Lillie's Fortress

Hello my friends,

I've been away for a while now, got to keep my head working so that I could give something for you. I have to tell, my life does not go easy as you read this post, but as I should have done a long ago, I have some e-mails that are late and need some attention. Hello to you all back, and hope you can handle this with me.

As I was saying, many people care about their partners and friends, and they should. But does they look back on us too? Are they really there when you seem desperate? Are men aware that women are sometimes fragile? From my own experience, they do not know. They sometimes also do not care. But will we die about that? I sure say NO.

My post today is about Martin, he says he never understands his wife, and, I must say that for a guy to ask help that sure is new, by his own words: "She is never satisfied, I try to ask but she turns the other way, she also does not want to end the relationship, I've asked. Don't know what to do, I'm not happy, she is not happy, but still here we are"

Ok Martin, that is in deed a difficult one, what should we do if a pearson does not want help and also does not talk about anything? I suppose (and I say this with all the pain in my heart) you should stand up. You can not be sad for someone that does not say a thing, and does not want help and does not want do be happy, unless of course you forgot to say EVERYTHING. Women are fragile and sometimes irracional, i'm sure she has a problem that she thinks you would not understand.


So, first try: be direct, "What's the problem? " "Can I do anything?" or, and I think that would help, "Tell me, I'm sure there is not a thing in the world that would make me love you less", that kind of stuff usually helps. If does not help...well, You can't be miserable forever..

Hope Ann, his wife, reads this and write to me if she thinks she should.

Please do not waste any time with silly things, live and be happy, because the life that you have is only made by you, and you are the only one that can overcome this..

Love,

lillie@myself.com

or follow me on... https://twitter.com/mylillie

Since I started to post for someone, I guess people is getting friendly in giving advices, why this, why that and so on... I am not supposed to be mean but I gotta be real don't you think?

So tell me What About Me stuff! What makes you fell lonly, sad, or like no one understands you? Would you dare to share?

Love,

Lillie

lillie@myself.com

Every day I wonder if things are going to happen with that same little order that we create everytime we organize our things. And it does happen...
Like Clhoe said in her e-mail: "Sometimes I can not see the time passing, I wish I could do something new, something different, or at least something expressive.."

Yeah, that's the kind of thought that makes all a little bit nostalgic... Come on! We are grown people, and to make life go on we need a plan, it's obvious that the routine shoudn't be boring, but it should exist... or we would live in a chaos...

But, that is just a particular view... Be whatever you wanna be, live like nothing matters more than the thing you care the most, and try to wake up every day with a big smile on your face...
Because, everyday we give life a chance to change and even though it doesn't, it does not mean that we are in the wrong path, It just mean that we can be a little bit used to it...

Hope you enjoy....

lillie@myself.com

Heeelo everyone, today I'd like to free us all from the usually, no problems today, do you wanna know why?
Because it is Monday, and no living criature should start the week with problems, that's also why I usually don't post on monday.

Why today though? Ok, I've gotta say that these days have been of full reflection, somedays I can't breath, some pictures take of my mind and travel along the darkness and the great unknown. Sound sad doesn't? YEah, but I'm not sad, just go along with the disturbed ways that my mind works. And try not to be affected. It's really difficult, but I think I'm getting used to it.

I'm telling you that so you could use as a training, to reflect about somethings deep down, things that you don't ever wanna think, or just to picture something completly absurd, is the kind of thing that prepares you for life, just because knowing what you are going to fell in every particulary situation makes you stronger.

Let's be STROnG! And enjoy the holliday!


Love,

lillie@myself.com

Ok, Being organized is really a difficult thing for me to manege, but I did it! From today on, you will have a post every day, since my e-mail inbox is increasing... I sure would like to ask you to not be shy to post direct here as people could read and also share their opnions...

Great! Let's do it!

Todays Topic is: Analyzing Life

All try to put together a few recived e-mails:

"Is life really where I wanted it to be?"

"Why I always wonder if I could have a better life?"

"Should we be always happy?"

"Am I going crazy?" (That's only up to you to decide)



Ok, First It's really important that you all know yourself. In the actual days, we are always in a hurry, and we don't spent as much time alone as we need. People are afraid of the real truth. Here is a hint: Don't Be! . You are only be full when and if you start to analyze some of your real needs. I've been there...

Gotta say that if you are there today then your life is exactly where you wanna it to be, as our path is traced by our actions, and its your and only your responsability to lead your life. As you begin to understand life as an outsider you will be clear enough to chose the best way there...

As a natural reaction of the human reason, we will always wonder how would life turn out to be if we took another different path. That's human don't be sad or angry or anything by having this emotion. You are perfectly normal. As we all are. And I've gotta say, some desagree.

For the last one I have to say... WE ARE ALL CRAZY, because to live is to be crazy, to fell is to be crazy, and to me normal is also to be crazy, can you understand that? We are surely not perfect but for some one these inperfections are things that are going to make you perfect to someone.

To help others you have to had felt a lot and after you have to be still a reason one. Thust me, enjoy your life, and if you need any help...

lillie@myself.com

Write me...