some help on this one. Harry x
but I have always been given the impression that she doesn't fancy me but we are really close friends. Recently I have been getting closer to another girl. Well when I say closer we haven't been friends for a long time but I fancied her and she fancied Me so I asked her out about a month ago. This is when it goes downhill. She doesn't treat me badly really but she never seems to treat me like a proper boyfriend especially around other people. At parties or when we are on our own it seems okay but as long as we are in a big crowd she is normally teasing me or deliberately flirting with other guys to get a reaction from me. I do admit I can be a bit jealous but because I know she is joking it is okay, what annoys me is that she does it to annoy me... After all that ranting it may sound like we are bad but its okay thats only a little thing. Another thing I am sortof having issues with is kissing or snogging. She always seems very open about things when we are texting but she has told me that she isn't ready to properly kiss yet and this makes me sound like a dick but its not like sex or anything and im trying to be supportive... Despite this I want to try on and see what happens, but tonight, something happened which really changed my perspective. A very close friend who I spoke to about fancying laura before going with my current girlfriend has told me that laura now fancies me and has done for a while. This puts me in such a bad situation because I really do love laura and its like a dream come true but im in an okay relationship. The question is: Is it worth leaving the one I like for the one I love? I really need some help on this one. Harry x
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