Loving our Lost Angels

Where can we write our poems or stories? I tried to hit blog and only the comment section came up. Thanks.

Yes, I will make you a moderator so that you can do that.

I don't know how to be a moderator. What does that involve?

You can add new post, add forum topics, pretty much have full run of it. Feel free to add your poems. I was just by your page this morning, they are beautiful poems!

Thanks. I appreciate the compliment.

When you add me as a moderator, when someone hits the blog section, they will be able to add their own story, poem etc, is that correct?

When you add me as a moderator, when someone hits the blog section, they will be able to add their own story, poem etc, is that correct?

Yes, only moderators can do that.

Sounds great. Hopefully I did you proud! Question, I did a section called Express Yourself, but I can only seem to see the first three lines, how do I see the entire poem that I put in there? I clicked on the Express Yourself section, but all I saw was a few lines.


Like I said, I am a newbie. : )

I saw that, it looks like you wrote in the title, when you should have wrote below it. I can't even get to it......it won't show for me. I think you might want to delete it and start over.

I am sorry I have not been connected but anyway sometimes I get email notifications from here. luvya

awesome, thanks Roger!

Will ignore the art??]
The truth is yes ..
Ignore the art of high ..

Professionals, however, not so good, God willing, happiness ..

What I mean is certainly not forgotten about the good things ..

But because of the disregard for things that have been annoying human life and caused his spleen and anger ..

.. For example, if there was a great inconvenience in your home .. The voices of children .. Vacuum cleaner ..

Dogfight .. Tvhit in the street ..

Try losing sight of all that focused on reading ..

Or listening Haritk .. Smk or creative ..

Put your mind and your mind in the case, bypass, complete all upset ..

Not surprised ..

Try ..

And tried to ..
Sttaud and the ability of these wonderful ..

Ignore very beautiful .. Especially when you have a lot of pressures of life ..

Do not focus on everything around you from harassment ..

But no mention of them .. I turned them away ..

That your focus and your mind in these matters and your complaint and resentment around the

Pain and make you less tired ..

The Tagafalak by Virih Oasabk ..

And gives you energy for the rest of the day ..

Even in the social life .. Try to overlook some of Almkdarat

Such as the conduct of this person, this person talk .. What this meant was .. The Stertah ..

Of course, it is difficult to remain in the case of negligence or completely bypass all the time ..

Often breaks down the human, no matter how hard ..

But overlooked is the best all the time tense ..

And ignored certainly does not mean that does not attempt to address the human problems ..

But help you in dealing with the pressures of life simple

Repeated, which may sometimes lead us to madness

Hi. My Mom died not very long ago, and thats why i've not been here so often. I can't come to terms with it, it is killing me inside. I've lost half of me, and i don't know how to go on...

The individual could pass us in this life, things may be difficult ...

But is life is what is of course is going ...
After sunset because the sun will rise again....

My mom passed away several years ago.Several months ago we lost the oldest sister of my mother who was like a second mother to us all, 3 weeks later my niece was taken from us.Since the death of my mother I still have on my speed dial her phone #.It is my only link to her.I'm not ready to erase it yet. When my aunt and my niece passed away I felt such emptiness that I did not know what to do.I decided to stay home.I could not think or imagine anymore seeing loved ones in a casket.Since they buried my niece I have not call home because the only thing I do is cry.They worry about me,that I may get sick,so they do not want me to cry anymore.So when I communicate with them is via the Internet.So dear Callya your pain will be there, part of your heart went with her,however I will tell you what my sister told me after she lost her own daughter "God has a plan for everything,even though we might not see it now,we might get angry,we might keep on crying for a while, however the one thing we should do is talk about it,do not keep it inside because it will eat you and tear you apart. I cried pretty much every day, but it is a pain that I keep giving back to God in the hopes that one day I do understand.My mother used to say that when a loved one passes away we no longer have to pray for them but to them,because they are given the tasks to become mediators before God's throne.So I talk to my mom a lot,do the same she will hear you and give you peace,it will be a long time before you cross that bridge and feel comfortable again but trust me it will happen.I believe your mother would like you to go on.....

Here we offer advice Brothers and direction for each half..

I am in the service of all .
But life is not without problems because it is much written on and that every person that gets praised
But life does not stop if a relative or friend died, and were optimistic, some sad, but may not have sustained this ..

You are right,life does not stop,and so we do have to go on.Even when it is hard and sometimes you think you are in this black hole that you are unable to crawl out of it.Thank you for allowing me to be here,

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Thanks for understanding

My dear Callya,

It is hard to come to terms when a loved one passes. You think of some many things. Things you should have said, should have done. I know I did.

When my son passed at 18 months, I was so anger at myself for not getting him on video tape walking. I had pictures of him holding on to his playtoy that he used to walk across the floor, but I never took a video of him walking. These are the little things you think of. And somethimes even today I will hear a name, a song or just anything and think of him. He would be 19 now and my second son just graduated and I think to myself oh Jason would be in college now. So there is so much I think about. There is never a day that something doesn't come up. They say time heals, but to me it just dulls the pain. Like I explained to virmary., the one thing that has really helped me is to make sure I do something in his name every year. That way I can keep his name alive and out there. Last year I adopted a penguin from the zoo in his name. This year I gave money to the breast and diabetes foundation. I am always putting his name out in the public (as in memory of....). It also helped me to not only write about but also make a scrapbook of his life. I am still working on some parts of it. Next year, I am buying a rocking chair with his name inscribed on it for the NICU he stayed in for 6 weeks. Every little bit helps me. And my children visit the site and put little cars or balloons for his birthday, etc. That helps them. Even though they never met him, they grew up hearing about him.

I just feel like keeping his name alive is the best thing I can do. Now if there is something that makes you feel better, than that is what you should do. Whatever you do, remember that no one can tell you how to grieve and no one can tell you when to stop. The best part to remember though is to find something productive to do to help you through this. I even counsel other couples who have to go through the same procedure that my son did. Whatever makes you feel better is the best thing for you. I hope you feel better Callya and everyone else on this site.