Don` t help my child to get up!!!
Tuesday, 8. May 2007, 02:12:41
Follow them,the falling down will be good lesson for children.They have to get up by themselves and by the way they can learn somehow to get up for next time(if that fall was not so seriousily.Anyway they are still a child:o ).So Dont be surprised when your friends had that attitude.Children is easy to reply on someone,that is natural things.but step by step we should teach them how to go and get up by themselves, if think of their future.The life of human is limit but studying is infinite.Father and mother cant be with them all life, someday they have to get up without helping.For me, that was good thinking and good way to to help my child be stronger with the storm of life.And It was defferent point with my Vietnamese culture.Life cant be peace all time.I think it is like storm which we dont know how and when will it come,we just can prepare and have to learn how to accept after storm passed across.So why dont let them to get up by themselves?
I think Japanese they could have a good way to make their children be unaided and calm down with problem.They might be good at cotrolling everything.That was good to help you when be upset.But because they can control their feeling so much, easy to be stress and burn or boom.
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