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How Many is Too Many?

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Friends, almost everyone has some in their My Opera friends list. Don't get me wrong, friends are great, but how many is too many friends?

When I look through other people's friends lists, some of them have just a few friends, like between 1-5, but then there are others that have over 30+ friends! Is that too many? I remember looking at someone else's blog that mentioned this. Are people adding friends to their friends list just so they can look like they have a lot of friends but really dont? I know both users have to agree to become friends first, but after that, is the "friendship" still there? Are people adding friends to their friends list and then be never heard from again?

I had a similar case not too long ago. I added someone as a friend, and they added me as a friend. When I tried to contact this person again, they never responded. If I'm going to have friends, then I would like to keep in touch with them occasionally. Wouldn't you? One common thing I notice is with new users is that they go around looking for a bunch of people and asking everyone to be their friend, but once they're not so new anymore, then they're almost never heard from again. As I said before, don't get wrong, friends are cool, I just think that they should keep in touch with you unless they have a reason not to, that's all. ^_^

So what do you think? Is there such a thing of having too many "friends" in the friends list?

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Comments

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 25. March 2009, 21:54

If you talk to them all, I don't see the problem :smile:

Brandon 25. March 2009, 23:41

Yeah I agree, just as long as they talk back. ^_^

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 26. March 2009, 17:09

:lol:

Brandon 26. March 2009, 22:26

I wonder who has the most friends in their friends list.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 26. March 2009, 22:27

Tamil probably...

Brandon 26. March 2009, 23:03

I think Tamil has about 115 friends...so yeah, Tamil probably does have the most friends.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 26. March 2009, 23:09

Yeah

Brandon 26. March 2009, 23:25

That's a LOT of friends.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 26. March 2009, 23:35

Yeah :lol:

Brandon 26. March 2009, 23:54

Tamil has about 110 more friends than me, and I've been here at My Opera everyday for almost two months now. Lol...

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 27. March 2009, 00:00

:lol: I've been here over 2 years :lol:

Brandon 27. March 2009, 00:09

Cool!

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 27. March 2009, 00:13

Yeah :cool:

Brandon 27. March 2009, 00:19

I'm still looking for a few more friends. I got five so far, and I'm cool with all of them.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 27. March 2009, 01:00

When you get to my stage you get a couple of adds a day :D You don't talk to them all the time but you still know them well enough. :yes:

Brandon 27. March 2009, 01:25

Cool, I look forward to being at your stage. ^_^

Alex Sandoval 13. August 2009, 23:41

who wants to be my friend:lol:

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