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Measurement

The measurement is a general concept. Now, people want to measure everything as much as possible, everything has its own metrics which are represented by number. Time is measured by hour, day, how much money do you earn for one working hour, working day? the success is measured by its benefits, its income value. Furthermore, people can forecast and find out what really happens by collecting data. So may i say that the numbers have an important role in our life? Do you want specific one or generic one? In almost cases, the specific one is a better choice.

So are there any measurement in love? Love is measured by what? By the time which's used to think about another? By the sweet memories? By the heart pains? By the times that you miss her, etc ... Too many metric, right? It's said that nothing can be used to evaluate love, love is just only an emotion from heart to heart, from eyes to eyes and if you can measure your love by time or anything, it's not a love. I'm not sure about that.

For instance, how can you know that you're missing someone so much, the simple reason is that you cannot count it, more than 100 times/second? every times? even it's countable; how can you know you are fall in love with someone, the common way is just try to ask one question who's the one you think about firstly whenever you r happy, you r upset, if the answer is only one ( a number) person, you know exactly who's your love; How do you know you and your partner can become one?, just count how many sweet memories do you have? how many times does he/she help you, stand beside you when you're in trouble? How many times do you have the same idea about one issue? etc. Let take a look, is it countable, the strange answer is "YES". Have you ever try to ask your self the question "Do i really love her/him or he/she's just my friend?", don't say NO because it's just a common question. There are many quiz on Internet, in newspaper etc ... have these questions like the above one. Have you ever try it? As a result, these quiz said that your partner's just a friend, a perfect lover or someone else etc ... So after all, can i assume that we can measure our love, my answer is YES, and you?

What a shock idea! you know , sometimes we try thinking generally, despite the truth is specific. Everyone has their own metrics and unconsciously we evaluate but we didn't know what we did. Maybe I'm used to specifying the problem, so it might be one side ideas. Do you have another one? Please show me