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My Family Moves to India

An American family moves to Chennai

Meanduring In Mysore

Last weekend S had a business trip to Mysore, a city of about one million people in the neighboring state of Karnataka. He and L have been there before, on their motorcycle trip, but J and I had not seen the "city of palaces". By dint of much persuasion (no, wait, it was really because I wasn't paying close enough attention to what he was saying), he got me to agree to go with him on the overnight train.


Here I am, sick with fear. Of what? I'm not sure. It was a combination of "what ifs?"...."what if the train wrecks?" (there was a train accident in Delhi that very day that claimed over 25 lives); "what if someone steals all of our belongings?" (has happened to friends); "what if our bunkmates snore?" (shared compartments); "what if the train is infested with bedbugs/roaches/ants/lice"....anyway, nothing happened. We had very nice fellow passengers and I amused everyone by pretending to be Mr. Monk and using Chlorox wipes to clean the vinyl bed and surroundings.

And I did not use the toilet. Because they go straight.down.to.the.tracks. Yep, just a hole.

After a bumpy but pleasant night's sleep we arrived at Mysore and checked into the Green Hotel.

To Be Continued

Mehindi Mania

How long can this alliterative streak go on?

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Cast into the Caste System

Disclaimer: these are entirely my own biased perceptions and my intent is not to educate you about the entire Indian culture. My intent is solely to express my anger at this social injustice.

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Creativity



I love this video. His talk was excellent.

I feel personally that creativity is one of the keys to happiness in life. Any way to make the world a more beautiful place is soul-satisfying.

One of the best qualities about India is the creativity of its people. I have never seen such ingenuity. Within their own framework, albeit different and limited by some western standards, they do marvellous works. I especially love what they do with textiles - the amazing colors, embroidery, and design astonish me. I still feel that the sari is the most feminine, elegant garment I have ever seen worn by women (although I can't properly wear it myself. :smile:)

Every time I go shopping for clothing here I look at the saris and think of the beautiful quilts, draperies, and other things that could be made out of that much fabric. I finally succumbed and made some pillows - my own attempt at creating - using the sari pallau (elaborate fold that falls down the back) and trim:


Part of the pallau (diamond patterned fabric), and some of the sari trim, paired with some brown silk.




More detail from a different part of the pallau.




Very American - patchwork with ruffles (made from the sari border). The grey is the original sari color; the brown, a separate fabric that goes with our couch. As always, the ruffles took forever!




Floor pillows for the kids to sit on! :smile:

I can't lie....I used a lot of stitch witchery! :smile:

Hong Kong Here We Come!


Our plans for our next intercountry trip are set - we're going to Hong Kong in mid-December. 1

We are pretty excited - the venue meets all of our wishes - a short plane flight (S found direct tickets from Chennai on Cathay Pacific!! I can't believe it!); shopping; an LDS temple (our closest one - a mere 2315 miles from Chennai); neat parks; and DISNEY! :smile: With this trip, we will have only two Disney parks left to experience in order to make my goal of seeing them all.

We may also jump over to Macau and catch the Circque de Soleil show ZAIA. We'll see if the schedule allows it.

Any ideas what to see and do? Comment away! :smile:

1 Am I the only AISC parent who believed the board when they said that Christmas break would change? For MONTHS I've been walking around saying that the kids' break started immediately before Christmas and ended two weeks into January. NOT SO! I can't believe I had the wrong dates in my mind....maybe too much shock therapy....sigh.

Happiness

Is serving others. Especially when they appreciate it. :smile: I have so enjoyed utilizing the seemingly "useless" information about sewing and homemaking that my mother took such great pains to impart. In this modern age, it seems so outdated (and often looked down upon in the U.S.) to know much about making clothes, but twice in the last two weeks it's come in very handy. Makes me feel good.

Now I just have to figure out a way to impart that knowledge to my kids....J is keen on such things but I'm not sure L can sit still long enough to absorb much of it. :smile: Guess he'd better marry someone clever about such things, ha ha.

And Now, For Some Lighter Fare....

Sunday evening I got one of the funniest phone calls I've ever received. It had S in stitches; he was laughing so hard he could hardly hand me the phone.

Someone called to ask me to be a fashion consultant.

Yes, 'tis true. It ranks right up there with the time a friend asked J to be a fashion model for a real, live, actual fashion show - runway and all. At least she qualified for the job, even I didn't feel that I was qualified to be the model's mother! :smile:

As it turned out, I was able to be helpful in the area of fabric care and basic sewing, two things in which my mother trained me well. J actually went along as the fashion consultant, although I am not sure that 10 year old's are the target market.

As some of you know, J was born with a passion for clothes which I can only assume was somehow given to her via prenatal vibrations felt from her aunt. I myself like to match, and be comfortable. J would only wear pink for three years in a row (imagine my joy when she finally announced that purple was acceptable also!) She has always been very vocal about what she will put on her body. She was just as loud at Nalli's, the big fabric and sari store, about what she thought these individuals should buy. Her taste is very Indian, in the sense that she likes vivid color clashes. Many thanks to two young men who were very patient with her! And to do her credit, she does have good ideas, even if they are a bit bright for me. :smile: When I told her of our outing, she announced that it was "time her fashion design career took off" and asked if she would get paid. Being the mean mom I am, I said no. 10 year olds do not get paid! :smile: Even now, she is filling up sketchbooks with skirt designs.

So, we shopped 'til we dropped at Nalli's and had the time of our lives. I hope this enterprise is successful (two young men attempting to start a business selling skirts that underprivileged women sew - both making a profit and paying a fair wage). I hope that everything they bought is as dryer-proof as I said it would be. :smile: And I truly, truly hope that they take my advice and consult with a few other women about the fashion part! :smile:

Let the Shocks Continue

I dared to comment to a friend that I thought the electrical issues were all fixed, which of course jinxed me. Within 48 hours S and I both got mildly shocked in the shower. It's our electrifying personalities. :smile:

During the same time frame, we had the same fuse blow out (the giant one) with a possible fire - either the fire went out by itself, or it didn't happen, or no one told me about it. It's in a different building than our house. Whatever. As God would have it, the relief driver that day was an excellent electrician, so he and S went out and fixed the sucker. Again. The fix isn't permanent, though, so now we're in the usual runaround as to who will pay to replace the fuse. Argh.

To add to the party, four AC units have been out, some of them over a month. The maintenance company came out one time, while we were gone, and fixed one unit. Since then they have claimed that Ayudha Puja (the blessing of machinery) prevents them from doing anything. Amazing logic.

The end of September marks the start of the Indian festival season - the festival of Ganesh, Ayudha Puja, Diwali, and probably a few more that I've forgotten. I keep track of Ganesh because there is usually a safety warning out about going to the immersion (statues of the elephant God Ganesh are thrown into the ocean); Ayudha Puja is pretty much forced upon us because S works making heavy machinery; and Diwali is the one which we choose to celebrate as a family. Diwali is, to us, essentially a festival of light over darkness, which ties in with our own beliefs. It's also rather unforgettable because the staff expect a month's wages at that time, a tradition which, if you forget, you may live to regret. Basically Diwali means getting a lot of candles and firecrackers to set off that evening, and going to the ATM every 24 hours for days to collect enough cash to pay everyone at once.

Of course as soon as the Indian festival season ends, the US holiday season begins, with Halloween (religously celebrated at the school, to my dismay); Thanksgiving; and Christmas. Overall it's a fun but very busy time for the coordinator of all things, ie, me. :smile:

Maybe I need to begin a festival of my own. We'll call it "Thegatheringofallrepairmenatourhouse" and the theme will be "youwillnotleaveuntileverythingisfixed." Bwa ha ha ha ha.....

Road Trip

I took a road trip to Bangalore for some church training; it was good. Besides the usual busses listing at 45 degree angles, overloaded lorries, jackknifed semi trucks, and vehicles of every description crammed with bodies, I saw this:



Which doesn't quite beat the photos of live chickens being hauled around on motorcycles by their feet, but hey, it's not often you see a bike on a bike.

Wedding Photos

This one is much shorter, I promise. :smile:

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