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Cherry Huong

Change yourself first if you wanna change the world.

Bad complaints

I have got into the habit of COMPLAINING. I am always complaining about every little thing happening to me. For instance, “today is too hot…I hate it …; I have a pile of work to do today, I’m going to die…; I’m exhausted, who can help me, plzzz…” – something like that. It is really a problem! Really!

Probably, I was injected with it by some friends of mine. The worst thing is that I do not self control, so I let myself be impacted by their bad characteristic (That’s no good at all, is that?).

I am often praised to be a positive girl. What does it mean by POSITIVE? That means I NEVER complain, NEVER run down, and NEVER give up. On the contrary, people usually see me in the good mood: Smiling, full of energy and being strong. Some of my friends asked me why I could be so POSITIVE like that. Why? I don’t know. I think it is inborn.

However, I seem to be losing myself when I complain too much. A great woman told me that TOLERANCE was the best trait for us to survive in peace and happiness. I promised to bear it in mind. By no means will I break it, will I? Instead, I will try to be more and more tolerant to every thing around me. Tolerance is not defined as “suffering, even bad things, in sorrow”, but “willing to accept without causing harm to any one and able to protect my privilege”.

“If you want to change the world, change yourself first”. I do not want to hear the world to response me with anger, complaints and sadness. Thus, I will never shout at it. You too.

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Comments

Ai-ning 8. April 2008, 19:39

Oh! It used to be my problem, too. I used to complain ALWAYS on EVERY matter! But I managed to get over it.))) Now I'm trying to keep most of the things to myself... But some of my friends say it's not so good. They think one shouldn't keep negative emotions but he has to get rid of them by sharing them with some other person. Do you think they are right?:smile:

little lady 11. April 2008, 10:00

:smile: That't right to some extent. I share with my dears what I cannot solve myself and consult their opinions. I don't share every of my own things. Secrets make an insightful person. Do u think so?

Ai-ning 14. April 2008, 14:32

Insightful? If I understand the meaning of the word right, I'm not sure) Shall you explain what you mean by "Secrets make an insightful person"? )))

little lady 15. April 2008, 04:03

People, who try to solve their trouble themselves with conscious analysis, are insightful. In other words, they do not tell any one about their difficulties because they are quite rational to fully understand what is happening to them They can find a way to deal with it on their own. They know that complaints lead to nothing but more trouble and sorrow.

Is it satisfied you enough, dear?

Ai-ning 15. April 2008, 15:34

Yes) Now I understand)))
But I wouldn.t call them insightful. I think they're just self-contained. I'm not sure they know everything about their problems. But may be they're a bit self-assured)))

little lady 18. April 2008, 09:17

Yeah. It may be self-contained. It's up to each understanding :D

Ai-ning 18. April 2008, 14:41

:wink:

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