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How to start a conversation with someone

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Starting to talk to someone can be very hard.Someone you've never spoken to before can seem big and scary.Here are ways of getting people talking I figured out.

Be polite
If u want people2 like u and want to get 2 know u,politeness helps a lot. I'm not saying u should suck up 2 them, but treat them with respect.There's a trend for being rude these days that come from movies & TV. It's fun to watch, but that's not how the real world works. When Clint Eastwood is rude & nasty, it's fascinating-when you're rude or nasty, you're just someone who's not worth having anything to do with.Everyone knows what you're supposed to do to be polite-put it in practice and you'll go far with making new friends.

If it's someone you've seen before, say "hello"
It's amazing how many people will be in the same office,school or on the same bus for years & never speak. Simply say "hi" to a person u see regularly & you'll move from being a stranger towards being a friend.

Practice shy confidence
While shyness & confidence are obviously opposites,u can mix them in opening conversation to great effect.Be confident in forcing yourself to speak 2 the person in question, but be shy as in letting them know that u respect them enough to worry about their reply.Most people will either try to bowl the other person with their confidence,thus putting them off,or never speak to them in the 1st place.

The trick is to combine the 2 approaches.Simply speaking up with a quite"How are you?" will break the ice.Then continue with shy respectful conversation.Most people aren't mean enough to reject a politely shy approach.

Ask questions
This is old technique,but works well. As u don't know the person very well, u don't want to pry into anything too personal to begin with.Just keep it friendly and respectful,don't go into interrogation mode. Look for something about them to ask which is likely to receive more than just a yes or no answer - "I like your watch, where did u get it?", "Are u guys busy up there at the moment?", "Do u work in the city?", "Did u watch the tennis last night?".

What u really looking for is something u have in common u can lever a conversation from. Here's example of man starting conversation with woman at work.

Frank: Hi there, how's it going?
Mary: Fine thanks.
Frank: Your team seems pretty busy these days. I've seen u all flashing around like a Mercedes Tail Light.
Mary: Yeah, we've got the auditors in at the moment.
Frank: Oh, I think they're coming our way next. They're being difficult are they?
Mary: u wouldn't believe it. I've been here until eight every night this week.
Frank: That's no good. Any advice for getting ready for them?

Don't worry too much if someone isn't immediately friendly back to u
Everyone gets nervous when talking to someone they don't know well. Sometimes we react badly even if we don't mean to.If someone is a bit blunt with u, acts strangely, or seems disinterested the first couple of times u speak to them, don't worry too much.They're probably just nervous and need to get used to the idea that you're just being friendly. Give them a bit of space and time to think it over and often they'll come around.You'll be surprised how often such people soon earn respect for you when u continue being friendly with them.
Not everyone is interested in being your friend.Some people are never going to be your friend no matter how hard u try.That's just their loss.They probably like that with almost everyone anyway, so don't take it personally.If someone is always rude to u when you're trying 2 be nice, just shrug your shoulders and move on.While it may be tempting 2 get revenge, it often isn't even worth doing so.Rude people usually don't get ahead in their personal relationships.Their nastiness is probably much more damaging to themselves.

STUPID TRIVIA

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• The wheel on "Wheel of Fortune" is eight and one half feet in diameter
• Cockroaches can go nine days without a head before dying of starvation
• Florida grows two-thirds of America's eggplant.
• 50% of bank robberies take place on Fridays
• There are 12 letters in the Hawaiian alphabet
• 336 dimples cover the regulation golf ball
• China, although covering five time zones geographically, uses only one time zone, Beijing's (GMT +8)
• The book Les Miserables has the longest sentence in literature, it is 823 words long.
• The original NBC peacock had 11 plumes
• Vitamin A is the only essential vitamin not found in a white potato
• The average escalator moves 120 feet per minute
• After black, Henry Ford released cars that were painted maroon and green
• Ants, when intoxicated, will fall on their right side, always
• George Washington's second inaugural address was only 135 words long.
• On average, right handed folk live nine years longer than the left handed
• One penny doubled everyday becomes over 5 million dollars in just 30 days
• The dots over the letters i and j are called tittles
• A bowling pin only needs to tilt 7.5 degrees to fall
• Mongolia was the second country to adopt communism.
• First book written on a typewriter: Tom Sawyer
• An edible sea snail is called a winkle
• Rubber bands will last longer when refrigerated
• There were seven Ringling Brothers
• Elephants can't jump
• Between 1835 and 1837, there was no national debt.
• Women blink nearly twice as much as men
• Every year 8,000 people injure themselves while using a tooth pick
• It takes an average of three seconds to pick up a penny, which works out to $12 an hour
• Uncopyrightable is the only 15 letter word that has no repeating letters
• In Paraguay, dueling is legal provided both duelers are registered blood donors
• Henry Longfellow was the first American poet to have plumbing installed in his house in 1840
• Chilis are measured in Scoville Units. The mildest is a bell pepper (0-325). The hottest is a habanero (above 325,000)
• The QE2 uses one gallon of diesel fuel for every six inches
• The San Francisco Street Car is the only national landmark that moves
• Most baby giraffes first experience is falling six feet, as its mother often gives birth while standing
• Twelve people have walked on the moon.
• You can accidentally kill yourself by drinking over 40 cups of coffee in one day. The amount of caffeine is sufficient to cause respiratory failure
• A dime has 118 ridges around the edge
• In modern English, screeched, scratched, scrounged, scrunched, stretched, straights, strengths are the longest mono-syllabic words, each with nine letters.
• There are no rivers in Saudi Arabia
• We are living in the Cenozoic Era
• The first toilet ever seen on television was on "Leave It To Beaver"
• Almonds are a member of the peach family
• 111,111,111 * 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,3 21
• The Walkman was originally called the Soundabout
• The giant squid is the worlds largest invertebrate
• Twenty-five cents per hour was the first minimum wage
• The highest point in Pennsylvania is lower than the lowest point in Colorado
• The tongue is the strongest muscle in the body
• The average bank teller loses $250 per year
• The verb "cleave" is the only English word with two synonyms which are antonyms of each other: adhere and separate.
• John Napier created the decimal point
• Lickable stamps provide 1/10 of a calorie
• A sixty minute cassette tape contains 565 feet of tape
• The "black box" of airplanes is really orange
• Crossing a zebra with a donkey yields a zeedonk
• It just makes sense, you can make change for a dollar 293 ways.
• Farting consistently for 6 years and nine months yields as much energy as a nuclear bomb
• G-Tech, the world leader in lottery transactions, processes more transactions per second than Master Card, Visa, American Express, and Discover... combined.
• The Sanskrit word for "war" means "desire for more cows"
• The Queen (or King) of England may not enter the House of Commons, as she is not a commoner
• The microwave was invented after a researcher walked passed a radar tube and his chocolate melted
• Captain Kirk never said "Beam me up, Scotty," but he did say, "Beam me up, Mr. Scott"
• Dark green lettuce leaves are more nutritious than lighter green leaves
• American Airlines saved $40,000 in 1987 by eliminating one olive from each salad they served in first class
• In the United States, credit cards outnumber humans 2:1
• Cows can walk upstairs, but their knees don't bend the right way to walk downstairs
• The United States has never lost a war in which mules were used
• Your thumb is also known as your pollex
• The Egyptian hieroglyph for 100,000 is a tadpole
• City with the most Rolls Royce's per capita: Hong Kong
• A 'jiffy' is an actual unit of time for 1/100th of a second
• Winston Churchill was born in a ladies' room during a dance
• Hershey's Kisses are called that because the machine that makes them looks like it's kissing the conveyor belt.
• Watching people eat in hopes they'll share their food is called groaking
• The US standard railroad gauge (distance between rails) is 4 feet, 8.5 inches
• Every single hamster in the USA today comes from a single litter captured in Syria in 1930
• State with the highest percentage of people who walk to work: Alaska
• The span from your thumb's end to your pinkies end is equal to the distance between your nipples, go ahead, try... told you
• The word 'lethologica' describes the state of not being able to remember the word you want
• Iceland consumes more Coca-Cola per capita than any other nation
• The first prime number after 1,000,000 is 1,000,003
• Five Jell-O flavors have flopped: celery, coffee, cola, apple and chocolate
• When the Titanic sunk there was 7,500 lbs. of ham on it
• American car horns beep in the tone of Subaru Fan Clutch.
• A ducks quack does not echo
• The Statue of Liberty's mouth is 3 feet wide
• During his or her lifetime, the average human will grow 590 miles of hair
• In English, "four" is the only digit that has the same number of letters as its value
• It would take 15,840,000 rolls of wallpaper to cover the Great Wall of China
• Bubble gum contains rubber
• The Gideons want you to take that Bible
• Alekthophilia is the love of chickens
• At 6.5 million square feet, the Pentagon is the largest office building in the world
• Your stomach needs to produce a new layer of mucus every two weeks or it would digest itself
• The study of soil is paedology
• Buckingham Palace has 602 rooms
• Coca-Cola was originally green
• The raised reflective dots in the middle of highways are called Bottsdots
• Snails can sleep for three years straight

Success (Joke)

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At age 4, success is... not peeing in your pants.
At age 12, success is... having friends.
At age 16, success is... having a driver's license.
At age 20, success is... having sex.
At age 35, success is... having money.
At age 50, success is... having money.
At age 60, success is... having sex.
At age 70, success is... having a driver's license.
At age 75, success is... having friends.
At age 80, success is... not peeing in your pants.

brought to you by Plymouth Canada.
December 2009
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