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Verbal abuse

It's like almost months maybe i never visit this place anymore bigsmile but i do really love this place even i dont hang around much here.

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Let me shot you all with a funny story here, i received a mail from a girl that very rude attacked me by verbal. and i could say it was verbal abuse.
Really, i did not surprised about it because its happens almost every day in internet or if we have social life on internet. The thing i could not take was this girl is highly educated and i am sure she is from honorable family. down So, let me say that education cant guarantee somebody have a smart manner. Luckly i did not report it to the police because if i did she will be sued because it cant be counted as cybercrimes. She was threaten me and humiliation. and i have all the evidence.

I just want to explain something here, if you dont like somebody use a smart way, not a way that can get you in jail. I am not a stupid person, i know how to treat a human as a human not an animal. i know manner and i know how not to bother anyone's life.

You may not like somebody else or jealous but use the fair way. be a gentle if you want to get in competition. But i dont even think there is any competition doh the awkward is i dont even know this person cat can you people imagine, you have been attacked by people that you even never meet in personal and you did not know them before. eek
I was just thinking, i know the world goes crazy but hey mad lets just be cool off. Who the fuck are you confused jeez down if you want to beat me come on my face lets just do that as a gentle.

i was not mad bigsmile but its warning from me, be smart before you do something stupid because everything you wrote on internet they will never cant be deleted even you did.
Use your brain before you regret it in entire of your life, peeps. Especially if you are an educated man. Never let those money that used to paid your education wasted away.

I know Nothingsweet apple

Comments

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:15:25 AM

you fell into the trap by replying on here,just delete and block,,said it a hundred times.doh

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:20:37 AM

i dont fell trapped Kyle, i just feel i should write my opinion thats all.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:23:06 AM

well everyone should know what to do in such situations by now.

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:25:59 AM

yes i did block that person but i have better idea, we should get people think before they act. I was thinking about sue her, the law is quite here. Cybercrime.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:26:52 AM

you walk an expensive minefield if you do.

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:28:16 AM

well, that's worth. Somebody should do something so there is no more victim.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:29:51 AM

not so,there are thousands on the internet who are abusive,not possible to rid all of them.It would bankrupt you if you tried.

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:32:17 AM

lo, i dont need to sue them all, i just need to deal with my case, the one that happened to me. Media can blow up about it, people read. Maybe it would not make big changes but at least i give a contribution to rid one of that "impolite" person from the "market". Even its a little.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:33:32 AM

well your choice,you will think better when you see the Lawyers fees.

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:34:45 AM

No worry Kyle, anything is worth for a justice

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:35:53 AM

you don't understand,these people will return with a different user name,so pointless.

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:37:30 AM

well, the case is not like you think. i cant tell it more or who was the person i meant, but if i do really sue her she will get in jail.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:39:01 AM

she in jail,and you bankrupt,your choice

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:41:44 AM

oh man, you talking like i am an idiot and its like sound i dont know how to get a good lawyer and spend my money smile its not UK, at least i know how much i should pay.
Well anyway, i still treat human as a human, so its still only a plan to get "law ways" or i will just walk by

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:45:34 AM

good luck with it,you will need it.you think your going to change internet laws,no,it will never happen,simply because their are none..

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:50:17 AM

i think you just got me wrong, read again carefully every of my statement. Dont go just only by your thought. never in my brain want to change the internet laws. Read again Kyle smile i know you are smart. Have a nice day anyway and happy thanksgiving

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:52:37 AM

Originally posted by ishipa:

so its still only a plan to get "law ways"


"law ways" means a change in the law,,,as i said,good look...

Himawariishipa Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:55:49 AM

bigsmile totally wrong

Originally posted by keederboy:

"law ways"


means " to fix the issues by legal" i dont need luck, not anymore.

Blake Walkupbwalkup1 Wednesday, November 21, 2012 10:59:11 AM

I agree with you, Himawari. I think part of the problem with the internet is people just blow these things off and never report it. not saying a lawsuit is in order but there are criminal acts that you posted that should be dealth with.

if people started prosecuting people for criminal acts on line, it would take long before people started acting better on line. granted Kyle's right and it will never completely go away but people need to be held accountable for their actions.

I'm currently having a case investigated, but mine deals with fraudulent accounts being set up in my name and some of my accounts were hacked into.

Best of luck.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 12:30:16 PM

not everyone has the funds to take out a law suit of this magnitude,which could take years,if you have such funds,then go for it.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 12:58:13 PM

Originally posted by ishipa:

"law ways"


this means different things in different countries.

*If you take a case to court,any case,then you must be prepared for the opposing Barrister(attorney)to dig out and put forward all your interactions that you have had online to the court,this will include emails,and any text messages that you have had with anyone,if your prepared for that,and have enough money,then proceed.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 2:31:43 PM

well we all know about cibercrime,dealing with it is another matter.

Blake Walkupbwalkup1 Wednesday, November 21, 2012 4:30:04 PM

Kyle you're right dealing with cybercrime is diffuclt. Most people never even report it

And that needs to change. People aren't being held accountable for their on line actions and that needs to change.

If people commit a crime on line, it should be no different from any other crime. Once enough people are charged with cybercrimes, people will start to think twice before violating laws.

Put them all in jail I say. smile

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 5:52:12 PM

well this is easy to say,difficult to put into practice.users online that commit these crimes never post their right name,and as you know,online you can be whoever you wish to be,from micky mouse to popeye,so finding these people is a mighty task.If an individual takes them on,they will need deep pockets for this action,and how many have such funds?
As i said earlier,report any abuse,the block the abuser,this will take them out of the picture as far as one individual is concerned,and if everyone done this,the problem is half way to being solved.
If you are getting abuse online,and you return that abuse,then you also become an abuser.so report-block and they no longer exist in your part of the internet,stand and argue with returned abuse,then you also become an abuser.

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 6:10:04 PM

*here is my take on the internet/social networks*

At any one moment of any hour of any day,their are millions of people online throughout the world on any social network.If you have millions of people online then the law of averages say that some of these people will be abusive,that is fact.So why are we surprised when we ourselves get abusive comments?It is because we do not expect such behavior,because most of us are not abusive,so it is a slight shock to our system.Some who get abusive messages get angry,some,like myself will dismiss it as the way of the web,and take the appropriate action,ie:report,delete and block,and leave it to the site administrators.If you get angry you lose control of sensible thinking,and could abuse the abuser,thereby becoming an abuser yourself,in that scenario the abuser has won.

Kai mutum!Dajit Wednesday, November 21, 2012 6:13:15 PM

so it's like I am strong and mighty and internet is my battle field type,let me at em irked !

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 21, 2012 6:15:56 PM

you can be strong and mighty if you keep your cool and do the right thing.You look upon it as a fight/battlefield,then you will lose.

Blake Walkupbwalkup1 Thursday, November 22, 2012 12:00:17 AM

Me lose, never ha.

You're right Kyle, but with the tracking available today in seconds if I wanted to know, I could find out your information from IP address to internet provider and even what browser you're using. Its not that easy to hide on line these days.

Anyway, lets move on to the next topic.

Himawariishipa Thursday, November 22, 2012 3:19:42 AM

bigeyes slow down people wink lol
let me explain something here : i was upset about the threatened i got via email and yes i was thinking to about legal stuff to solve the problem but i will give one more chance. As i said i treat human as a human. But it still be warning for everyone to be behave on internet, especially in language. The difference of language could be a big problem that caused misunderstanding so my advice is just "be mature and be wise".

Originally posted by bwalkup1:

Its not that easy to hide on line these days.


yes you are right, i love this tech now p and interested to learn much more about it. I have friends who mad at this, such a crazy nerd lol lol but they are awesome.

Kai mutum!Dajit Thursday, November 22, 2012 3:32:13 AM

happy as long as you are cool with it debbz!

Himawariishipa Thursday, November 22, 2012 3:35:54 AM

p i am always cool . Like my head is full of ice cream

keeder kkeederboy Thursday, November 22, 2012 8:14:38 AM

case closed...

Kai mutum!Dajit Tuesday, November 27, 2012 5:58:30 AM

yup!

keeder kkeederboy Tuesday, November 27, 2012 8:29:13 AM

yup yup yup...

Kai mutum!Dajit Tuesday, November 27, 2012 5:16:49 PM

you're making it sound yuppy!
oh and Kyle if you're on yahoo please say hi to debbz for me too!

keeder kkeederboy Tuesday, November 27, 2012 6:06:41 PM

she is never there now days,neither is anyone else,a waste of time.

Kai mutum!Dajit Wednesday, November 28, 2012 11:44:46 AM

so she isn't here either,so she's bussy I guess!

keeder kkeederboy Wednesday, November 28, 2012 1:53:41 PM

who knows,she comes and she goes/

Himawariishipa Thursday, November 29, 2012 4:31:18 AM

sorry, i was not healthy lately smile but if you send me any email i will reply. Hope to chat you soon guys.

Kai mutum!Dajit Friday, November 30, 2012 3:26:08 PM

ok!

Kai mutum!Dajit Friday, November 30, 2012 3:26:41 PM

get well get well!

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