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forever changing...

Like the leaves of Autumn...CHANGING

Changing...most things and people change all the time as everything that takes place in our lives makes us the person that we are, how we handle things and changes us for the good or betterr every minute of everyday

I often wonder,will I be able to notice that change in myself like I see it in other people...do people see me more than I see myself.When relationships end because they fell inlove with each other but cant seem to see each other anymore its probably because they love each other as the people they once were. It worries me sometimes, makes me afraid to change because what if I lose people because of the changes I'll go through.


In some wonderful cases people grow together , change together and sometimes it strengthens relationships.

Maybe i keep looking in the mirror and ask myself."Who are you", because Im changing all the time so fast and I cant keep up to see myself in time.Anyway change is good most of the time and maybe we change all the time because we are made to suit people and situations at different times in our lives and I must admit letting go of what was is hard but sometimes its for the best,but looking back and appreciating things for what it was is really good.

I recently lost a friend and I watched it happening, we just drifted away. She has this AWESOME personality and she clicks with everyone,really outgoing and i miss her alot but i'd rather have her be friends with people she enjoys being with rather than being with me and feeling lost.

Changing is sometimes for the better or worse...But you cant stop it,its a part of life,hard part in some cases but has to happen.Like the leaves of Autumn im changing all the time.

dedicated to Amina

The 2010 world cup madness in South Africa Cape town!IMAGINATION VERSES REALITY

Comments

kyle 5. November 2009, 06:47

I have mentioned "moving on" in many of my blogs,and this is indirectly what this blog is about.I think we sometimes expect to much from people that we regard as friends,because people are as diverse ,like the weather,it changes from season to season,and so do people.My taste in some music has changed,i used to love rap,now i can't stand it,but i always hold on to some music that i love.The same goes for people,we tire of some,hold on to others,it is called being diverse.If we try to understand why we are like this,it will wreck your head,for want of a better phrase,so my thoughts on this are,not to expect any special treatment from people,and you will not be disappointed,just move on,thanks.

Aaqeelah 5. November 2009, 08:01

You dont always have to move on,holding on isnt bad especially when u really want to and ull get what u want ou tof it.thanks for commenting kyle

kyle 5. November 2009, 08:05

it depends on the situation,if you know their is no future in it,then move on,if their is a glimmer of hope ,then yes,fight for it,,it depends on the scenario.

Aaqeelah 5. November 2009, 08:11

true true better than getting hurt but if there is hope i'll always be my stubborn self:whistle: :smile:

kyle 5. November 2009, 08:17

stubborn is often mistaken for will,a fine line if you like

Aaqeelah 5. November 2009, 08:22

hmm maybe but people often tell me im the most stubborn person theyve ever met

kyle 5. November 2009, 08:28

stubborn or a will to get what you want,their is a difference,just do your own thinking

Aaqeelah 5. November 2009, 08:31

i have a strong will...hmm thanks kyle maybe its nt a bad thing

Aaqeelah 5. November 2009, 08:31

i have a strong will...hmm thanks kyle maybe its nt a bad thing

Just Gia 11. December 2009, 04:42

Changing is sometimes for the better or worse.its a part of life,hard part in some cases



it is just like you have to adapt yourself to a new environment
In my opinion, this aspect is very complicated, so i would not go too far, but i agree it is just a part of life so we had better take it easy

kyle 11. December 2009, 06:56

Originally posted by theredtearsinheaven:

this aspect is very complicated


for me it is not complicated,we must change as different situations arises,if we do not,then we become lost in the past,which is of little use to anyone,so,not complicated,just a necessity

Aaqeelah 11. December 2009, 07:21

but s0metimes its really hard2 let go kyle.people dl with thngs in diff ways

kyle 11. December 2009, 07:30

people do things in different ways yes,so it follows that their are different solutions.

Aaqeelah 11. December 2009, 07:36

Ok thanks 4 all the comments kyle. I always value ur opinion :smile:

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