OPHELIA'S RAINBOW

Can one person ,having met them just once ,be all that is required to say that, THIS is the one for me ? Can a phone call, twice a day, with each never lasting less than an hour at a time ,be enough reason to say that he really, truly cares for me? And the endless text messages that he sent each day as I lay in hospital, be a sign that, he is made for me? A friend of mind answers with a resounding NO! I an aware that I wear my heart no my sleeve. I know I have gotten somewhat unbelievable when I meet someone because I immediately think that I am going to marry this or that guy. I do not blame my friend for saying that. And it doesnt matter he believes me when I say that there was this guy I met in November. Who did all those things I have mentioned. But after meeting me, he went awol. Now he has been chatting via mXit from time to time, and its brought out the pain I had when he disappeared. Though I should add that I need to talk about the first date before I go further. . . Goodnight for now.