Reverend Keith D Millership Offical Blog

lot of older people or people who grew up years ago have a believe that spanking your child for discipline is ok, or that is just showing the child they should not do something but as studies have shown by spanking your child you are hurting your child emotionally and mentally pulse you are braking the law because it is child abuse. Yes where it may have been the normal way things were done years ago it is 2011 and the way it is done to day by law says you can not put your hands on your child. People think these laws are stupid and you have the right to think that but they made these laws because children were getting hurt bad even though the parent may not have meant to hurt the child that is what happened. Parents think by doing that they are showing there child not to do something again but all that is showing your child is do not get cot by you. It is a new day and there is so many new and better ways to discipline your child for something they should not do there is a book out called “1-2-3 Magic” every parent and caregiver should read this book it would open your eyes on how a child should be disciplined. I know doing thing a new way when it comes to your child may be hard but a new way it works is better then a old way that does not work. If anything the Child and Youth program I am in has shown me that there is away to handle every different thing that comes up. It is hard to brake old habits some time in the way I am use to raising my children but I am out to find the best ways of teaching them so it something new is going to help more then something old then yes we should use it. My mother never spanked me some say I needed one but she never and she never let know one do that to me I think because of that I am a better person and I have learned in different ways. I see people post these statuses on there face books or other methods of spanking is ok but it is not ok and when some of these people see that the better they will be. I think it is time for these older people who still talk about the old days and how spanking is ok to change the way they are thinking if they can not do that they should just stop talking about it that time is gone now here in Canada is a new time and with the studies saying it is not ok to spank your child people should look for a different method to use.

BY: Keith D Millership