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Brain Power!

Okay so I had my yearly performance review yesterday. No worries, but I have to improve my average CHT(call handle time) which was right on the mark a few months ago. Effective October 31, 2011, we converted to a new system--talk about a challenge! This system is not hard to use but it's not that user friendly either and, well, there are still lots of fixes that need to take place so I often refer to our old system to ensure the information I am giving out is accurate. My boss, Mark, is a nice guy but the two of us think so differently. Thirty percent of our department have met their CHT goal so you can figure out where the rest of us fall. I don't like his approach of posting daily numbers--I find this both stressful and annoying but he is doing what is expected from upper management. One thing I did notice is that the twenty-something year olds are the ones becoming quite successful at this and so I feel age has a significant factor.



To confirm this, which was quite ironic, I awoke last night to a promotional show selling
Procera AVH. The benefits sound alot like someone taking an antidepressant. When attempting to quit smoking some time ago, my primary care physician prescribed Wellbutrin. I had taken it before and was very successful!! up Eventually, I succumbed to the temptation to light up again and it was down hill from there. Anyway, I wasn't successful this time around but stayed on it because it was definitely helping my brain deal with stressful events. I stopped taking in October and have to admit I do feel sluggish again. sad

Procere AVH is out of my price range right now and I dont wish to take an antidepressant so I did some research this morning on ways to increase brain power. Diet is one huge fact, and drinking lots of water. I love Salmon and blueberries, two of the top five brain foods, so I am seriously thinking of incorporating these two into my diet on a daily basis.

There are other things one can do to unleach the brain's full potential. I found 120 these things on Litemind, but here are a few I would enjoy and can easily do starting TODAY.

Cultivate ambidexterity. Use your non-dominant hand to brush your teeth, comb your hair or use the mouse. Write with both hands simultaneously. Switch hands for knife and fork.

Block one or more senses. Eat blindfolded, wear earplugs, shower with your eyes closed.

Develop comparative tasting. Learn to properly taste wine, chocolate, beer, cheese or anything else.

Find intersections between seemingly unrelated topics.

Reverse your assumptions.

Learn creativity techniques.

Go beyond the first, ‘right’ answer.

Transpose reality. Ask “What if?” questions.

Turn pictures or the desktop wallpaper upside down. (From personal experience, this is a great way to learn to draw!)

Draw. Doodle. You don’t need to be an artist.

Think positive.

Eat ‘brain foods’.

Exercise!

Sit up straight.

Drink lots of water.

Deep-breathe.

Laugh!

Sleep well.

Listen to music.

Conquer procrastination.

Master self-talk.

Simplify!

Be childish.

Be humorous!

Create a List of 100.

Engage in ‘theme observation’. Try to spot the color red as many times as possible in a day.

Keep a journal.

Change your environment. Change the placement of objects or furniture — or go somewhere else.

Write! Write a story, poetry, start a blog.

Visit a museum.

Meditate. Cultivate mindfulness and an empty mind.

Get in touch with nature.

Do one thing at a time.

Be aware of cognitive biases.

Put yourself in someone else’s shoes. How would different people think or solve your problems? How would a fool tackle it?

Adopt an attitude of contemplation.

Take time for solitude and relaxation.

Commit yourself to lifelong learning.

Don’t stick with only like-minded people. Have people around that disagree with you.

Go to the root of the problems.

Collect quotes.

Develop self-awareness.

Say your problems out loud.

Describe one experience in painstaking detail.

Challenge yourself.

Develop your visualization skills. Use it at least 5 minutes a day.

Take notes of your dreams. Keep a notebook by your bedside and record your dreams first thing in the morning or as you wake up from them.

Learn to lucid dream.

Find metaphors. Connect abstract and specific concepts.

Manage stress.

Take different routes each day. Change the streets you follow to work, jog or go back home.

Deliver more than what’s expected

Super Bowl Sunday



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Happy Birthday Blog!

Wow, can't believe 5 years have passed already.

I always wanted a blog, but the thoughts of creating one back then seemed like it would be difficult, until I was actually here and realized how easy My Opera made it happy

I have so many fond memories buried throughout these pages and cherish each and everyone. Some of my posts are serious and meant to inspire, I hope I have achieved that. Others are just plain silly and nonsensical and my favorites smile

Special thanks to Rudy love who introduced me to My Opera--I will never forget the many days we spent frolocking together, and for our imaginary partner in crime, Hiteshi, an angel and very real.

And to all of my friends that I have met since, thank you, you all have earned a special place in my heart...forever. heart

My very first post can be read here

I Stole This From Dennis

Some videos are just worth reposting happy

Epiphany Sunday

"Hey XXXXX"

If you're going to call me "XXXXX," then I'll have to call you "OOOO."

And so it is.




Say What?!?



So yesterday I told a small white lie by calling in sick. o I know, shame on me, but all these extra mandatory hours are really getting to me and I'm exhausted. AND I suddenly had this sense of panic that I am not going to be prepared for next month's court appearance. scared

After showering, I decided to take a drive over to the Family Court House to ask the Lawyer of the Day to clarify a few legal terms for me--I don't know why the Courts feel they have to have their own language irked and I am told by this rather bitchy person that they can't help me because I am not indigent. lol Okay, not funny. I only wanted five minutes of time. The woman at the desk showed me the chart they follow and it appears they only help the poorest of poor. She suggested looking on-line, which I had already done, so she directed me to a Superior Court that had a law library, and very near to my home town. up

I didn't even know this place existed. A newer building, maybe just a few years old, and very high-techish looking, who would ever think it was a Court House? I made my way to the third floor by way of a talking elevator cool and scanned the hallway for a sign that would direct me to the library. I couldn't find one but did pass by a door that had a window and inside were lots of books!! This had to be the place so I open the door, walk in, and set off an alarm!! yikes

This was no ordinary alarm. There was a siren, flashing blue lights, and it talked too!!

"Warning, intruder alert, help is on the way!"

I was stunned and bit afraid. What was going to happen next? Two women hurried towards me. I apologized and asked if I was in a restricted zone. I had no idea I wasn't suppose to enter, didn't see a sign, and it was the first time I had ever set foot in this building.

One of the women assured me everything was okay and said the alarm goes off alot! She then asked how she could help and directed me to the material I was searching for. She also printed a list of resources and told me I could sign out two books that day if I applied for a library card, and the card was free! party

She was a nice woman, pleasant and very helpful, not the usual type you come across in a government facility. And I got my library card in the mail today. happy



2012



May you be blessed with
warmth in your home,
love in your heart,
peace in your soul
and joy in your life.


Respect Life

I was on Facebook this morning and came across a post from one of my co-workers. It made me sad and I wanted to write something, but held back.

Here's the post:

"I am so angry right now. I'm watching 30 Rock and I hear form the kitchen that "the following political advertisement contains disturbing images and may not be suitable for children." So I walk in the room wondering what the hell is going on and there is a commercial for Randall Terry for president going on about how abortion is murder. WTF is wrong with people!! This ad was so fucked up, I can't ...even believe the things he was saying and the images they were showing were allowed to be on TV. Yeah, free speech, I get it but OH MY GOD! Has anyone else seen any of these??? I googled him and went to his site. I am absolutely appalled by the ads he has on there, just from the pictures. He embodies everything I hate. Sorry I'm ranting but my cats just don't understand what the big deal is. I'm not even going to put a link up because I have my little cousins on here. I'm shaking I'm so mad!"

And the following responses...

Male:

"I was shocked by what i saw, BUT ... I defend his right to show it."

Female 1:

"yeah, he's pretty intense! He is against abortion but would he prefer these babies to be born and then eventually abused/neglected/killed by parents who didnt want them in the first place? Or better yet, drop off your babies at his place-maybe he'll support them."

Female 2:

"He is completly fucked in his head, just saw his ads, ok have your beliefs fine but but his shit is just sick!!"

Female 3:

"Fuck that cock sucking douche fucker! If jane gets raped by her daddy and gets knocked up, who the fuck is he to tell her not to?!?!.. Fuck him! I hope someone sticks a coat hanger in his skull!

I'm so sick of people with there self-righteous attitudes! Like he's not a woman and will never personally be in that awful situation of struggling with the decision to keep or abort. So its easy to sit on his high horse and label women who use abortion as murderers when he has no right. Only God can judge mother fucker. So no matter how he tries to shoot his pretentious commercials thinking he's educating us on morality, really he's showing us how ignorantly ridiculous he is. Fuck him!"

I finally got brave and responded:

"I haven't seen the ads, nor do I know much about this guy, but I would like to say something about this topic. In the US alone, 3700 abortions are done each day. 1% occur because of rape or incent, 6% for health reasons (mom or child) and 93% are for social reasons; the child is unwanted or an inconvenience. These stats come from pro-abortion sources, not pro-lifers, and are quite alarming, I think. My thoughts...if the 93% don't want children, they can go on the pill, get their tubes tied, a vasectomy, whatever. Respect life."

Female 3:

"I agree and understand some women abuse it as a form of birth control, which is just disgusting, but wtf are they gonna do, hook everyone up to a lie detector to decide if the person's reason for not wanting to have the child is good enough? Get real. I'm not saying I think abortions right but with the exception of the abusers I think it should be a woman's choice. And I do respect life."

Me:

"Norma McCorvey was Jane Doe in Roe vs Wade. She invented a rape story in an attempt to make a stronger case for abortion. Hence, this law was passed based on a lie and, as a result, 47 million innocent unborn babies die worldwide each year (x 38 years) She was just a young girl at the time and was taken advantage of by feminist lawyers looking to establish a right to abortion for all women. I believe in free choice, too, but no matter what our choices are, they always impact others, for better or worst. Btw, Norma is now a strong, pro-life activist."

Male:

Easy...easy...

Female 3:

"I'm a mother myself. I have two beautiful children and have had two and only two pregnancies. I myself would love to say I would never have an abortion but I don't believe in them but I have never been faced with a situation that would ever... lead me to have one. Until you walk the shoes of a stranger you don't know what there reasons are for why they do what they do. The numbers are depressing and I'm sure not all is justifiable, but I still believe in choice as well as life. If that makes sense? No disrespect to anyone's opinion, that's just mine."

Me:

"I hear you and I'm not judging. I believe as a people there must be a more compassionate way to help those in need. I don't believe abortion is the answer. How can a women forget the child in her womb? As a mother of three, I don't think that's possible. I think people in tough situations are more likely to have an abortion because the law makes it easy to. If we were to do away with that law,I think people would be more careful, take better precautions."

Female 3:

"Right. Well what I don't understand is why people who have multiple abortions are allowed to keep having them. Its obviously charted in their medical history so why isn't it limited? Not saying it should be treated as the ten items or less line at the market but...."

Original Poster:

"I was raped and as a result ended up pregnant. I had an abortion but I'm not a murderer, I saved my own life that day. I lived in foster homes and half way houses. Lots of them. I would never willingly put a child in that sort of situation,... but I digress. No one should feel it's ok to push their beliefs onto others as gospel. You live your life. I'll live mine and that's that. This guys approach is deplorable and I hope he gets what he deserves."

Female 3:

"You're the statistic I have been debating for. Exactly why I believe in choice. Sorry to hear that happened to you hun. Hope that fucker rots in hell."

Me:

"I'm so sorry that happened to you, too, and for the loss of your child. I hope you were able to bring charges against the bastard that hurt you. I haven't seen the ads and, as a victim of sexual violence, totally understand why he pushed your buttons. Maybe I should have checked him out before I posted. I just think abortions in general are often performed as a means of birth control and that saddens me to no end to think that people in those instances can be so indifferent. I love you and hope there are no hard feelings."

Original Poster:

"Never, you know I love you smile"

Okay, obviously emotions were getting involved, perhaps deep mental, emotional, and spiritual wounds began to fester as well. Best to leave well alone, in public anyway, but it doesn't change my beliefs.

Abortion is a cry against humanity. This guy is only showing what it is; it's reality. Abortions are violent in nature, and an attack against the most vulnerable in society. Sick? Damn right. But we've all become compliant. Desensitized. Indifferent. After all, it's legal right? Not my problem? Sound familiar? It has become this way for me, too. I needed a wake up call.

Let's stop this senseless violence, individually and collectively.

And, the videos aren't that graphic at all. It would totally sicken you to see the remains of an abortion.

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Or you can view here, if you are so brave. http://www.priestsforlife.org/images/index.aspx

Christmas Musings

There seemed to be a reoccurring theme this Christmas, birds, cosmic and reciprocal in nature. While most people might not notice these things, I do, and I often wonder if these observences come from God. So I had a little heart to heart talk with God about this and, in return, felt inspired to write. I got thinking about different birds, what they symbolize, and which ones I could best relate to. Nothing struck a cord so I put my thoughts aside for the time being and decided to take my daughter to the Mall.

We weren’t more than a half mile down the street when we both notice two beautiful swans gliding ever so gracefully through the water. Captivated by their splendor, we both exclaimed in unison, “I need to get my camera!” I quickly turned around and drove home. Jen grabbed her 35 mm camera while I reached for my trusty little digital and hurried back to the pond.



Hmm, I thought, how perfect. Swans. Symbolic of Love, Grace, Intuition, Union, Purity, Beauty, Elegance, Dreams, and Balance. Very Christmasee.

Beloved Sojourners-A Tale of Two Birds

Farewell to the old with the setting of the sun.

To the rising glory of a new day

Heroic hearts

Unwaivering in faith

Never forgotten

Strengthened by love, kindness, and hope.

They see their image again for the first time

In a reflective pool of water

Set free

Transformed





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