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Just a lovely girl with dreams ... sometimes letting a dream go it is the hardest of all! Do what you feel is the right thing for Alla not for him Good Luck !

before you do that,
go infront of your mirror cross your hands on you chest to a hug and tell yourself "I am worthy".Then do what your heart tells you..

You're neither of those things. You're a beautiful girl with a wonderful head on her shoulders. Love hurts worse than any physical pain I've felt...and I've had two kids.

I know it hurts right now...badly, but time will help you to get passed it enough to be able to sleep and feel good again. I love you!

There is a beautiful book written by Shel Silverstein "The Missing Piece". It tells a lot about us on a personal level yet written so simply.

"Oh, I'm lookin' for my missin' piece
I'm lookin' for my missin' piece
Hi-dee-ho, here I go
lookin' for my missin' piece"

I love that guy! Darko, I'm impressed!
 Alla, think it over. Why do you feel guilty? Both the ladies make sense, maybe your hearts compass needs adjusting. *hug*

Allish, don't follow your heart on this one. You don't have to apologise for anything. You have done nothing wrong. You need to move on without feeling guilty. You don't have to apologise at all. Why you feel guilty? I think it all originates from the time when Eve offered Adam the forbidden apple...since then women have been carrying the guilty-feeling.

I love that guy, too!!! Shel Silverstein was the man!


Kerstin - I know we don't talk much, but wow. I'd never thought of it like that before. I have an intense problem with guilt and you just put it in a new perspective for me. Thank you!

Hello Karen! Shouldn't you be asleep? I'm up working on a PPP, before I take off to uni.
You know what? I have an intense problem with guilt too. I wonder how many women don't. The only thing we can do, is to try to be colder...not overanalyze everything, cause that's when we are brought down. (This sentences can be a mixture of swedish and english=swenglish, just warning you. )

Allish, I've been thinking why you (the majority of women) have guilt-feelings. Could it be because you don't feel worthy of a much better man?

Me? Sleep? What's that?!

It sucks that so many people are plagued with guilt. Meh! It's just such a horrible feeling to have ALL THE TIME.

I want to sleep at this moment...but..but..I have to do my work since I decided to go out to party yesterday

Originally posted by Nerak:

It sucks that so many people are plagued with guilt. Meh! It's just such a horrible feeling to have ALL THE TIME

That's why we have to work on removing our guilt from our behaviours. It's difficult, but we have to work on it. We can't go around being troubled by things which we should not even take under consideration.

@ Swenglish... *hugs*

What's funny?

The word!

Oh...but you know..In Sweden we use a lot of swenglish! Even when we are supposed to speak English...we make swedish words english...or the order of the wordings are englishfied or swedishified!

That's true, Kerstin...but I've always been plagued by it, so trying to change it now that I'm 35 seems nearly impossible. It's NOT impossible...just feels like it.

Neither - you are you, and you are good as you are.

Well..you better start removing all the thinking about the feeling that it's nearly impossible. I know that it's difficult...but...we have to start thinking positively about it.

Very true. I suppose it's a matter of perception. If I think I'm a piece of crap, then that's how I will act. However, if I think I'm worthy, then I will be worthy.

Thank you for the pep talk! You pwn!

YOU!? masochist or a conformist?! No God damn way in hell!!

there isn't enough real men for real women !

Why in God's name apologize for something you have not done?
And why stick with only one when you can have fun with more than one friend's ..until the "ONE" is found

spit on him and slap him! and say : Amir said you'r not a man! And tell him I'M A Persian Pride Gangster! shit! I'm scaring myself here!!

GO Amir GO!

YEAH!
There is a Persian say : Friend's are closer than your brother or sister"As a soul mate" My love go's far beyond Love , couse it's Friend's love

Originally posted by kalynka:

...the feeling when you realize that you just can't be with a person but at the same time it's not the same without him.

I know that feeling all too well. In the long-run, it will all be for the better. If only you could fast forward a little bit into the future so you could bypass all of these negative feelings you're filled with right now.

I would love to see that as well!