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Noah Counte

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Peace Chain

Our friend Claude started a peace chain. It is an inspiring idea, and I hope those of you who have not seen it before today will take a look, and consider joining.


Peace

It has been elusive, eh? The history of mankind is not a peaceful record. Even what should be the most peaceful of institutions, our religious bodies, have long records of violence against those with varying beliefs. Even the Buddhists and the Hindus, ostensibly the most peaceful of all religions are not immune from wreaking violence upon others (see, for example, the civil war in Sri Lanka over the past 20 years or so).

Surely we can (and should) do better? It cannot be that our purpose as countries, cultures, religion, etc., is to wage war on each other. That is certainly not the world in which I want to live. It’s not the world I want to leave to our kids.


What then?

I have been thinking that I cannot affect world peace in any meaningful way. I can vote for leaders whom I hope will rise to the challenge, but mine is but one vote.

And yet, I know that every stone I cast ripples outward. Every harsh word, every ugly thought, every pleasant gesture left unmade impacts not only the people with whom I come in contact, but the people with whom they come in contact, and more ripples are created. Who knows how far these ripples might spread? It is important, then, that the stones we cast do not send ripples of negativity and despair. That they do not send ripples of indifference or worse.

Rather, the stones I cast must shine light into the lives of those with whom I come in contact. A kind word, a door held, an angry gesture not made. My destinations are no more important than those of anyone else. My needs are no greater. We are all cut of the same fabric, after all.

Inner peace

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself -- Leo Tolstoy.



I do not know if my preamble suggests my conclusion: that inner peace is the key to world peace; that, until people are at one with themselves, they cannot be at peace with their neighbor; that we focus so much on doing, at the expense of our being. What is called for is not a phone conversation while walking from the car to the office – what is needed is a moment to smell the flowers. The driver who pulls out in front of me does not need to be shown the finger, for surely he did not put us both in jeopardy on purpose.

Abandoning all desires and acting free from longing, without any sense of mineness or sense of ego one attains peace. -- Sri Krishna BG II, 71



I know that I will never divorce myself fully from longing and desire for objects, for love, for companionship, or for many other things. Yet, I can aspire to be better. I can take a break from the world and reflect on the blessings in my life, blessings that upon reflection, lessen my desire for more worldly things. And, with lessened desire, comes greater peace. And my peace casts its ripples. And those ripples create new ripples.

Perhaps the mark we make in the fight for a more peaceful world is not on our leaders, but on our neighbors.

Peace my friends.

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Comments

I_ArtMan 25. May 2009, 03:37

well said matthew. i agree with every word.
"that we focus so much on doing, at the expense of our being."

there could be a balance. if i work on myself it will help others.

we can't do much but we can lessen the ripples which spread negativity. well done, friend. :smile:

noah counte 25. May 2009, 03:50

Thank you. It took me a long time to figure out that peace, like love, comes from within. It took even longer to realize that life - the "life" we create for ourselves, just trying to cope with the world and information around us - interferes with our peace simply by pressing it to the periphery.

Thank you for the comments, Scott. :smile:

I_ArtMan 25. May 2009, 04:17

true. we have to remember ourselves and not be so taken by hysteria and useless worry. but we also know when we need to respond.

i added your post to the chain on my page. no doubt claude will do the same on his. :happy:

ellinidata 25. May 2009, 05:04



".....inner peace" yes I hear you :heart:

it takes hard work and many "me" hours to work on "inner peace" but when you find it ,it is priceless..
when your "inner peace" unites with others' the force of the peace becomes like a river that never ends....Peace is here we just need to see it and feel it !


photo by Bedec

dragon_harrower 25. May 2009, 06:23

Very well written, Matt. :smile: Thank you for the brain food for the week. :yes:

Originally posted by Matt:


And yet, I know that every stone I cast ripples outward.



Many people do not realize just how big an impact they make in the world with their words and/or gestures. Yes, we are small in this vast universe, but we are also still very much apart of it. It makes you wonder how much it would impact the world if everyone left that one angry remark unspoken or calmed the urge to make a negative gesture and instead made one kind remark or thoughtful gesture.

Arnekrilu 25. May 2009, 07:23

:up:

holdowicz-claude 25. May 2009, 11:37

Matthew, did you heard about "sensory deprivation tank"?
I have read in French, a book from John C. Lilly a few years ago. It seems an interesting way to exploring our inner consciousness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_C._Lilly
And a video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7tq0IwPao0
Any advice? :smile:

noah counte 25. May 2009, 13:33

I've never tried sensory deprivation, Claude. I know people who think it's wonderful, and I've heard of people being terribly frightened by it. I think you have to have a basic ability to be with yourself in the quiet before you can manage without discomfort.

Hindu tradition holds that one needs a guru to lead you on your path of self-discovery and introspection, and that practicing advanced techniques without guidance can be very dangerous. Personally, I do not know any advanced techniques. I find that yoga practice (western yoga) has dramatically helped me quiet myself, though.

Casey, I think you are exactly right. We can turn someone's day around by quieting our urge to tell people what they already know (that they are rude, or unthoughtful) or worse, stopping ourselves from projecting our bad feelings onto them. Maybe the person we don't flip off then doesn't go home and yell at her husband or kids. Who knows how far those little transactions carry?

Thank you for stopping by, Arnekrilu. :smile:

Angeliki, is that a picture of Guan Yin?

holdowicz-claude 25. May 2009, 13:45

Thank you Matthew :smile: Maybe one day I will try yoga...

noah counte 25. May 2009, 13:46

I've never known anyone to dislike it. I've known people to stop practicing, though.

holdowicz-claude 25. May 2009, 13:50

I think this is hard to do, specialy for me: I'm far to have a flexible body :left:

ellinidata 25. May 2009, 15:39

:smile: yes it is Matt,


* for everyone that wants to know about Guan Yin this is the core idea:

As long as you are kind and there is love in your heart
A thousand hands will naturally come to your aid
As long as you are kind and there is love in your heart
You will reach out with a thousand hands to help others

.Guan Yin is the bodhisattva of compassion, revered by Buddhists as the Goddess of Mercy.
Her name is short for Guan Shi Yin.

Guan means to observe, watch, or monitor;

Shi means the world;

Yin means sounds, specifically sounds of those who suffer.
Thus, Guan Yin is a compassionate being who watches for, and responds to, the people in the world who cry out for help.


:heart:

holdowicz-claude 25. May 2009, 15:48

Angeliki :smile: This is nice :up:

ellinidata 25. May 2009, 16:00

:o: yes it is Claude
and it is possible if we all try

holdowicz-claude 25. May 2009, 16:44

Angeliki, you let me think about some prayer groups. I haven't seen how a prayer group can act but I have heard that the princip is to pray together in the same time to get some effects :smile:

noah counte 25. May 2009, 22:48

Yoga - the physical practice we do in the west - can benefit anyone, Claude, even if you are inflexible.

holdowicz-claude 26. May 2009, 06:40

That's nice to know :smile: Thanks Matthew

Arnekrilu 26. May 2009, 07:32

Just one word of warning. I think I have seen misuse of prayer grops on My Opera. Secondly: The breathing techniques in yoga are easy even for old, stiff people. :yes:

holdowicz-claude 26. May 2009, 08:22

What kind of misuse, Arne?

Arnekrilu 26. May 2009, 14:03

It is possible (in theory of cause) for a man to tell the net community that he is suffering from prostata cancer, and has great pain without much help from the medicine. People on the net may showe great concern, and hindus, muslims, buddhists and christians etc. promise to pray for him, and ask how it is going. But it is all a hoax, and the person with the story only tells it to get as many visits on his blog as possible.
:yuck:

holdowicz-claude 26. May 2009, 14:22

I see :lol: That's a pity! :D A strange way to get more audience...

noah counte 26. May 2009, 15:06

I've seen that happen elsewhere. I've actually seen the same person do it twice to the same community, before being found out.

Nerak 26. May 2009, 23:18

Wow! :eyes: That was amazingly well written. Screw this librarian gig and go for the author gig! :yes:

Seriously, though, I loved it and will certainly check Claude's thingy out.

:left: No, not that thingy!

holdowicz-claude 27. May 2009, 08:38

You're welcome Karen :smile:

Nerak 27. May 2009, 16:53

:happy:

ellinidata 27. May 2009, 17:34

@Matt,
my friend Zaphira posted on the chain of honesty and I thought it will be OK if I added a direct link to your post, we all can make a difference :smile:
http://my.opera.com/Zaphira/blog/2009/05/27/its-the-little-things?cid=7775723#comment7775723

noah counte 27. May 2009, 17:41

I need to subscribe to Zaphira's feed, so it's nice to have a reminder. Honesty is the first step to peace, I think. Honesty with one's self, at least. Perfectly appropriate to have the link here. :smile:

Zaphira 27. May 2009, 18:45

I must say that I agree, the two posts go well hand in hand together. :smile:

And those ripples create new ripples.

I'll remember that way of saying it. I usually say that good mood rubs off onto the persons around you.

noah counte 27. May 2009, 18:53

I agree that it rubs off, thank heavens! So does ugliness and nastiness, which is why we ought to be careful. It's not usually the fault of those we come in contact with that we are in a foul mood. We just transfer our negativity onto people who didn't ask for it.

I like the imagery of ripples, because it suggests continued rubbing. lol. That doesn't sound quite right.

Zaphira 27. May 2009, 18:57

Umm... well... it may not sound right, but it sure sounds funny! :lol:

But yes. I've been loosing friends that didn't "give" anything but negativity and who "stole" energy without giving anything back.

noah counte 27. May 2009, 19:39

Good for you. They aren't friends at all, I think. Perhaps they need what they take, but one cannot give indefinitely.

ellinidata 27. May 2009, 20:06

holdowicz-claude 27. May 2009, 20:14

:smile:

ellinidata 29. May 2009, 02:54

Shaunak 29. May 2009, 04:57

I think its a very noble idea. :up:

holdowicz-claude 29. May 2009, 09:25

I have added your post Angelliki :up: :smile:

ellinidata 29. May 2009, 11:59

peace

edwardpiercy 1. June 2009, 20:36

I suppose we could just issue all the planet's various armies paint bullets.

Maybe that would help.

(I told myself that I was NOT going to write something stupid on this nice post. Well, Pax Vobiscum anyway.)

noah counte 2. June 2009, 02:15

or little "bang" flags that shoot out of the barrel...

edwardpiercy 2. June 2009, 19:09

:lol:

You know when I was a kid I used to get together with the neigbhorhood kids and we would chose up two teams and take our toy rifles and such and try to "kill" each other -- the old "I gotcha you're dead" scenario. I thought it was fun, and in fact took it quite seriously. And I don't think I was a particulary violent kid. To me it felt more like a catharsis. Getting all of this energy out me. So I wonder if there is some real instinct for that type of thing woven into our DNA over a couple million years. Or, as I have thought more lately, that we are pretty much anit-social animals from the psychological point of view who have had to work with other human beings to survive through evolutionary history -- and that we don't like it none.



noah counte 3. June 2009, 01:03

My folks didn't honor the Second Amendment, so we just swung tree limbs at each other. I didn't go for contact sports much after that. (whistle)

edwardpiercy 3. June 2009, 02:00

*image of people going around hitting each other with sticks*

noah counte 3. June 2009, 02:36

This is where I usually toss Ian Drury's "Hit Me With Your Rhythm Stick" at you, but today I'm feeling very Nina Hagen.

ellinidata 3. June 2009, 02:38

my mother thought hitting with a stick it was OK,
when I became a parent I never even pulled with force a toy from my kids, I wanted them to respect me and honor me, not to fear me...

To my surprise when I got closer with some Chinese families I found out that hitting it was OK in their culture too...:frown:
and it is sooooooo wrong!
I see people posting videos where they use bad language infornd of their kids, to me they are verbally abuse their kids too !

noah counte 3. June 2009, 02:39

I just realized that my links aren't rendering right (since the big My Opera update). I should go check that, but I don't think I will do it tonight.

I_ArtMan 3. June 2009, 07:01

right on meli, :heart: hitting is so passe' :sherlock:

ellinidata 3. June 2009, 10:40

holdowicz-claude 3. June 2009, 10:41

:up: :smile:

edwardpiercy 3. June 2009, 15:33

Nina just got bizzare after a while. Maybe it's a German thing, don't know.

holdowicz-claude 5. June 2009, 11:37

Matthew if you want, you can now add the heart Peace dove in the right bottom of your blog. Have a look on my updated Peace chain post for the explaination, please :smile:

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