d'Ici et d'Ailleurs...

I don't like puritanical stuff. It's all about possession. I don't like possessiveness. I don't think one can ever possess another person totally, own the other person's past. I like the idea of sharing. If I can share things with the person I love, that's enough for me.
Share the present, you mean?
Share the present and the future, too. We can't change the past, but we can change the future.