My OperaThe Importance Of Unimportance
Friday, June 29, 2012 7:37:53 AM
I know,it is a very odd title for a blog,but then again,everything i write is never sane.
So allow me this time to rant some more about certain things that intrigue my mind.
The importance of unimportance is a very simple concept to me and i will explain that a little later in the post.
What i am targeting here is the very phrases such as "I need you","You complete me",or the classic "I can't live without you."
It's all very interesting because it gives off the impression that humans need another person to feel complete,whole,or "Important."I am not here to bash anyone's way of life,i just give my personal take on certain matters.This matter is most fun to me,because those phrases are usually spoken to a lover as in "girlfriend/boyfriend or Wife/Husband",and i am just dumbfounded whenever i hear one of my friends say that to their recipient.The way i see it,you are born without said lover and you grow older without meeting that person until a bit later in life,but in those times of not existing to the target of your affection,does your mind ponder if you feel incomplete,lifeless,or useless without the unknown soul?The very answer to that should be "NO!!!"
Maybe i come off as a heartless bastard,but this is reality.No two souls are bound to each other at birth,unless the parents of both parties agree to marry off their unborn male and female children to the other.But that's not usually the case and that being said....Why does such over dramatic phrases exist?Why would anyone allow their mouths to speak such?It's all minding numbing!
Now,the importance of unimportance is what i explain to my friends.
It basically means,sometimes it's better to feel unimportant if your importance stems from someone else.
I mean,can you not feel important on your own without depending so heavily on someone else who is not even guarantee to walk life with you forever?I respect people who commit to someone fully,but in order to be fully committed,you must also understand,respect,and commit to yourself first to have a self value that you can not get from others.
People come and go and that applies to some lovers,but some are so blindly inlove that they rule out themselves in order to please their other half and once he/she leaves,when the person you solely depended on for an importance takes their leave,then whom is left with you at the end of the day?You and yourself,and what happens?you're left picking up the pieces and your life seems to be in a tailspin ne.It's about self importance before heavily drawing importance from another.
We meet everyone who crosses our path for a reason.It's a learning experience,but you can't give your all to someone if you have no clue what your all is,right....
With that said.I have foolishly thought to be important once due to someone person telling me i was her importance and what happened?I was shunned,set to rot away as she took her leave and all my happiness and importance she gave me.I was broken,but i had to learn my own self value.I walked into that ordeal half myself and was tossed out nothing.But in my time of healing,i learned what i meant to myself and if i were to give my all to another,i must be fully able to comprehend what my all exactly was.
Know your original before you are assigned a value.
Be you and all that you can be,even if the world disagrees,you can only please the masses for so long,but self happiness is eternal ride ne.
Thanks for reading my nonsense
So allow me this time to rant some more about certain things that intrigue my mind.
The importance of unimportance is a very simple concept to me and i will explain that a little later in the post.
What i am targeting here is the very phrases such as "I need you","You complete me",or the classic "I can't live without you."
It's all very interesting because it gives off the impression that humans need another person to feel complete,whole,or "Important."I am not here to bash anyone's way of life,i just give my personal take on certain matters.This matter is most fun to me,because those phrases are usually spoken to a lover as in "girlfriend/boyfriend or Wife/Husband",and i am just dumbfounded whenever i hear one of my friends say that to their recipient.The way i see it,you are born without said lover and you grow older without meeting that person until a bit later in life,but in those times of not existing to the target of your affection,does your mind ponder if you feel incomplete,lifeless,or useless without the unknown soul?The very answer to that should be "NO!!!"
Maybe i come off as a heartless bastard,but this is reality.No two souls are bound to each other at birth,unless the parents of both parties agree to marry off their unborn male and female children to the other.But that's not usually the case and that being said....Why does such over dramatic phrases exist?Why would anyone allow their mouths to speak such?It's all minding numbing!
Now,the importance of unimportance is what i explain to my friends.
It basically means,sometimes it's better to feel unimportant if your importance stems from someone else.
I mean,can you not feel important on your own without depending so heavily on someone else who is not even guarantee to walk life with you forever?I respect people who commit to someone fully,but in order to be fully committed,you must also understand,respect,and commit to yourself first to have a self value that you can not get from others.
People come and go and that applies to some lovers,but some are so blindly inlove that they rule out themselves in order to please their other half and once he/she leaves,when the person you solely depended on for an importance takes their leave,then whom is left with you at the end of the day?You and yourself,and what happens?you're left picking up the pieces and your life seems to be in a tailspin ne.It's about self importance before heavily drawing importance from another.
We meet everyone who crosses our path for a reason.It's a learning experience,but you can't give your all to someone if you have no clue what your all is,right....
With that said.I have foolishly thought to be important once due to someone person telling me i was her importance and what happened?I was shunned,set to rot away as she took her leave and all my happiness and importance she gave me.I was broken,but i had to learn my own self value.I walked into that ordeal half myself and was tossed out nothing.But in my time of healing,i learned what i meant to myself and if i were to give my all to another,i must be fully able to comprehend what my all exactly was.
Know your original before you are assigned a value.
Be you and all that you can be,even if the world disagrees,you can only please the masses for so long,but self happiness is eternal ride ne.
Thanks for reading my nonsense
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Daneru Yuu Jindaneru # Friday, June 29, 2012 11:23:49 AM
Anyway, you know how important you are not because someone / somebody said so.
Unregistered user # Saturday, June 30, 2012 9:06:48 PM
Unregistered user # Saturday, June 30, 2012 9:12:00 PM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Sunday, July 1, 2012 11:58:35 PM
Originally posted by daneru:
Indeed!You should already be familiar with your own importance.If you leave it up to someone else to determine that for you,then your feelings are truly under someone else's control ne.
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 2, 2012 12:21:30 AM
Originally posted by anonymous:
we do have same thoughts,not only to this topic either,but many others.lol.but to answer your last question...
happiness is a multi-directional situation,the first stems from the from person and once you established "self"happiness,then you can draw additional pleasure elsewhere.You can truly love someone fully,but without becoming that person's door mat ne.he/she can still be a source of happiness,just do not become so dependent on that person.Love is a commitment of equal understandings.if one can not accept the way the other functions,then you can not truly love.so to be forward....yes.you can love sincerely
Unregistered user # Monday, July 2, 2012 4:55:16 PM
Unregistered user # Monday, July 2, 2012 5:04:10 PM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Tuesday, July 3, 2012 9:02:23 AM
As for your second comment...Look,how you feel when you talk,see,or interact with a person is based on how much you care for that person.So what if you love someone whom is far from you.If you are committed then what is there to ponder?All love is going to be considered "unrealistic" no matter who it is or what given circumstances surround your relationship,its not about the gathering of voice,it's only about your heart and the other person ne.Love is a concept that is totally unrelated to the word to identify it,if you feel closer to a person you have yet to feel or physically enjoy being around,then i say...why care who questions you?We can be next to someone and next feel a damn thing in regards to the heart,so it's all based on how you feel.
rashashagarette # Wednesday, July 4, 2012 11:38:58 PM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Tuesday, July 17, 2012 9:45:03 AM
KYLEcastus2 # Tuesday, July 17, 2012 2:28:12 PM
The things people say
to expect people to be lifetime partners and be happy,is to me insane,people are diverse as they are many,and being diverse they will do the most outrageous things,like covert love affairs,lying to a partner,etc etc.For me,well i am independent me,always will be,a full time partner to me would be a hassle,a burden,so i just put my self about,and do my own thing,very happily thank you.
Duaneborri # Wednesday, July 18, 2012 10:19:31 PM
SavannahSavannahMarie # Thursday, July 19, 2012 6:59:06 PM
Mr. Wilsonnh0czjn # Friday, July 20, 2012 9:11:51 PM
Tony Moontnmn01 # Tuesday, July 24, 2012 1:47:09 AM
rashashagarette # Monday, July 30, 2012 6:43:20 AM
Originally posted by kyosuke316:
i showed proof more than enough.. so stop grabbing my ass!
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:00:42 AM
Originally posted by castus2:
Thank you for sharing,Kyle.I am sorry for late reply.Health issues are consuming my time.To the main topic...
Yes!Once more you are on the mark!People tend to care so much these days of what is thought about them,hence the reluctance to come into reality as an individual.I too am annoyed at how much attention is given to one's self just to appeal to the masses.You also make a very valid point here...."I love you" is coded for "lets have sex" but that message is unclear to the block heads who need to feel important.
I always enjoy your opinion and views on such matters.Thank you once more for the comment.
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:02:29 AM
Originally posted by SavannahMarie:
KYLEcastus2 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:02:54 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:04:00 AM
Originally posted by nh0czjn:
yeah!I have a habit of blogging about such topics,knowing very well backlash is soon to follow.
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:05:04 AM
Originally posted by tnmn01:
Hey Tony!Welcome to my blog.I was starting to think you were scared of little ol me.
KYLEcastus2 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:05:26 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:05:43 AM
Originally posted by shagarette:
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:07:39 AM
Originally posted by castus2:
Not completely healed,but hey,it will take alot more to knock me out.
Originally posted by castus2:
Haahhahahahaha.i guess we share a common interest ne..
KYLEcastus2 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:10:30 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:13:42 AM
noptey # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:16:51 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:22:29 AM
noptey # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:27:42 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:33:02 AM
Take care,Noptey.
noptey # Monday, July 30, 2012 8:46:23 AM
Mr. Wilsonnh0czjn # Monday, July 30, 2012 9:24:28 AM
SavannahSavannahMarie # Wednesday, August 1, 2012 8:57:45 AM
rashashagarette # Friday, August 3, 2012 11:34:00 PM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:49:57 AM
Originally posted by noptey:
sorry for late reply....but yes,big mouth girl,but very special friend.happy days ahead Noptey
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:50:46 AM
Originally posted by nh0czjn:
Thank you,Nate!i'm very health focused now.
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:51:24 AM
Originally posted by SavannahMarie:
Just kidding!!lol.
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:51:51 AM
Originally posted by shagarette:
what is annoying?this post?
KYLEcastus2 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:53:31 AM
noptey # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:54:17 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:55:41 AM
Originally posted by castus2:
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Monday, August 6, 2012 10:56:05 AM
Originally posted by noptey:
My pleasure.
Tony Moontnmn01 # Monday, August 6, 2012 4:31:50 PM
Duaneborri # Monday, August 6, 2012 6:18:51 PM
Mr. Wilsonnh0czjn # Tuesday, August 7, 2012 12:51:43 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Thursday, August 9, 2012 7:26:53 AM
Originally posted by tnmn01:
hahaha...great!i'm glad you stopped by.
noptey # Thursday, August 9, 2012 7:30:34 AM
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Thursday, August 9, 2012 7:30:41 AM
Originally posted by borri:
Hahahahaha....trying to scary me now,Duane!?
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Thursday, August 9, 2012 7:31:32 AM
Originally posted by nh0czjn:
Arigato!
Kei - The Clown Masterkyosuke316 # Thursday, August 9, 2012 7:32:40 AM
Originally posted by noptey:
Thank you very much,Noptey.Wishing you a wonderful day also.