I would like to share my recent realizations from my own personal reflection. Let me blither on LOVE, commonly used yet oftentimes misunderstood if not misused.

I questioned myself many times am I a good lover?
Am I willing to sacrifice for the persons dearest to my heart?
To what extent do I demonstrate love?
How far will I go or how short do I fall out of love?
Too many questions but let me focus on one question which is how do I treat LOVE?

Love comes in different forms and in different disguises. But sometimes the way we treat love is similar to how we treat a comfort room. Funny it seems yet I find the analogy fitted on this topic.

A CR is a necessity and so is Love. A CR is something that we cannot live without and so is Love. A CR is a place of refuge when we feel discomfort and so is Love. A CR allows us to be at our confident selves and so is Love. But the difference between the two is that a CR can only be remembered when we feel the urge to use it, when nature’s calling.

Indeed a CR is something that we can’t live without but it is also easily forgotten once done and requires courage for maintenance and cleaning. How many of us reminisce our comfort rooms after using it? Do you even spare a moment to take a second look?

Do we treat LOVE the same way as our comfort rooms? I hope not, for love needs constant nurturing. When we love, it is a requirement to express it unconditionally, regardless of what time it is or what the circumstances are. It’s not something that we only remember when we feel the urge of it. If it is then it's not love rather infatuation. I hope not! Because if that is the case then your LOVE, my love, our love is nothing but ass goblins.

It is important to note that a comfort room may flush out garbage but LOVE disposes hatred and eases out suffering. It must be handled and treated with utmost care.

If we are aware of how we treat LOVE, and are mindful and sincere of it, I think we all can be better at loving each other. There would be less chaos in this world and less fighting among ourselves.

What do you think? How do you treat LOVE?