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5 Truths About Women And Attraction

Wednesday, 2. January 2008, 05:14:42

The most important step you can take is to
LEARN HOW ATTRACTION WORKS! You need to learn this
game so you know what's happening in future
situations... and, most importantly, you know what
to do to make women feel attracted to you from the
beginning (and, of course, how to NOT let your
inner WUSS rear its ugly head too often).

As you know, some of my favorite ways to do
this are by being Cocky and Funny, teasing women,
busting on them in a particular way, playing hard
to get, etc.

But if you want to learn how ATTRACTION works
and to make it work for YOU, then YOU'RE going to
have to go out and do it. No one else is going to
do it for you.

I did the trial-and-error thing. I tried all
kinds of stuff. In fact, I've probably tried more
different ideas for meeting women than anyone I
know.

The real shift towards success came when I
started making friends with guys who were very
successful with women... and then watching what
they did in person.

I found that these guys did things that THEY
WEREN'T EVEN aware of... things that made women
literally pursue THEM. I then took all of this
information and combined it with the other things
I had learned... I worked like a mad scientist for
a few years on this because I really wanted to get
this area of my life figured out.

Well, as you can imagine, I developed some
pretty amazing techniques for meeting women,
getting emails and phone numbers, taking things to
a "physical" level, and everything in between.

You have to do a lot of INNER work if you want
to be the kind of guy who can keep an amazing
woman.

When I was on my own personal quest to learn
how to attract women, I found that most of the
materials available only focused on the OUTER
game. In other words, they only talked about
techniques. They said "Just go up to a woman and
say HI..." but they didn't talk about HOW to say
the words, or how to understand what the woman
would be thinking when I did approach her... or
any of the million other "INNER GAME" issues
around meeting women.

After spending a few years figuring this stuff
out, I have realized that it is VITAL that a guy
get his Inner Game together FIRST.

Once you understand how and why women are
attracted to certain types of men, and how the
human "mating dance" works, you will SEE things
differently. You'll understand things in a new
way. It's like putting on a pair of 3-D glasses...
and seeing things in a totally new way.

Then, I think it's important to learn THE BEST
"techniques" and actual strategies for meeting
women... from where to go, to what to say, to how
to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and
without "rejection".

If you'd like to build a ROCK SOLID
like plymouth grand voyager vent visor "Inner
Game"... I'm talking about powerful self-
confidence and security in every situation... then
you really need to check out my programs that are
SPECIFICALLY designed to help you do it...

My "On Being A Man Who Naturally Attracts
Women" program is all about learning the skills
that most of us never learned from our dads. It's
about how to become the kind of MAN that women are
NATURALLY attracted to.

You hear women saying things like "I want a
REAL MAN" and "I don't want a BOY, I want a MAN".
Well, this program will explain to you EXACTLY
what that means, and, more importantly, it will
show you how to TRANSFORM yourself into a man that
women WANT.

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The Ultimate "Trick" For Meeting Women

Wednesday, 2. January 2008, 05:06:32

love, Dating, relationships

I wanted to share a secret to attracting women
that I believe is one of the ULTIMATE advantages
you can have.

When I was first learning about how to get past
my internal fears... how to approach women and start
conversations... how to create attraction and
chemistry... and how to take things to the next
level... I wound up trying a TON of different
"tricks and techniques".

Whenever I found a new "trick" that worked for
me, I felt like I had just put another piece of the
puzzle together... that I had gotten just that
much closer to REALLY understanding how things
worked as for the plymouth fury vent visor.

But there was another feeling that happened
even MORE often:

It was when I would try something that had
"worked" before, but it DIDN'T work this time.

It was the feeling that I must have MISSED
something... that I must not REALLY get it.

I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking
about here.

It was probably a couple of YEARS after
starting my quest that I had what I consider to
be one of the biggest "Ah Ha!" experiences of my life.

Here's what my realization was:

The guys I knew who were the MOST successful
with women didn't read books to learn a bunch of "pick
up lines"... and they didn't rely on tricks to
attract women.

The guys I new who were MOST successful had a
certain something about them that just seemed to
MAGNETICALLY attract women.

In fact, these guys did and said things to
women that seemed like they COULDN'T work to create
attraction.

But it worked. It seemed to ALWAYS work.

At first, I just assumed that these guys must
be good-looking, or have some kind of natural charm
that I would never have.

It seemed like an "unfair advantage".

Well, I learned that it WAS actually an unfair
advantage. But I ALSO learned that it was
something that ANY guy can have.

WARNING: What I'm about to say might sound a
little "new-agey"... but stick with me.

This "Ah Ha!" led me to an even deeper and more
powerful realization:

These men who were consistently successful with
women had a QUALITY about them, and a deep
UNDERSTANDING of how male/female attraction
works...

...SO THEY DIDN'T NEED TECHNIQUES.

Because they had this magical quality, and
because they understood how to direct and channel any
situation and conversation... they created success
without needing the tricks.

In fact, one of my friends who was VERY good
with women started LEARNING some "pick up lines"
and other tricks, and started doing WORSE with
women.
True story.

He had the quality, and the tricks messed it up
for him!

Well, after really digging into this topic and
trying to translate this "secret knowledge"... and
how to develop this quality I speak of... into a
system that a regular guy could "get" use, I
finally create the Master Key.

It's a Master Key that will unlock doors that
NO guy with a bunch of "tricks and techniques" can
open.

It's a key that will attract -- AND KEEP -- the
more desirable and attractive women... the kinds
of women that most guys will NEVER even have a
chance to date.

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Absolutely loves the game of golf

Thursday, 4. October 2007, 03:58:01

love, relationships

One thing that we know unites most people who are really good at what they do, is that they love what they do. Yo-Yo Ma loves playing the cello, and Tiger Woods absolutely loves the game of golf. And this is obvious to everyone. However, when we think about people like that, people that are at the top of their game in something, we usually have at the top of our minds an image of the glory of success. The triumph of their public performance is what we see on television, and so it’s easy for us to see how they love what they do.

But behind the glorified images of triumph are years and years of practice, repetition, iteration; willful submission to a daily routine most of us would not be able to sustain for a week. A dedication that cannot possibly be motivated solely by the promise of future success, which is the motivation most often associated with grand achievement. There is talk about the passion for winning or a burning desire to be the best, which of course is a factor to a certain degree, but that sort of motivation will never be enough on its own.

But, you may ask, isn’t it ultimately just a matter of self-discipline and determination? Obviously that is an important aspect, but to think that mere force is enough to achieve greatness in any endeavor is to dramatically underestimate the value of true greatness. There is always the tendency to think that all these Audi s4 performance parts have is simply a higher level of self-discipline than the rest of us, and that what motivates them is the glory of the end result that we see in the media.

Did Lance Armstrong manage to win one of the most grueling tests of endurance there is, after recovering from cancer, with nothing but self-discipline and an ambition to win?

Hardly.

What we miss in the images we are shown of greatness on any level is that, in the words of Vincent Van Gogh, “great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together.” Greatness is not the final triumph, the idolized end result, but a series of seemingly mundane things done with care and attention.

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Top Ten Signs You're Dating a High Maintenance Girl

Wednesday, 26. September 2007, 00:51:44

love, personality, relationships, girl.men

Gentleman, too many of us fall prey to the High Maintenance Girl. And too many of us don't see the warning signs until it is, alas, too late and we have been reduced to sniveling, weak, insecure shells of our true, pre-High Maintenance Girl days. To that end, I present to you my list of Top Ten Warning Signs that You're Dating a High Maintenance Girl. Enjoy. And get out while you still can-- denial helps no one.

Number 10: She wears hats (not baseball caps), especially of the wide-brimmed variety. Nothing screams Luvvy from Gilligan's Island like a damn hat-wearing girl.

Number 9: She ties a sweater around her waist. This one is controversial, but more often than not, a girl who tries to hide her big butt with an expensive sweater is high maintenance. See, what you don't know is that she spent at least 45 minutes adjusting that thing to look perfect. And what *she* doesn't know is that it just makes her *** look bigger by drawing attention to it and adding another couple inches.

Number 8: She loves to order wine with dinner. Listen, eating out is expensive enough, I don't need you to add another $36 for a couple ounces of liquid that you'll inevitably complain about. Truth: the happiest alcoholic moments in any guy's life have NEVER involved wine, so we obviously don't need it. The only reason we have it is to pretend to be sophisticated so high maintenance girls can like us. Lame. Super lame.

Number 7: You get dirty looks if your car isn't spotless even a Subaru Distributor Rotor, inside or out. In other words, she's embarrassed to ride with you based on the superficial aspects of your car. I'm a busy man and I park my car outside. Washing it today just gives the bird's a more satisfying target tomorrow. I'll wash it for special events or if I become a road hazard, but anything beyond that is a waste of either time or money, neither of which I have in copious amounts.

Number 6: She comments on what you're wearing-- when you thought what you were wearing was totally snazzy. I'm not talking about the guys who wear threadbare clothing or mismatch colors or whatever-- we need to be called out when we do things like that. I'm talking about you wearing a nicely pressed shirt that you're pretty convinced is cool, and she just crushes it with the ever-familiar "Um, what are you wearing?" or my personal favorite, "Where'd you get that shirt?"

Number 5: You're always late wherever you go, mostly because she takes six and a half frickin' hours to get ready, wherever you go. Worse yet, to you, she looks exactly the same at minute 15 as she does at minute 380. Now watch out, because this one turns passive aggressive quickly. Soon, you'll start to notice that she's *especially* late when you're supposed to go somewhere with your family or your friends. But tread with caution, because if you bring it up, you can expect a royal crushing since she'll get emotional and say 'How dare you! I'm just trying to look good for your friends and family because I want them to like me!' Lose-lose situations are so much fun!

Number 4: Everyone can get away with things, except for you. Her family treats her like crap? She's still their lapdog. Her friends totally stand her up? No biggie. But you, my dear friend, better *always* be *perfect*. If you ever bring this up, wear armor. She will say something about how she holds her boyfriend/husband to a higher standard and then you'll somehow look like a jackass even though you're right.

Number 3: You try to do something nice, and she totally misses the point and finds the one possible thing you didn't do right. Surprise her with breakfast in bed and she'll ***** you out for not making her favorite toast. Get her flowers and she'll make some comment about it being the wrong season for the ones you chose. I don't have to give any more examples, because the sinking feeling in your stomach is providing you with visceral reminders already.

Number 2: You have to constantly worry about her at social events. You can't just walk away and chat with some friends without making sure she knows where you are or comes with you. You're always concerned that she's not having a good time-- because she's not. She won't mix with anyone, and all of her conversations are superficial and your friend's all come away thinking she's cold and/or bitchy. You know the most demeaning part of this situation? You can't even go to the bathroom without telling her, lest she start looking for you and not find you for five minutes. You don't want that to happen as you'll get the royal bitch-out on the car ride home and she'll threaten to not come to events again. You secretly celebrate that option, but can't show it.

Number 1.5 (had to squeeze this one in there): She refuses to drink water that comes from a tap, even if its filtered. This not only demonstrates high levels of maintenance, it shows that she's basically an irrational idiot too.

And the number one sign you're dating a High Maintenance Girl.......

Number 1: She rains on your parade. Not a drizzle either, but Noah's flood. If you're happy, your girl should be happy. If you're happy and instead your girl finds little snide remarks that on the surface seem supportive but over time actually dig at you, you have yourself a high maintenance girl. Want an example?

"Honey I got a raise"

"Great... now you'll never leave that job."

"Umm... thanks, I guess?"

There's more where this came from. I'm your soothsayer, your truth-bearer. I call it like I see it. Shoot me a line if you want to talk.

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