Ways To Get Ex Girlfriend Back

Q: My girlfriend and i are still together but the last time we talked she told me she doesn’t love me anymore. What does this mean for the relationship?

A: Well, I’m going to be completely honest with you here. This does not bode well for you. If the two of you are still with each other then chances are she just wants you for the comfort of being part of a couple. Chances are she’s sticking with you only until she finds another man to be with. In order to save the relationship, you need to be firm with her and let her know that you aren’t putting up with the situation. End the relationship and let her know what it feels like to live with her decision. Don’t be surprised if she suddenly changes her mind and want the relationship to be OK again.

Q: It’s been a week since my girlfriend and I broke up. She told me she still loves me. I tried to resume the relationship but she was angry and told me she doesn’t love me anymore. What does this mean for our relationship?

A: She was trying to let you down easy and that’s probably why she told you she loves you. But then you probably committed a common mistake like trying hard to contact her. This probably got her frustrated, eventually telling you she doesn’t love you anymore just so you would stop pestering her. But seriously, she’s probably having a tough time right now. There’s a chance that you can get her back if she isn’t completely indifferent towards you. Try thinking more about yourself right now and focus on your life for about a month. This would make her miss you again as she starts to think that she is losing you. Go as slow as possible and don’t act as if you are trying to “win” her back, instead treat her like you normally would another person.

Q: What should I do if she tells me she doesn’t love me anymore but I do and want her back with me?

A: I suggest that you start off by using the No Contact Rule. Using this trick will let you get your emotions together as well as make her miss you. After not seeing each other for a long time, you’ll find yourselves calmer and more rational the next time you see each other and would be much more willing to work things out. Take it easy and don’t be too hasty with the relationship. Enjoy the dating phase while allowing the two of you to learn each other again.

Paul Lee is an expert relationship adviser who offers consultations to people who are going through bad times in their relationships. He is also the author of many articles about what to do to get my ex back, making relationships work and bettering oneself so as to help people to solve their sentimental problems. Keep reading how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back.