phuonglinh18

Handling Love

Thursday, 28. February 2008, 18:13:27

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt...

IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN,
IT WILL COME AGAIN!

Submitted by: Lori

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. # 28. February 2008, 18:36

why dont you go to sleep? :-W hm hm

phuonglinh18 # 29. February 2008, 13:20

bc i lv u

. # 29. February 2008, 18:05

"If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you"

hi' hi'

phuonglinh18 # 1. March 2008, 10:00

. # 1. March 2008, 10:31

ngố quá thôi

phuonglinh18 # 1. March 2008, 11:01

...why?

. # 1. March 2008, 17:58

hehe...em cũng chẳng biết, tại cái bài này

phuonglinh18 # 1. March 2008, 18:05

bai nay sao?

bachcottinh # 1. March 2008, 18:57

bài này hay.

. # 1. March 2008, 19:17

dạo này thấy chiên gia bạch cốt nhiều câu gọn ghê

@Plinh: bà chị kia nói đúng rồi đấy

PS: yêu thì ko chịu yêu... hm hm

phuonglinh18 # 2. March 2008, 04:12

BCT: cam on em nha

PN: chi post len de khuyen ng khac yeu chu co khuyen chi dau

. # 2. March 2008, 08:12

khuyên ai khi dùng english hở

chị post cho chị mà

phuonglinh18 # 2. March 2008, 08:27

dung English moi hay...chi post len de khuyen em do

...

L - Mr.Lonely # 3. March 2008, 14:06

Chà, liên tiếp 4 entry English, mà toàn là...L...O...V...E...nghi ngờ wa'

phuonglinh18 # 3. March 2008, 14:55

LOVE..co gi la la...post len de moi ng xem

...ma ko phai minh

L - Mr.Lonely # 3. March 2008, 15:26

Haha, Bít mà có ai phạm tội lại kêu tôi có tội

phuonglinh18 # 3. March 2008, 15:40

. # 3. March 2008, 16:02

yeah yeah, lộ tẩy rồi nhá

HL, cậu.. bắt bà ta lại, đễ tớ,... khảo cung

khà khà khà

phuonglinh18 # 4. March 2008, 06:01

doc ec thiet...thay con gai khoc ma ko rung dong:irked:

. # 4. March 2008, 18:21

thì rung động quá mới đòi khảo cung

phuonglinh18 # 5. March 2008, 10:52

lai co kieu rung ki cuc do nua...phai de phong thoi:ninja:

. # 5. March 2008, 20:53

bị hù

phuonglinh18 # 6. March 2008, 12:32

. # 6. March 2008, 19:10

thôi, ngủ ngoan đi, tôi đừng mơ lung tung

phuonglinh18 # 7. March 2008, 01:36

mo gi lung tung?...toi qua mo thay danh PN bam dap te tua...

. # 7. March 2008, 18:25

tối qua em cũng mơ thấy chị

L - Mr.Lonely # 8. March 2008, 10:26

phuonglinh18 # 8. March 2008, 16:36

PN: mo thay chi lam gi?

HL: "cuoi co duyen"

L - Mr.Lonely # 9. March 2008, 06:37

2 ng típ tục mơ đi nghen, xong kể Dracula nghe với

phuonglinh18 # 9. March 2008, 10:21

...

L - Mr.Lonely # 10. March 2008, 07:01

đang mơ hay sao mà im lặng thế PL

phuonglinh18 # 10. March 2008, 17:24

thi cu cho la vay

. # 10. March 2008, 18:58

ko nói gì nguy hiểm lắm

phuonglinh18 # 11. March 2008, 17:00

. # 12. March 2008, 17:47

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phuonglinh18 # 13. March 2008, 17:46

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. # 13. March 2008, 18:16

,,,

phuonglinh18 # 13. March 2008, 18:22

choi tro...,,,

. # 13. March 2008, 18:35

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phuonglinh18 # 14. March 2008, 03:45

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L - Mr.Lonely # 16. March 2008, 06:49

=^^=

phuonglinh18 # 17. March 2008, 10:48

^=^!

. # 18. March 2008, 15:08

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phuonglinh18 # 20. March 2008, 10:14

cua

phuonglinh18 # 20. March 2008, 10:17

nguoi

phuonglinh18 # 20. March 2008, 10:18

dep

phuonglinh18 # 20. March 2008, 10:19

hon

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