Welcome to Loving our Lost Angels
By ☜☞Sarah☜☞. Friday, 29. June 2007, 22:17:19
This group is going to be for those who need support
and a place to vent about losing a loved one. HOWEVER
you have lost them is not important, what is important
is having a place that you can turn to when you are
feeling sad and down and needing to vent. We will
have forums and feel free to add your comments and
honest opinion.
Thanks so much,
Sarah
and a place to vent about losing a loved one. HOWEVER
you have lost them is not important, what is important
is having a place that you can turn to when you are
feeling sad and down and needing to vent. We will
have forums and feel free to add your comments and
honest opinion.
Thanks so much,
Sarah















greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 11:35
angel292005 # 30. June 2007, 15:12
greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 15:31
angel292005 # 30. June 2007, 15:33
greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 15:50
greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 15:52
greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 15:52
angel292005 # 30. June 2007, 16:45
greathoneybear # 30. June 2007, 16:47
Like I said, I am a newbie. : )
angel292005 # 30. June 2007, 17:36
rogerleos # 2. July 2007, 13:22
angel292005 # 2. July 2007, 18:41
yonies1899 # 23. January 2009, 22:29
The truth is yes ..
Ignore the art of high ..
Professionals, however, not so good, God willing, happiness ..
What I mean is certainly not forgotten about the good things ..
But because of the disregard for things that have been annoying human life and caused his spleen and anger ..
.. For example, if there was a great inconvenience in your home .. The voices of children .. Vacuum cleaner ..
Dogfight .. Tvhit in the street ..
Try losing sight of all that focused on reading ..
Or listening Haritk .. Smk or creative ..
Put your mind and your mind in the case, bypass, complete all upset ..
Not surprised ..
Try ..
And tried to ..
Sttaud and the ability of these wonderful ..
Ignore very beautiful .. Especially when you have a lot of pressures of life ..
Do not focus on everything around you from harassment ..
But no mention of them .. I turned them away ..
That your focus and your mind in these matters and your complaint and resentment around the
Pain and make you less tired ..
The Tagafalak by Virih Oasabk ..
And gives you energy for the rest of the day ..
Even in the social life .. Try to overlook some of Almkdarat
Such as the conduct of this person, this person talk .. What this meant was .. The Stertah ..
Of course, it is difficult to remain in the case of negligence or completely bypass all the time ..
Often breaks down the human, no matter how hard ..
But overlooked is the best all the time tense ..
And ignored certainly does not mean that does not attempt to address the human problems ..
But help you in dealing with the pressures of life simple
Repeated, which may sometimes lead us to madness
Callya # 1. April 2009, 22:01
yonies1899 # 2. April 2009, 14:11
But is life is what is of course is going ...
After sunset because the sun will rise again....
virmarytorres2 # 16. April 2009, 23:33
yonies1899 # 17. April 2009, 16:33
I am in the service of all .
But life is not without problems because it is much written on and that every person that gets praised
But life does not stop if a relative or friend died, and were optimistic, some sad, but may not have sustained this ..
virmarytorres2 # 18. April 2009, 02:57
yonies1899 # 19. April 2009, 14:31
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virmarytorres2 # 19. April 2009, 15:04
greathoneybear # 17. September 2009, 03:39
It is hard to come to terms when a loved one passes. You think of some many things. Things you should have said, should have done. I know I did.
When my son passed at 18 months, I was so anger at myself for not getting him on video tape walking. I had pictures of him holding on to his playtoy that he used to walk across the floor, but I never took a video of him walking. These are the little things you think of. And somethimes even today I will hear a name, a song or just anything and think of him. He would be 19 now and my second son just graduated and I think to myself oh Jason would be in college now. So there is so much I think about. There is never a day that something doesn't come up. They say time heals, but to me it just dulls the pain. Like I explained to virmary., the one thing that has really helped me is to make sure I do something in his name every year. That way I can keep his name alive and out there. Last year I adopted a penguin from the zoo in his name. This year I gave money to the breast and diabetes foundation. I am always putting his name out in the public (as in memory of....). It also helped me to not only write about but also make a scrapbook of his life. I am still working on some parts of it. Next year, I am buying a rocking chair with his name inscribed on it for the NICU he stayed in for 6 weeks. Every little bit helps me. And my children visit the site and put little cars or balloons for his birthday, etc. That helps them. Even though they never met him, they grew up hearing about him.
I just feel like keeping his name alive is the best thing I can do. Now if there is something that makes you feel better, than that is what you should do. Whatever you do, remember that no one can tell you how to grieve and no one can tell you when to stop. The best part to remember though is to find something productive to do to help you through this. I even counsel other couples who have to go through the same procedure that my son did. Whatever makes you feel better is the best thing for you. I hope you feel better Callya and everyone else on this site.