Frozen Heaters

Do I need to be picky on chosen my friends
Do I need to let anybody forcing me to chose my friends
Do I need to have only female, only male, or mix genders in my blog friends' list:confused:
Do I need to shamed or blamed because I chose certain friends

these questions were revolving in my head yesterday as some people saw my blog friends' list & noticed that the majority are FEMALEs (they were SHOCKED) and called me 'a serious candidate' & 'collector' one of my friend's blog.

well I don't care what they say about me but I'm sure I've the right to:

be picky on chosen my friends.
add whoever I want if they agree.
ignore whoever I don't want.
chose any gender to be in my blog friends' list.

most of my friends say that I'm kind & sweet but others say that I'm rude, mean, & have a sharp tongue (in other word evil ).

well all of them are right.. I even sometimes lean to the second opinion when it become to sarcasm.

I tend to let new people think I'm aggressive, impolite, & use all kind of bad words (sorry for that) intentionally just to see how they will react towards me (strange that some immediately blocked me ).

from their reaction, I can mostly (70%) guess their personality is & then I can be in touch in accordingly.

can you share with me you opinion on this ...