I was on Facebook this morning and came across a post from one of my co-workers. It made me sad and I wanted to write something, but held back.
Here's the post:
"I am so angry right now. I'm watching 30 Rock and I hear form the kitchen that "the following political advertisement contains disturbing images and may not be suitable for children." So I walk in the room wondering what the hell is going on and there is a commercial for Randall Terry for president going on about how abortion is murder. WTF is wrong with people!! This ad was so fucked up, I can't ...even believe the things he was saying and the images they were showing were allowed to be on TV. Yeah, free speech, I get it but OH MY GOD! Has anyone else seen any of these??? I googled him and went to his site. I am absolutely appalled by the ads he has on there, just from the pictures. He embodies everything I hate. Sorry I'm ranting but my cats just don't understand what the big deal is. I'm not even going to put a link up because I have my little cousins on here. I'm shaking I'm so mad!"
And the following responses...
Male:
"I was shocked by what i saw, BUT ... I defend his right to show it."
Female 1:
"yeah, he's pretty intense! He is against abortion but would he prefer these babies to be born and then eventually abused/neglected/killed by parents who didnt want them in the first place? Or better yet, drop off your babies at his place-maybe he'll support them."
Female 2:
"He is completly fucked in his head, just saw his ads, ok have your beliefs fine but but his shit is just sick!!"
Female 3:
"Fuck that cock sucking douche fucker! If jane gets raped by her daddy and gets knocked up, who the fuck is he to tell her not to?!?!.. Fuck him! I hope someone sticks a coat hanger in his skull!
I'm so sick of people with there self-righteous attitudes! Like he's not a woman and will never personally be in that awful situation of struggling with the decision to keep or abort. So its easy to sit on his high horse and label women who use abortion as murderers when he has no right. Only God can judge mother fucker. So no matter how he tries to shoot his pretentious commercials thinking he's educating us on morality, really he's showing us how ignorantly ridiculous he is. Fuck him!"
I finally got brave and responded:
"I haven't seen the ads, nor do I know much about this guy, but I would like to say something about this topic. In the US alone, 3700 abortions are done each day. 1% occur because of rape or incent, 6% for health reasons (mom or child) and 93% are for social reasons; the child is unwanted or an inconvenience. These stats come from pro-abortion sources, not pro-lifers, and are quite alarming, I think. My thoughts...if the 93% don't want children, they can go on the pill, get their tubes tied, a vasectomy, whatever. Respect life."
Female 3:
"I agree and understand some women abuse it as a form of birth control, which is just disgusting, but wtf are they gonna do, hook everyone up to a lie detector to decide if the person's reason for not wanting to have the child is good enough? Get real. I'm not saying I think abortions right but with the exception of the abusers I think it should be a woman's choice. And I do respect life."
Me:
"Norma McCorvey was Jane Doe in Roe vs Wade. She invented a rape story in an attempt to make a stronger case for abortion. Hence, this law was passed based on a lie and, as a result, 47 million innocent unborn babies die worldwide each year (x 38 years) She was just a young girl at the time and was taken advantage of by feminist lawyers looking to establish a right to abortion for all women. I believe in free choice, too, but no matter what our choices are, they always impact others, for better or worst. Btw, Norma is now a strong, pro-life activist."
Male:
Easy...easy...
Female 3:
"I'm a mother myself. I have two beautiful children and have had two and only two pregnancies. I myself would love to say I would never have an abortion but I don't believe in them but I have never been faced with a situation that would ever... lead me to have one. Until you walk the shoes of a stranger you don't know what there reasons are for why they do what they do. The numbers are depressing and I'm sure not all is justifiable, but I still believe in choice as well as life. If that makes sense? No disrespect to anyone's opinion, that's just mine."
Me:
"I hear you and I'm not judging. I believe as a people there must be a more compassionate way to help those in need. I don't believe abortion is the answer. How can a women forget the child in her womb? As a mother of three, I don't think that's possible. I think people in tough situations are more likely to have an abortion because the law makes it easy to. If we were to do away with that law,I think people would be more careful, take better precautions."
Female 3:
"Right. Well what I don't understand is why people who have multiple abortions are allowed to keep having them. Its obviously charted in their medical history so why isn't it limited? Not saying it should be treated as the ten items or less line at the market but...."
Original Poster:
"I was raped and as a result ended up pregnant. I had an abortion but I'm not a murderer, I saved my own life that day. I lived in foster homes and half way houses. Lots of them. I would never willingly put a child in that sort of situation,... but I digress. No one should feel it's ok to push their beliefs onto others as gospel. You live your life. I'll live mine and that's that. This guys approach is deplorable and I hope he gets what he deserves."
Female 3:
"You're the statistic I have been debating for. Exactly why I believe in choice. Sorry to hear that happened to you hun. Hope that fucker rots in hell."
Me:
"I'm so sorry that happened to you, too, and for the loss of your child. I hope you were able to bring charges against the bastard that hurt you. I haven't seen the ads and, as a victim of sexual violence, totally understand why he pushed your buttons. Maybe I should have checked him out before I posted. I just think abortions in general are often performed as a means of birth control and that saddens me to no end to think that people in those instances can be so indifferent. I love you and hope there are no hard feelings."
Original Poster:
"Never, you know I love you

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Okay, obviously emotions were getting involved, perhaps deep mental, emotional, and spiritual wounds began to fester as well. Best to leave well alone, in public anyway, but it doesn't change my beliefs.
Abortion is a cry against humanity. This guy is only showing what it is; it's reality. Abortions are violent in nature, and an attack against the most vulnerable in society. Sick? Damn right. But we've all become compliant. Desensitized. Indifferent. After all, it's legal right? Not my problem? Sound familiar? It has become this way for me, too. I needed a wake up call.
Let's stop this senseless violence, individually and collectively.
And, the videos aren't that graphic at all. It would totally sicken you to see the remains of an abortion.
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Or you can view here, if you are so brave.
http://www.priestsforlife.org/images/index.aspx