STRANGE DREAM
Tuesday, 3. February 2009, 21:28:11
I had a strange, realistic dream last night. A man I’ve known for 9 years kissed me.
It’s rare I dream somebody kisses me and the few times I have I don’t “feel” the kisses, in this dream I felt it like it was real.
Although I find the man attractive I’ve never considered him in this way, we are very different although friends.
And it wasn’t a “friendly” kiss, it was quite nice and very involved.
It came out of nowhere, for some reason he was there and leaving and he hugged me as he sometimes does but when I went to back away and say goodbye he pulled me closer and that’s when it happened.
In the dream I was doing things with friends, he was going to be back later but I woke up after a while. I went back to sleep after a little bit and continued the dream, another thing I don’t usually do.
In the second dream I was still waiting for him to return but he didn’t.
I don’t understand this at all and I can’t get it off of my mind.
I haven’t even seen this man in probably two months nor do I see him all that often.
I wasn’t thinking about him recently especially not last night, I was physically worn out and tired, I wasn’t thinking about anything by sleep by the time I got to bed.
So I wonder what the dream is about and why it happened.
Maybe I’m finally ready to try another relationship? I don’t know, I don’t feel any more ready than I did a month ago; I’m not looking for a relationship.
I do get offers but in just about a year I haven’t accepted any of them nor am I interested today in any of those who did ask me out.
Not that there’s anything wrong with most of them, there isn’t.
So why did this happen in my dream especially at a time when that kind of thing was furthest from my mind?
WIDGETIZE