PSEUDO-RELATIONSHIP
Tuesday, 21. October 2008, 05:56:43
Pseudo means SPURIOUS, SHAM simply not genuine:
false + relationship is equal to so what we called....
pseudo-relationship. Pseudo boyfriends, girlfriends, flings, fake, pirated. Other called it M.U. or mutual understanding. Almost like a relationship but not quite. It is phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers. It is also possible that you both had a verbal agreement or maybe not. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings to either one of you. Maybe you just let your gesture do the talking. There is no formal courtship or what so ever, both of you just decided to be together for the same reasons. You both acted like as if it was a real thing. But sometimes the pseudo-relationship may turn into a reality.
This kind of “RELATIONSHIP” can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. It can also happen before the relationship that afraid you to commit yourself once again to the same person and broke-up for the same reasons. Maybe you are too afraid to invest your emotions to other person. One of you don’t want a serious relationship especially the men who had already involved with someone. So literally they are not having you as a “SECOND BEST” because with this kind of relationship that you have is not for real an “almost but not quite relationship”.
This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time can be seen to those people who are looking for game, flirt or PLAYMATE. But please don’t expect to much with your playmate never trust the game of emotions. Because with this kind of relationship only pain is guaranteed you would experience. Just don’t expect that pseudo-relationship might turn into a “REALITY”- you know what I mean. So what will you do if you end up falling in love with the persons you are having a pseudo relationship. What will you do? That will be good if the person involved feel the same way as you do. END OF STORY. But just in case you are the only one who wants to make this relationship put into a next level which is more likely the “REAL THING”. You simply broke the rules of the game. Sad! Yes it is! A sad reality game is a game so there is no one to blame because you know from the start that this things might happen to either one of you. Which is not surprising? Right! You play with emotions and the emotions will do the same for both of you end up hurting either one of you. Then why many choose to settle with this kind of relationship. For those who are not into a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. Although it was only a pseudo-relationship but the emotion was real. You might find yourself broken hearted once again the reasons why you had this kind of relationship and the pain is bound to happen. In pseudo-relationship, there is no “US” only “YOU” and “ME” not “US”. The pain is also not pseudo-pain it’s the real pain that may affect you far from what you expected to be. But you agree with this kind of set-up and then YOU’D END UP HURTING YOURSELF IN THE PROCESS. Because pseudo-relationship stage is usually not turn into a real thing and you both end up just like that………….”ALMOST BUT NOT QUITE”
“ Love is so kind that it teaches you to sacrifice. Love is so great that shows you how to care. Love is so secured that it provides you happiness. Unfortunately, love can be selfish because it teaches you to own somebody. It is cruel because it allows lovers to fall apart. It is rude because it provides barrier among friends. Love leaves you pain, burden, and tears. Love lets you do even the worst thing for others. Love teaches you to hate. ” - from my Life Quotes of the day
false + relationship is equal to so what we called....
pseudo-relationship. Pseudo boyfriends, girlfriends, flings, fake, pirated. Other called it M.U. or mutual understanding. Almost like a relationship but not quite. It is phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers. It is also possible that you both had a verbal agreement or maybe not. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings to either one of you. Maybe you just let your gesture do the talking. There is no formal courtship or what so ever, both of you just decided to be together for the same reasons. You both acted like as if it was a real thing. But sometimes the pseudo-relationship may turn into a reality.
This kind of “RELATIONSHIP” can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. It can also happen before the relationship that afraid you to commit yourself once again to the same person and broke-up for the same reasons. Maybe you are too afraid to invest your emotions to other person. One of you don’t want a serious relationship especially the men who had already involved with someone. So literally they are not having you as a “SECOND BEST” because with this kind of relationship that you have is not for real an “almost but not quite relationship”.
This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time can be seen to those people who are looking for game, flirt or PLAYMATE. But please don’t expect to much with your playmate never trust the game of emotions. Because with this kind of relationship only pain is guaranteed you would experience. Just don’t expect that pseudo-relationship might turn into a “REALITY”- you know what I mean. So what will you do if you end up falling in love with the persons you are having a pseudo relationship. What will you do? That will be good if the person involved feel the same way as you do. END OF STORY. But just in case you are the only one who wants to make this relationship put into a next level which is more likely the “REAL THING”. You simply broke the rules of the game. Sad! Yes it is! A sad reality game is a game so there is no one to blame because you know from the start that this things might happen to either one of you. Which is not surprising? Right! You play with emotions and the emotions will do the same for both of you end up hurting either one of you. Then why many choose to settle with this kind of relationship. For those who are not into a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. Although it was only a pseudo-relationship but the emotion was real. You might find yourself broken hearted once again the reasons why you had this kind of relationship and the pain is bound to happen. In pseudo-relationship, there is no “US” only “YOU” and “ME” not “US”. The pain is also not pseudo-pain it’s the real pain that may affect you far from what you expected to be. But you agree with this kind of set-up and then YOU’D END UP HURTING YOURSELF IN THE PROCESS. Because pseudo-relationship stage is usually not turn into a real thing and you both end up just like that………….”ALMOST BUT NOT QUITE”
“ Love is so kind that it teaches you to sacrifice. Love is so great that shows you how to care. Love is so secured that it provides you happiness. Unfortunately, love can be selfish because it teaches you to own somebody. It is cruel because it allows lovers to fall apart. It is rude because it provides barrier among friends. Love leaves you pain, burden, and tears. Love lets you do even the worst thing for others. Love teaches you to hate. ” - from my Life Quotes of the day
That’s Life and Enjoy every minute of it. Have a happy life!!!
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