Peace Chain
Monday, 25. May 2009, 01:37:39
Peace
It has been elusive, eh? The history of mankind is not a peaceful record. Even what should be the most peaceful of institutions, our religious bodies, have long records of violence against those with varying beliefs. Even the Buddhists and the Hindus, ostensibly the most peaceful of all religions are not immune from wreaking violence upon others (see, for example, the civil war in Sri Lanka over the past 20 years or so).
Surely we can (and should) do better? It cannot be that our purpose as countries, cultures, religion, etc., is to wage war on each other. That is certainly not the world in which I want to live. It’s not the world I want to leave to our kids.
What then?
I have been thinking that I cannot affect world peace in any meaningful way. I can vote for leaders whom I hope will rise to the challenge, but mine is but one vote.
And yet, I know that every stone I cast ripples outward. Every harsh word, every ugly thought, every pleasant gesture left unmade impacts not only the people with whom I come in contact, but the people with whom they come in contact, and more ripples are created. Who knows how far these ripples might spread? It is important, then, that the stones we cast do not send ripples of negativity and despair. That they do not send ripples of indifference or worse.
Rather, the stones I cast must shine light into the lives of those with whom I come in contact. A kind word, a door held, an angry gesture not made. My destinations are no more important than those of anyone else. My needs are no greater. We are all cut of the same fabric, after all.
Inner peace
Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself -- Leo Tolstoy.
I do not know if my preamble suggests my conclusion: that inner peace is the key to world peace; that, until people are at one with themselves, they cannot be at peace with their neighbor; that we focus so much on doing, at the expense of our being. What is called for is not a phone conversation while walking from the car to the office – what is needed is a moment to smell the flowers. The driver who pulls out in front of me does not need to be shown the finger, for surely he did not put us both in jeopardy on purpose.
Abandoning all desires and acting free from longing, without any sense of mineness or sense of ego one attains peace. -- Sri Krishna BG II, 71
I know that I will never divorce myself fully from longing and desire for objects, for love, for companionship, or for many other things. Yet, I can aspire to be better. I can take a break from the world and reflect on the blessings in my life, blessings that upon reflection, lessen my desire for more worldly things. And, with lessened desire, comes greater peace. And my peace casts its ripples. And those ripples create new ripples.
Perhaps the mark we make in the fight for a more peaceful world is not on our leaders, but on our neighbors.
Peace my friends.



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I_ArtMan # 25. May 2009, 03:37
"that we focus so much on doing, at the expense of our being."
there could be a balance. if i work on myself it will help others.
we can't do much but we can lessen the ripples which spread negativity. well done, friend.
noah counte # 25. May 2009, 03:50
Thank you for the comments, Scott.
I_ArtMan # 25. May 2009, 04:17
i added your post to the chain on my page. no doubt claude will do the same on his.
ellinidata # 25. May 2009, 05:04
".....inner peace" yes I hear you
it takes hard work and many "me" hours to work on "inner peace" but when you find it ,it is priceless..
when your "inner peace" unites with others' the force of the peace becomes like a river that never ends....Peace is here we just need to see it and feel it !
photo by Bedec
dragon_harrower # 25. May 2009, 06:23
Originally posted by Matt:
Many people do not realize just how big an impact they make in the world with their words and/or gestures. Yes, we are small in this vast universe, but we are also still very much apart of it. It makes you wonder how much it would impact the world if everyone left that one angry remark unspoken or calmed the urge to make a negative gesture and instead made one kind remark or thoughtful gesture.
Arnekrilu # 25. May 2009, 07:23
holdowicz-claude # 25. May 2009, 11:37
I have read in French, a book from John C. Lilly a few years ago. It seems an interesting way to exploring our inner consciousness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_C._Lilly
And a video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7tq0IwPao0
Any advice?
noah counte # 25. May 2009, 13:33
Hindu tradition holds that one needs a guru to lead you on your path of self-discovery and introspection, and that practicing advanced techniques without guidance can be very dangerous. Personally, I do not know any advanced techniques. I find that yoga practice (western yoga) has dramatically helped me quiet myself, though.
Casey, I think you are exactly right. We can turn someone's day around by quieting our urge to tell people what they already know (that they are rude, or unthoughtful) or worse, stopping ourselves from projecting our bad feelings onto them. Maybe the person we don't flip off then doesn't go home and yell at her husband or kids. Who knows how far those little transactions carry?
Thank you for stopping by, Arnekrilu.
Angeliki, is that a picture of Guan Yin?
holdowicz-claude # 25. May 2009, 13:45
noah counte # 25. May 2009, 13:46
holdowicz-claude # 25. May 2009, 13:50
ellinidata # 25. May 2009, 15:39
* for everyone that wants to know about Guan Yin this is the core idea:
As long as you are kind and there is love in your heart
A thousand hands will naturally come to your aid
As long as you are kind and there is love in your heart
You will reach out with a thousand hands to help others
.Guan Yin is the bodhisattva of compassion, revered by Buddhists as the Goddess of Mercy.
Her name is short for Guan Shi Yin.
Guan means to observe, watch, or monitor;
Shi means the world;
Yin means sounds, specifically sounds of those who suffer.
Thus, Guan Yin is a compassionate being who watches for, and responds to, the people in the world who cry out for help.
holdowicz-claude # 25. May 2009, 15:48
ellinidata # 25. May 2009, 16:00
and it is possible if we all try
holdowicz-claude # 25. May 2009, 16:44
noah counte # 25. May 2009, 22:48
holdowicz-claude # 26. May 2009, 06:40
Arnekrilu # 26. May 2009, 07:32
holdowicz-claude # 26. May 2009, 08:22
Arnekrilu # 26. May 2009, 14:03
holdowicz-claude # 26. May 2009, 14:22
noah counte # 26. May 2009, 15:06
Nerak # 26. May 2009, 23:18
Seriously, though, I loved it and will certainly check Claude's thingy out.
holdowicz-claude # 27. May 2009, 08:38
Nerak # 27. May 2009, 16:53
ellinidata # 27. May 2009, 17:34
my friend Zaphira posted on the chain of honesty and I thought it will be OK if I added a direct link to your post, we all can make a difference
http://my.opera.com/Zaphira/blog/2009/05/27/its-the-little-things?cid=7775723#comment7775723
noah counte # 27. May 2009, 17:41
Zaphira # 27. May 2009, 18:45
I'll remember that way of saying it. I usually say that good mood rubs off onto the persons around you.
noah counte # 27. May 2009, 18:53
I like the imagery of ripples, because it suggests continued rubbing. lol. That doesn't sound quite right.
Zaphira # 27. May 2009, 18:57
But yes. I've been loosing friends that didn't "give" anything but negativity and who "stole" energy without giving anything back.
noah counte # 27. May 2009, 19:39
ellinidata # 27. May 2009, 20:06
holdowicz-claude # 27. May 2009, 20:14
ellinidata # 29. May 2009, 02:54
http://my.opera.com/ellinidata/blog/2009/05/29/teen-joins-the-peace-chain
Shaunak # 29. May 2009, 04:57
holdowicz-claude # 29. May 2009, 09:25
ellinidata # 29. May 2009, 11:59
edwardpiercy # 1. June 2009, 20:36
Maybe that would help.
(I told myself that I was NOT going to write something stupid on this nice post. Well, Pax Vobiscum anyway.)
noah counte # 2. June 2009, 02:15
edwardpiercy # 2. June 2009, 19:09
You know when I was a kid I used to get together with the neigbhorhood kids and we would chose up two teams and take our toy rifles and such and try to "kill" each other -- the old "I gotcha you're dead" scenario. I thought it was fun, and in fact took it quite seriously. And I don't think I was a particulary violent kid. To me it felt more like a catharsis. Getting all of this energy out me. So I wonder if there is some real instinct for that type of thing woven into our DNA over a couple million years. Or, as I have thought more lately, that we are pretty much anit-social animals from the psychological point of view who have had to work with other human beings to survive through evolutionary history -- and that we don't like it none.
noah counte # 3. June 2009, 01:03
edwardpiercy # 3. June 2009, 02:00
noah counte # 3. June 2009, 02:36
ellinidata # 3. June 2009, 02:38
when I became a parent I never even pulled with force a toy from my kids, I wanted them to respect me and honor me, not to fear me...
To my surprise when I got closer with some Chinese families I found out that hitting it was OK in their culture too...
and it is sooooooo wrong!
I see people posting videos where they use bad language infornd of their kids, to me they are verbally abuse their kids too !
noah counte # 3. June 2009, 02:39
I_ArtMan # 3. June 2009, 07:01
ellinidata # 3. June 2009, 10:40
holdowicz-claude # 3. June 2009, 10:41
edwardpiercy # 3. June 2009, 15:33
holdowicz-claude # 5. June 2009, 11:37