Song Circle...
Monday, May 21, 2012 12:20:36 PM
I finally took Christopher along to the 'Song Circle' group in Stockbridge this morning, after being told since he was born about how amazing and lovely it is and how much other people's kids enjoyed it. I have always been pretty sure Chris wouldn't like it much, judging from the way he makes a break for freedom every time the playgroups starts singing songs at the end of a session! I'm not one for group things either, but I thought I'd give him a chance, just in case he really liked it.
I got in for free as it was my first time taking Chris there, I wouldn't have risked it otherwise as it is so expensive (to me at least) and not something which I could have done very often even if he had enjoyed it! I was glad it was free today too, as I ended up having to leave early (as I had suspected we might!).
I got in for free as it was my first time taking Chris there, I wouldn't have risked it otherwise as it is so expensive (to me at least) and not something which I could have done very often even if he had enjoyed it! I was glad it was free today too, as I ended up having to leave early (as I had suspected we might!).
We arrived before anyone else, and Chris charged around the rooms exploring and investigating everything, in between trying to make a dash for freedom every time the door opened to let someone in! As more people arrived Chris started getting nervous and increased his attempts to run out the door. When everyone was there we all sat around in a circle on cushions, while the lady who ran the class strummed away on her guitar and sang nursery songs. I was surprised to find that I already knew most of the songs, but not their own songcircle versions of the words, or any of the actions which went with them.
Chris sort of agreed to sit/be held down on my lap for some of the first 20 minutes of singing, going very still and looking slightly alarmed whenever a new song started, and looking with longing at the guitar being played (he likes to beat my guitar to a pulp every morning, drag toys/wipe lipsalve up and down the strings and post my make up into the hole). Then started thrashing about and wanting to run around/look in the cupboards/open the door/rake through the flip top bin as soon as each song finished. The other kids (mostly girls) sat obediently on their cushions and sang along happily to the songs, only getting up to move about and dance when they were told to.
There was a short break in the middle when everyone sat around and ate biscuits and cake and drank coffee and tea (this was my favourite part!), and the kids got to play with toys. Chris crammed (my) entire chocolate biscuit in his mouth (after insisting I ate his plain one) and ran about crashing into everyone's legs whilst clutching a dump truck.
After what seemed like no time at all the toys had to be put back in the cupboard...and this is where it went downhill for Chris! The dump truck had to be wrestled from him to be put away, and he spent the remainder of the time we were there trying to get into the toy cupboard again, getting increasingly upset and annoyed! I think he was getting a bit hungry and tired by that time too, and also he is busy cutting his last back teeth at the moment (as can be seen from the gallons of drool and frantic chomping on everything in sight!)
I took him over to the buggy corner and he climbed into his buggy himself (normally I have to wrestle him into it!), I waited until there was a gap between songs and tried to sneak out early (which wasn't easy considering the circle of cushions was right between the escape door and the buggy storage area!). I skulked past everyone and made a dash for the door and out into the lovely fresh air. I think both me and Chris would have much preferred to spend the morning running about in the botanical gardens in the sunshine! Still, you never know for sure what you'll think of something until you give it a try!
I only saw the website and this page about etiquette rules afterwards, hahaha, I wouldn't have taken Chris if I knew there were so many rules! Maybe after Christopher's visit they will add a few more, like 'You will not attempt to rake through the bin or wrestle with your parent in order to drag the contents out of the toy cupboard while we are singing songs'








Lulixxylu # Tuesday, May 22, 2012 5:55:01 PM
Think i agree with Christopher. A load of girls singing and dancing would make me want to run for the door as well
I can see that he definitely prefers his quiet day trips with you, which sound a lot nicer anyway
Who needs socialisation?! Psh!
kirsten kirstycat # Wednesday, May 23, 2012 2:40:48 PM
I hope you had a very lovely visit to Sweden with Gavin
HenrySpicyFlier # Wednesday, May 23, 2012 3:54:41 PM
*dabs drool from own mouth*
Lulixxylu # Wednesday, May 23, 2012 6:57:29 PM
Originally posted by kirstycat:
Of course i read it! I love your blog posts! You have a way of writing that i really enjoy
Plus i really enjoy seeing Christopher growing into a little man and hearing how his personality develops. Maybe i find it so interesting because my Mum is always talking about her children (or her "clients" as we call them
So you can add Lucy to the list of people who actually want to read the long posts
I didn't go to Sweden this time, Gavin came to England! He was having a little family gathering so i got to meet his parents, his brother (one of them!), his brother's wife and their daughter Aoibhe...who apparently is in an arranged marriage with Christopher
I'm sure we can iron out the details later
And yes, i got a place on the Masters course at Gothenburg Uni!
I would of blogged about it but....bored people falling asleep and all
I am 99% confident it will be way over my head but it's worth trying i suppose. If all else fails, i will become a Swedish milk maid...who rescues chimps...yes. My plan can't fail
Gavin Tripp-Sheedygarlingmatthews # Thursday, May 24, 2012 4:05:03 AM
Nothing goes over your head, Lucy. Except maybe maths, but maths isn't real anyway.
studio41 # Thursday, May 24, 2012 5:50:15 AM
funny how many rules there are- and especially for toddlers! yikes.
I would much rather be out and about in the gardens and sun myself! more power to you for giving this a try, however. as you say, one never knows...
Mrs. HermitessHermitess # Monday, May 28, 2012 1:19:18 AM
Chris must be very entertaining. Maybe not so much for you trying to corral him but the image of him that goes in my mind is quite funny