We know that our mind is much too complicated, since absorbs everything what is around, among other things the images that see during the day while we walked, spoke or ate.

Even though we do not pay attention to a person our mind is inputting all the information and processing it, dividing what information is for us and which is not.

And we still overload it more by making it try to decide questions of the heart like "should I or should I not forgive".

The mind, that is trying to process all its information, is being forced to respond, will send an answer to us that will take from all the information which we have gathered during our life.

What happens is that the brain receives the doubt and what it does is to look for an answer among the information that has stored in all its life, then its answer will be: "I do not have to forgive him because of this or perhaps of this," and is an answer based on the situation of a distant person that our brain took hold of and that seems to it something similar to which we want to know.

It is when one says to oneself "Why did I take so many decisions that were not those that I wanted", and it is because we let the brain assume functions that do not correspond to it.

The bad part about it is that the brain gets used to being the one always giving the answers and when we want that the heart to respond to us, the brain sends the information before.