The Importance Of Unimportance
Friday, June 29, 2012 7:37:53 AM
So allow me this time to rant some more about certain things that intrigue my mind.
The importance of unimportance is a very simple concept to me and i will explain that a little later in the post.
What i am targeting here is the very phrases such as "I need you","You complete me",or the classic "I can't live without you."
It's all very interesting because it gives off the impression that humans need another person to feel complete,whole,or "Important."I am not here to bash anyone's way of life,i just give my personal take on certain matters.This matter is most fun to me,because those phrases are usually spoken to a lover as in "girlfriend/boyfriend or Wife/Husband",and i am just dumbfounded whenever i hear one of my friends say that to their recipient.The way i see it,you are born without said lover and you grow older without meeting that person until a bit later in life,but in those times of not existing to the target of your affection,does your mind ponder if you feel incomplete,lifeless,or useless without the unknown soul?The very answer to that should be "NO!!!"
Maybe i come off as a heartless bastard,but this is reality.No two souls are bound to each other at birth,unless the parents of both parties agree to marry off their unborn male and female children to the other.But that's not usually the case and that being said....Why does such over dramatic phrases exist?Why would anyone allow their mouths to speak such?It's all minding numbing!
Now,the importance of unimportance is what i explain to my friends.
It basically means,sometimes it's better to feel unimportant if your importance stems from someone else.
I mean,can you not feel important on your own without depending so heavily on someone else who is not even guarantee to walk life with you forever?I respect people who commit to someone fully,but in order to be fully committed,you must also understand,respect,and commit to yourself first to have a self value that you can not get from others.
People come and go and that applies to some lovers,but some are so blindly inlove that they rule out themselves in order to please their other half and once he/she leaves,when the person you solely depended on for an importance takes their leave,then whom is left with you at the end of the day?You and yourself,and what happens?you're left picking up the pieces and your life seems to be in a tailspin ne.It's about self importance before heavily drawing importance from another.
We meet everyone who crosses our path for a reason.It's a learning experience,but you can't give your all to someone if you have no clue what your all is,right....
With that said.I have foolishly thought to be important once due to someone person telling me i was her importance and what happened?I was shunned,set to rot away as she took her leave and all my happiness and importance she gave me.I was broken,but i had to learn my own self value.I walked into that ordeal half myself and was tossed out nothing.But in my time of healing,i learned what i meant to myself and if i were to give my all to another,i must be fully able to comprehend what my all exactly was.
Know your original before you are assigned a value.
Be you and all that you can be,even if the world disagrees,you can only please the masses for so long,but self happiness is eternal ride ne.
Thanks for reading my nonsense