What are the things that most women go for in a man besides the good looks? Here are 10 tips to attract women.
IMPORTANT: You do not need to be particularly good looking or rich to get a woman. If you know how to behave and know what to say, you can go a very long way with most women.
1: Confidence. Women are attracted to men who look confident (not to be mistaken with arrogance), in control, comfortable and at ease in any situation and environment. Confidence is one of the most important traits in a man. Remember, with women it is mostly a psychological game!
2: Charm. Again, this is not to be confused with arrogance. A charming man is a man who is relaxed, funny, slightly flirtatious (not sleazy!) and a good entertainer (although not a clown!).
3: Good manners. If you are rude, ignorant and do not know how to behave in public, you would be considered as a simple embarrassment. Women would not want to be associated with you and in most cases would avoid you like the plague.
4: Savoire faire. Women love attention. This is a fact. They love to feel that they are the most important and precious thing ever. If you want to get a woman, you must show her attention. You must be careful not to over-do it though. If you over-do it, she will loose interest. You must pay her a compliment every now and then, offer her a drink (or whatever), show her some attention for a while, but you must also give your attention to other people (i.e. you must never give the impression of being desperate. The moment you do, she will loose interest). You must leave her with the feeling of wanting more from you.
5: Look clean and smell nice. Most women are really put off by a man who looks scruffy or dirty or that can be smelled from a distance! Avoid bathing in cheap aftershave or use half a bottle of deodorant. That is SERIOUSLY off putting. Use, sparingly, only expensive aftershave (avoid cheap and nasty stuff: women can tell!) and bit of good and non-overpowering deodorant (i.e. if you leave a strong trail, you have over-done it).
6: Tell interesting stories. Women respond very well to conversation. They love to hear funny anecdotes or cool short stories (e.g. adventures you or your friends have had etc). AVOID long monologues or giving too many details when telling stories. This is not considered as ‘interesting conversation ’ but as ‘boring and agonizing listening session’. DO NOT go there.
7: Listen to her. Show a real interest in the things that she is saying. When women talk, they share a part of themselves, being that dreams, experiences, feelings etc. When they do that, they feel they have connected with you. Women detest men who do listen to them. It seriously infuriates them.
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8: Wear an expensive watch. This is perhaps not essential to all women, although most women would notice your watch (especially a Rolex). Whatever you do, DO NOT make a blatant reference to your expensive watch if you are wearing one. Men who do that are classified as cheap. Let the woman discover your watch by herself. You can be certain that she will!!!
9:Buy a Sport car. Most women do like sport and expensive cars and would be very pleased if they attracted a man who had one (Mercedes, or Porsche, or similar). Once again, your attitude is vital in this. DO NOT brag about it. That would not be cool. You MUST BE COOL about it. Let her find out about it. Be certain that she will, and when she does she will be very impressed by the fact that you haven’t bragged about it (although she may not tell you that). By you being cool about the expensive things you possess (such as an expensive watch or sport car), she will assume that these things are normal for you. That will make you look cooler and even more desirable.
10: Take her to expensive places, at least occasionally. And pay for it! If you spend money on a woman, she will feel that you really appreciate her. However, be careful not to scrutinise the bill too much when it arrives. A quick glance is more than enough. Otherwise she will think that you are tight with your money, and women HATE men who are tight with their money. Tightness with money is one of the worse traits that a man could possible have!
Are you getting serious with a special girl but you’re not totally sure how she feels? Women can be very complicated sometimes, so you may need to get complicated in order to understand them. Try these little love tests to help you make sure she’s a keeper.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #10 Confide a secret
Disclose something about you and ask her to keep it to herself. What it reveals: If you find out she told all of her friends or it gets back to you somehow, you know you can’t really trust her to keep her mouth shut when she needs to. If your secret’s safe with her, you know she’s here to stay. Warning: Don’t make up a secret just to test her. That does qualify as lying.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #9 Give her cash
Give her money to go pay for a few drinks and see if she gives you the change. What it reveals: If she comes back from the bar with no cash and you gave her a 50, she’s very interested in your capital. If she gives you every penny back, you know it’s you and not your money that she loves. Warning: Don’t be cheap. Asking her how much it cost and how much she tipped are kind of out of line.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #8 Play the sick card
Ask her to give up something she really wants to do for the evening because you need her. What it reveals: If she is willing to give up a girl’s night out or a No Doubt concert to take care of you when you have mild fever, you know she’s a keeper. If she’d rather party than be near your germs, her loyalties lie elsewhere. Warning: Don’t make her miss an event she really loves for no good reason. It’s one thing to test her loyalty once, it’s a whole other ballgame to consistently ask her to give up her life for you.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #7 Get a guy in on it
Have a friend hit on her and see how she reacts. What it reveals: If she’s flirty with him and gives him her phone number, she clearly loves male attention a little too much. If she tells him all about you, you know she’s only got eyes for one guy. Warning: Don’t get caught doing this; she’ll get hella pissed and might even cheat on you as payback.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #6 The car door trick
Unlock her door, then go around to your side and see if she leans over to do the same for you. What it reveals: If she unlocks your door, you know she’s thinking of you and wants to impress. If she stays in her seat while you unlock your door, either she’s a little slow or she just isn’t that into you. Warning: Don’t let this be the be-all end-all. If her phone started ringing and her 90-year-old grandma called while you were unlocking your door, she has a good excuse.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #5 Family fun
Invite her to meet your family and see what she says. What it reveals: If she says she’s not ready yet and you’ve been dating for 6 months, she may have another man on the horizon. If she’s excited to meet your folks you know she loves you and wants to see where you come from. Warning: Don’t dump her on the spot if she says no. If she’s not ready, ask her why. Maybe she’s just really nervous and wants to impress them.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #4 The getaway test
Ask her if she wants to spend the weekend together. What it reveals: If she’s already packing her bags before you can get the words out, you know she loves spending lots of time with you. If she’s hesitant and says she has to check her schedule, you may have something to worry about. Warning: Don’t book a weekend ahead of time. You can’t expect her to change her entire schedule for you. Make sure she’s free first.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #3 Party girl?
Watch her in the club and see how she acts. What it reveals: If she’s flirty and dances with other guys, who knows what she’ll do when you’re not around. If she has a good time, but throws glances your way and checks in with you, you know you’re definitely the one she’s going home with. Warning: Don’t be clingy or sit around huffing and puffing. No girl wants to be around her jealous boyfriend at a party.
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #2 Pet sitting
Ask her to watch your cat or dog for the weekend. What it reveals: If she simply can’t take the time to watch your beloved pet, her priorities may lie elsewhere. If she’s already got your pet’s food stocked at her house, it’s smooth sailing from here. Warning: If she’s allergic or really doesn’t like cats, don’t hold it against her!
Ways to test a woman’s loyalty #1 The ultimatum
Ask her to stop talking to a male friend What it reveals: If she won’t stop texting with that shady guy from the 5th floor, you may have some issues to sort out. If she deleted him from her phone for you, she’s here to stay. Warning: This friend better be super flirty and more of an acquaintance. Asking her to stop seeing other guys is fine, but never ask a girl to give up her good friends.
More ways to test a woman’s loyalty
These little tests are sure to reveal if she’s in it for the long run or if it’s just a fling. If she passes with flying colors, you may want to consider taking it to the next level – she’s definitely marriage material!
You’ve heard the one about the 3 biggest lies in the world; “I gave at the office,” “the check’s in the mail,” and, of course, “I won’t come in your mouth.” If you’re familiar with David Allen Coe, you know a slightly different version of them.
Somehow, though, these all seem like the lies of men. Well, there are myriad lies women tell men, too. Arguably, we do it better. Maybe we even do it more often, but usually, it’s for a good reason.
It takes a small army of white lies to keep a relationship going – there are so many times when the PG version of the truth is really more appropriate than the hand-on-the-Bible variety. Your lady doesn’t really expect you to believe her little untruths, so if you watch out for them, you can fix the problem she’s not quite ready to talk about before she has to.
Lies women tell men #10 I don’t mind watching sports with you
This is why you have a girlfriend. She will do something she doesn’t like to please you. What? You thought she liked watching football with you and your old frat brothers Huckster and Bubba? You poor fool. Just enjoy the fact that she’s willing to do it at all, okay?
Why she lies: To establish a rapport with you on something that is decidedly you’re territory. It’s sweet of her.
What you should do: Enjoy it for a while, but if you notice a dip in enthusiasm, start giving her outs, like: “hey, didn’t you want to visit Sheila tonight? I’ll be fine with the boys.”
Lies women tell men #9 I’m fine
Oh no she’s not. If she’s using that terse, sharp tone – you know the one, when it sounds like you could use her voice to cut glass – she isn’t fine.
Why she lies: She thinks you should know what she’s not fine about. You insensitive jerk.
What you should do: Gently feel around the issue and try to figure out just what might be wrong.
Lies women tell men #8 I’m not mad
This is a lie closely related to #9. This generally happens after you’ve had a fight or disagreement, right? You may be 100% in the right, and eventually, the lady temper might come around to your point of view. Don’t hold your breath. Just apologize vaguely and give her some space.
Why she lies: She’s waiting for you to apologize for being a jerk.
What you should do: Give her some time to cool down and think things over.
Lies women tell men #7 I haven’t slept with too many men
This may or may not be true and it’s none of your business and shame on you for asking! Your partner’s sexual history does have some relevance to you – safety and hygiene and all that noise, but seriously – the details are not important, and your lady doesn’t want to feel promiscuous. Moreover – she doesn’t want to think that you think she’s promiscuous. Or she’s worried you’ll start asking about who was better in bed than you.
Why she lies: A little bit of self-protection here.
What you should do: Take what she says about her sexual history at face value and wear protection until there’s a ring on her finger.
Lies women tell men #6 I don’t mind if you go to a strip club with your friends
The modern woman understands that her boy-toy needs some visual variety once in awhile. Every once in awhile you’ll be with a girl who actually doesn’t mind. Or who will go with you! Usually though, it’s one of your behaviors that she barely tolerates and generally allows because a) she’s worried you’ll make a fuss about her being controlling or b) wants something from you in return.
Your lady knows that if she doesn’t bat an eyelid about you stuffing dollar bills down a Pamela Anderson-look-alike’s g-string, you owe her. Big time.
Why she lies: Power. It’s about keeping it in her court.
What you should do: Take it as a trade-off – she gets the upper hand, you get to see tatas!
Lies women tell men #5 I don’t mind if you look at / flirt with other women
Oh liberated woman of today. Totally understanding and accepting of a man’s natural urge to appraise passing females. “Of course you can look,” we tell you gaily, “I don’t mind.” We do. We really, really want to believe that you have eyes only for us. Every time we see you having eye sex with a waitress, we die a little inside.
Why she lies: A genuine desire to be accepting of what is actually normal for men.
What you should do: Try to hide your admiring/flirting from your girl. Please.
Lies women tell men #4 Don’t worry – it can happen to anyone
This lie is an excellent multi-tasker. It can be brought out to make a man feel better about coming too soon, losing his job, burning the pasta sauce or losing 2 grand at poker. But it’s usually about coming too soon. Then, she never means it. Ever. If you hear this coming out of your lady’s lips, feel shame. Deep, penetrating shame. Just kidding, of course. There are creams you can get to fix the problem. And it can happen to anyone.
Why she lies: To make you feel better.
What you should do: Get the freakin’ creams!
Lies women tell men #3 I’m not looking for anything serious right now
A woman may say this and may even believe it. But you shouldn’t. Not for one single solitary minute. While there are women out there who like to date or have sex casually, they are so few and far between that finding one is comparable to finding Swarovski crystals at a church basement rummage sale.
There aren’t too many women who wouldn’t take something serious if it came along. On the other hand – she could despise you and not want to hurt your feelings. (Notice the “not wanting to hurt your feelings pattern?”)
Why she lies: To seem hip and easy to be with, or to avoid telling you that she doesn’t like you at all.
What you should do: Watch her other, non-verbal cues to determine if she’s actually interested in casual dating or if the idea of kissing you repulses her.
Lies women tell men #2 I wouldn’t change anything about you
A woman can say this until she’s blue in the face. And in one way – she usually means it. But not in the way that means she loves how you leave the toilet seat up or spill cheese sauce on your T-shirt.
She means that she likes you and appreciates many different aspects of your personality. Rest assured; she doesn’t love or even like everything. There are bound to be some things about you that drive her stark-raving mad. But because she likes you, she’s not going to mention them.
Why she lies: You’re delicate, fragile male ego.
What you should do: Think about what would annoy you if you’re positions were reversed. Fix those things. Aim to never hear this again.
Lies women tell men #1 You’re the best sex I’ve ever had
When asked how women determine what makes a man good in bed, I like to answer: proximity. The man I’ve been with the most recently is – for all intents and purposes (intents = I don’t want to hurt his feelings, purposes = I want to continue dating him) is the best, simply by dint of being of the moment. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. And so will your girlfriend.
Why she lies: Because if a girl tells her man that he’s not the best in bed, he might cry. And no one wants to see a grown man cry.
What you should do: Nothing. Take the compliment and feel like the wild stud you are.
More lies women tell men?
These are all pretty much lies that you should just accept as part of dealing with another human being on a regular basis. Some things though, you shouldn’t brush off or ignore. If it’s a question of intimate itching or, worse yet, paternity, press the issue. Press it for all you’re worth. Good luck!
Majboor Kar Ke Phir Mujhe Mere Yar Le Chalo, Uski Gali Mein Phir Mujhe Ek Baar Ley Chalo,
Shaid Yeh Mera Veham Ho, Mera Khiyal Ho, Momkin Hai Mere Bad Se Mera Malal Ho, Pachta Raha Ho Phir Mujhe Dar Se Otha Ke Wo, Betaha Ho Meri Rah Me Aankhein Bechah Ke Wo,
Us Ne Hi To Kia Tha Mujhe Piyar Le Chalo, Uski Gali Mein Phir Mujhe Ek Baar Ley Chalo,
Us Ki Gali Ko Janta Pehchanta Hon Me, Wo Meri Qatal Gah Hai Yeh Manta Hon Me, Us Ki Gali Me Mout Moqadar Ki Bat hai, Shaid Yeh Mout Ehal-e-Wafa Ki Hayat Hai,
Me Khud Hi Mangta Hon Talabgar Le Chalo, Uski Gali Mein Phir Mujhe Ek Baar Ley Chalo,
Ab Us Gali Me Koi Na Aaye Ga Mere Baad, Us Dar Pe Khoon Kon Bahaye Ga Mere Baad, Me Ne To Sang-o-Khashat Se Takra Ke Apna Sar, Wallah Kar Diye The Laho Se Wo Bam-o-Dar,
Phir Muntazir Hai Wo Dar-o-Diwar Le Chalo Uski Gali Mein Phir Mujhe Ek Baar Ley Chalo,
Deewana Keh Ke Logon Ney Har Baat Taal Di, Duniya Ne Mere Paaon Mein Zanjeer Daal Di, Chaho Jo Tum To Mera Muqaddar Sanwar Do Yaaron Yeh Merey Paaon Ki Bedi Utar Do,
Us Ne Kiya Hai Milne Ka Iqrar, Ley Chalo.. Uski Gali Mein Phir Mujhe Ek Baar Ley Chalo
The Pathans live in Northern Pakistan and Afghanistan. The group is made up of some 60 Pushto-speaking tribes. The Pathans, also known as Pakhtuns, Pashtuns, Pushtuns, and Pakhtoons, number some 10 million in Pakistan and some 8 million in Afghanistan. They make up the largest ethnocultural group in Afghanistan.
The Pathans comprise distinct groups. Some live as nomads in the high mountains with herds of goats and camels; others, such as those living in the Swat Valley, are farmers; and still others are traders or seasonal laborers. However, this ethnographic description defies the fact that they constitute more than 20% of Pakistan's armed forces and dominate Pakistan's transportation industry and have provided the most popular Pakistani president Ayub Khan who lead the major industrialization movement which Pakistan has seen in the last 54 years.
The British attacked the Pathans in the late 19th and early 20th century. They were finally forced to offer the Pathans a semiautonomous area between the border of British India and Afghanistan. After the creation of Pakistan in 1947, the new nation annexed the Pathan border regions.
In the early 1950s, the Soviet Union through Afghanistan supported Pathan ambitions for the creation of an independent Pushtunistan (also called Pakhtunistan) in the border areas of West Pakistan. Several border clashes and ruptures of diplomatic relations between Afghanistan and Pakistan ensued. The movement was never able to gain popular support considering that Pathans in Pakistan were always better off than Pathans in Afghanistan.
Pathans also helped liberate the part of Kashmir which is now under Pakistan's control. Their support and hospitality to more than four million Afghan refugees was crucial in Afghan's liberation from the Soviet Union.
The Pathans are known as people who are brave, simple, and sincere in their dealings with others. They are noted as fierce fighters, and throughout history they have offered strong resistance to invaders. They staunchly hold on to their cultural traditions and connect with one another in a visceral way.
Most are guided by a tribal code of ethics, Pakhtunwali, or "way of the Pakhtun (Pathan)." Tribal customs and traditions make up the biggest part of the Pathan society. The tenets of Pakhtunwali show the true essence of Pathan culture and these rules are followed religiously. It incorporates the following major practices: "melmastia" (hospitality and protection to every guest); "nanawati" (the right of a fugitive to seek a place of refuge, and acceptance of his bona fide offer of peace); "badal" (the right of blood feuds or revenge); "tureh" (bravery); "sabar" (steadfastness); "imandari" (righteousness); "'isteqamat" (persistence); "ghayrat" (defense of property and honor); and "mamus" (defense of one's women).
Khattak Dance is a swift martial sword-dance performed by professional dancers from the Khattak tribe of Pashtuns in Afghanistan and Pakistan. It is not a Pashtun folk dance, as is widely believed, because Pashtun men do not enjoy dancing. The dance may also be confused with the classical Indian style of dance known as Kathak, but is quite different.
Khattak is a dance performed very quickly and is set to uptempo music featuring the piper, clarion, and drums beaten with sticks. Up to 40 men dance together wielding swords or handkerchiefs and performing acrobatic feats. The fast tempo of Khattak distinguishes it from other Atanr, which start slow and pick up speed as the dance progresses.
The Khattak dance has three forms: Shahdola, Bhangrha, and Bulbullah. These words are not found in the Pashto language, giving rise to the belief that the dance may have been "borrowed" from another culture. The dance comprises 12 steps, which require great skill on the part of the dancers. The dancer alternates between performing solo and syncronizing with the rest of the troupe.
In the Bhangrah, every member swirls while carrying swords. In the Derabi, two youths, each carrying a sword and a handkerchief, start dancing in front of a man with a surnai, while the rest of the troupe members wait for their turn. In the Laila, a group of four performers holding two swords each perform stunts while moving in a circle.
Braghoni is the fastest and the most adventurous of all steps in which a single dancer performs with three swords. He swings two swords in the air while holding the third in his mouth. Bulbullah is the last of the twelve steps and is staged without swords. The dancers sing a love song, instead of a martial song, at a high pitch, which is meant to convey to the audience that they would like to be tipped for their performance. At the end of the song, the drumbeat increases and the dance goes on.
A journalist of Pashtun origin, Amanullah Ghilzai, traced the roots of Khatak to an ancient Greek dance. According to his theory, Khatak, or Athan, is one of the earliest forms of the ancient Greek dance, "Athena". The Greeks brought this dance with them to Bactria, ancient Afghanistan. "Athan", or "Attan", has been preserved in one of its earliest forms by members of the Khatak and other Pashtun tribes, including the Ghilzais. There are many regional variations on Athan, but the name remains the same. In ancient Greece, Athena had the same definition and reverence attached to it as Pashtuns accord to Athan. Athena seems to have disappeared in Greece during the Christian era while Athan survived in Afghanistan and Pashtun parts of Pakistan.
Attan (Pashto: اتڼ) is a form of dance that originated in the Pashtun regions of Afghanistan and Pakistan. Attan began as a folk dance conducted by Afghans in the time of war or during wedding or other celebrations (engagement, new year and informal gatherings). Formerly a Pashtun ethnic dance, it is now considered the national dance of Afghanistan.
The performance of the attan dance in the open air has long been customary in the Afghan culture. Performed in a large circle to the accompaniment of drums and pipes, the dance begins slowly but grows in momentum for two or three hours without a break except for changes in tempo or changes in song. Its duration differs - anywhere from 5 to 25 minutes.
Modern Attan
Rubab
The rubab is a common lute-like instrument in NWFP and Afghanistan, and is the forerunner of the Indian sarod.[2] The rubab is called the "lion" of instruments in Pushtun Music. The rubab has a double-chambered body carved from mulberry wood and has three main strings and a plectrum made from ivory, bone or wood. The Rubab is still played and weddings and cultural performances in NWFP.
Chitrali Sitar
A Chatralay Sitar (Chitrali Sitar) is a very simple and old musical instrument with the most magical sound, directly influencing the solar plexus. It is not loud and can barely be heard in a mix of musical instruments, but heard being played and accompanied by Mangay, it is pure tranquility. Even though it is played over a vast region, including Afghanistan, parts of Iran and in two provinces of Pakistan, namely N.W.F.P. and Baluchistan, it carries the name "Chatralay Sitar", meaning the sitar from Chitral (a small but beautiful, and one of the north western-most areas of Pakistan bordering Afghanistan. Here I must say, that the most carefully manufactured and best sounding "Chatralay Sitars" do come from Chitral.
Shpelai
A Shpelai is a common bamboo flute used almost all over the world. It has a very special place in Pashto music and is loved by almost everyone, especially when faintly heard from far away in the quiet of a moon-lit summer night. It is frequently played by sheep herders, just like it has been played by sheep herders through thousands of years.
Sarinda
A Sarinda is an un-common stringed and bowed instrument. It has a very high pitched but enchanting sound and is commonly used in Pashto music. It is played while sitting on the ground just like most south Asian instruments. It is generally played joyously but can be played otherwise
Druzza
This instrument is without any doubt unusual, not just because the only person (Zarnosh) that plays it, has also invented it. But the whole instrument is two six inch wheat stems not even attached to one another. Both the stems are flattened on one end, (like a reed) and a constant flow of air is blown through the flattened ends. One of the stems has just three frets and the other has none. It is played by maintaining a pocket of air in the mouth which is blown into the stems and simultaneously taking in air through the nasal passage to maintain a constant sound. It sounds like an Indian snake charmer's wind instrument (Been)
Mangay
A Mangay is a receptacle used for the storage of water, and has been used as such for thousands of years. It has a wide belly with about a four inch opening at the neck. It is used as a musical instrument only when completely dry. It is played with the flat palm of one hand, trapping and releasing air in the Mangay, producing a booming sound, and with the other hand, softly striking its outside either with a finger-ring, a coin or a pebble. To produce a greater boom, a sheet of inner auto-tyre tube rubber is tightly tied onto the neck of the Mangay and is beaten with the hand like a drum. To further enhance the sound, it is accompanied by a "Chillum" (the base of a hubble-bubble or a waterpipe) into which water is poured, proportionate to sound desired, and is beaten with a soft shoe sole producing a sharper and higher pitched boom. Played together with a Chatralay Sitar is transcendental.
Dol/Dhol
A dol is a two-sided percussion instrument, which comes in many sizes. It is sometimes played by striking it with bare hands and sometimes with wooden sticks. It is widely used all over the Indian sub-continent. In Pashto-speaking areas, it is commonly used by the Khattak tribe, to a distinct beat, of which the Khattak dance is performed. It can be, and is used as a stand-alone instrument which accompanies wedding songs sung generally by women in the many thousands of villages and towns of south Asia.
Badala
Badala is a professional form of folk music and consists of an epic poem or a ballad. Instruments used include the Rabab, Harmonium, Drums and Tabla. In Badala, tribal traditions are the main theme as well as heroism, tragedies and romance. Badala consists of variations, because each couplet is varied in rhythms from other. It is sung traditionally at night.
Rubayi
Rubayi is a Pashto form of a Ghazal. The Rubayis of Rehman Baba are popular among the masses and is sung before the starting of Badala. As with the Ghazals, the Rubayi have been heavily influenced by Arabic, Persian and Turkish poetry.
Shaan
Shaan is sung during happiness such as marriages and or the birth of a child, and are sung in private congregations and social gatherings.
Loba
Loba is very popular among the masses and are added within Tappas occasionally. This is a form of folk music in which a story is told. It requires 2 or more persons who reply to each other in a poetic form. The two sides are usually the lover and the beloved (the man and woman).
Neemakai
Neemakai has many different forms and normally women compose it. It is usually very short (1 to 3 lines). The first lines are repeated in the middle of the song and Tappa is usually added according to the subject and circumstances. Most of these songs in Pashtoon culture have been expressed in different areas about daily life and love.
Charbeta
Charbetta is another popular genre, which consists of an epic poem with special rhythms. There are four kinds of Charbetta's. Normally, it's a poem of four lines but might also have six or eight lines. All aspects of life are discussed in it. That includes the heroic deeds and heroism by legendary figures and sometime expresses the romantic feelings. The tempo is usually very fast and is sung by two or more singers as part of a chorus in which ones singer reads the first line while the others follow the remaining. The singing or recitation of a Charbetta is called Tang Takore. Traditionally Charbetta is started just after the finishing of a Tappa.
Tappa
Tappa is the oldest and most popular genre of the Pashto poetry. The Tappa is a composition of two unequal meters, in which the first line is shorter than the succeeding one, yet it reflects all human feelings and aspirations elegantly. Be it laborers, peasants, or women all sentiments find expression in the Tappa. It is also common among the Pashtoons that a boy of school would sing it, the elders in their hujrahs, the women in their home and Godar alike. It is the only song sung in the time of grief and on the occasion of marriage. In music it is sung with the traditional Pashto musical instruments Rabab and Mangay. Tappa has up to 16 different models of harmony and is being sung with full orchestra. In hujrah it's sung with Rabab and Sitar.
Besides the Musical instruments mentioned above, there are many others, like Cheng, Dutara, Gungru, Naghara, Santoor, Surna, Tambal, etc. that are used in Pashto Music, including most European and eastern ones.
The famous Afghan girl Sharbat Gula belongs to an Afghan Tribe called the Pashtun.
Steve McCurry went to go find her after two decades only to track her down in a remote village. The young looking Sharbat at the time was on the front cover of National Geographic magazine and went on to become one of the most famous faces in the world. Steve captured this memorable photo of green-eyed Afghan girl at some refugee camp in Pakistan.Early life
In her early life Sharbat Gula was orphaned during the Soviet Union's bombing of Afghanistan and sent to the Nasir Bagh refugee camp in Pakistan in 1984. Her village was attacked by Soviet helicopter gunships sometime in the early 1980s. The Soviet strike killed her parents forcing her, her siblings and grandmother to hike over the mountains to the Nasir Bagh refugee camp in Pakistan.
In her Adult life she married Rahmat Gul in the late 1980s and returned to Afghanistan in 1992. Gula had three daughters: Robina, Zahida, and Alia. A fourth daughter died in infancy. Gula has expressed the hope that her girls will receive the education she was never able to complete.
The early picture in her life was taken in 1984 at the Nasir Bagh refugee camp in 1984, Gula's picture was taken by National Geographic photographer Steve McCurry on Kodachrome color slide film. Gula was one of the students in an informal school within the refugee camp; McCurry, rarely given the opportunity to photograph Afghan women, seized the opportunity and captured her image. She was approximately 13 years old at the time.
Although her name was not known, her picture, titled "Afghan Girl", appeared on the June 1985 cover of National Geographic. The image of her face, with a red scarf draped loosely over her head and with her piercing sea-green eyes staring directly into the camera, became a symbol both of the 1980s Afghan conflict and of the refugee situation worldwide. The image itself was named "the most recognized photograph" in the history of the magazine.
Dear Mr.Barak Obama you want to defeat Great Pashtoons (Pathan) with this Army? lol
"28-retired US generals and admirals have signed a letter to Congress asking that gays and lesbians in the American military be treated like first-class citizens. The group want Congress to repeal the "don't ask, don't tell" law.
President Bill Clinton wanted a total end to the ban on homosexuals serving in the US military but was forced to accept the "don't ask, don't tell" law as a compromise.
Among Democrats, Senators John Edwards and Barak Obama are strong supporters for scrapping the existing law. Obama compares it to the integration of blacks in the armed forces as both a moral issue and an achievable goal."
There is a saying that a person can get rich only in three ways: 1: One can inherit to get rich 2: One can steal to get rich 3: One can marry to get rich.
Zardari did all three ... though in opposite order what is mentioned above ... that is 3 ... 2 ... 1
3: He Started by marrying to get rich. 2: Then he with his wife stole the country dry to get rich. 1: In the end Zardari inherited his wife wealth to get rich.
Before reading the official list: .. Please see this video ... How he and his wife stole Pakistan and are world known for that (FOX NEWS).
[Person who helped him achieve this status ... Bibi BeNazir Bhutto ... ]
3 - Sir Anwar Pervaiz UK Ranking: 3 Worth: £750m ($1.5billion) Industry: Businessman
[but he is really British businessman ... so he should not count ... a twisting noise in the list]
4 - Nawaz Sharif & Shahbaz Sharif family Saudi Arabia/Pakistan Ranking: 4 Worth: £700m ($1.4billion) Industry: Politics/Businessman
[Person who helped him achieved this status: Zia-ul-Haq]
Rest are irrelevant. So this is Pakistan where ... people love choor and lotterays
Corrupts and Pakistan: The biggest problem of Pakistan ... be that security wise, strategic, economical, survival, development, progress, prosperity ... the problem is here:
We should know that ... a country can never develop or prosper if there is corruption. A corrupt is worse than traitor because a traitor 'MAY' harm the country but corrupt 'SURELY' harms the country. A traitor harms the country for money and corrupt do the same.
In the end ... a traitor cannot harm the country as much as corrupt and that is fact. If Pakistan has to go forward than we have to hang the corrupts .. and that is ... no question, no sympathy ... no chance.
Here is tribute (as in above vedio) by 'FOX NEWS' to one of the two biggest corrupt person Pakistan has ever seen, that is BaNazir Bhutto ... who along with Nawaz Shareef (another comparable corrupt Person Pakistan has ever seen) ... harmed the country more than any person has ever done or may ever do.
Please see the vedio and think ... do not enjoy but cry, as it is a shameful thing that how world news talk about Pakistani corrupts, icon of Pakistani democracy ... voice of Pakistani masses ... but I could not complain or say anything to 'Fox News' as what they said in the vedio is 100 percent true ... and it is us shameful Pakistanis who are so shameful that many of us still love them corrupts, fight with fellow Pakistanis and others for them, talk about them with good feelings and want them to come to power again and rule Pakistan (I really feel ashamed of such people).
So ... see the vedio (I do not know how long it would be there ... as it is possible that PPP with their corrupt money .. something they throw like water ... may try to block the vedio) ... but nevertheless, it is vedio of 'FOX NEWS':
As we all know, the Arab world is pretty reticent when it comes to discussing the private wealth of prominent families and individuals. By all means drive a fleet of $2m supercars, just don’t tell anyone how much you’ve got in the bank — or how you got it. And at the heart of this Arabic ‘omerta’ is Saudi Arabia: the Gulf’s biggest economy, but also its most opaque.
( 01 )HRH Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Bin Abdulaziz Alsaud is the world’s richest Arab and the Middle East’s most high-profile businessman. He has assumed an iconic status, his far-sighted investments in firms such as Citigroup, Apple and News Corporation having garnered a fortune that was at one point worth as much as $28bn. NET WORTH: $ 16.3 Billion
( 02 )Born in Ethiopia to a Yemeni father, Mohammad Hussein Al Amoudi was raised in Saudi Arabia and is today considered one of the largest foreign investors in Sweden and North Africa.He made his first fortune in construction and real estate before branching out into buying oil refineries in Morocco and Sweden — where he was honoured with the Royal Swedish Order of the North Star by King Carl XVI — and his native Ethiopia, where he bankrolls the national soccer team. NET WORTH: $ 8.8 Billion
( 03 )One of the most successful Arab businessmen, Mohamed Al Jaber has in fact made a name for himself by avoiding the speculative stock market of the Arab world. NET WORTH: $ 8.5 Billion
( 04 )Many on this list will have their own private mega yacht, but few will own one quite as spectacular as the Lady Moura. She is the pride and joy of Nasser Al Rashid, a man who is believed to be an influential advisor to the Saudi royal family, and is certainly one of the world’s richest Arabs, even according to our most conservative estimate.Al Rashid has owned the 344-foot Lady Moura since her launch in 1990, when he paid around $200m for the privilege.Her name is etched on the stern of the ship, carved in 24 carat gold, while her tenders include a 48-foot San Juan sailboat and a Sikorsky S76B helicopter. She is rumoured to have a garage with a Boston Whaler, Ski Nautic boat, and Venetian Taxi, while she also boasts a sand-covered, retractable platform that slides out from her side just above the water line, to create a carry-along sandy beach.On land, the founder of Rashid Engineering was once married to socialite Mouna Ayoub, and is currently married to a Belgian-Algerian woman. An alumnus of the University of Texas, he donated the 20,000 sq ft Dr Nasser Al Rashid Strength and Training Centre to the university. NET WORTH: $ 8 Billion
( 05 )Titans of the Gulf construction industry, the Bin Laden family is pressing ahead with a series of high-profile projects through its Saudi Bin Laden Group (SBG). NET WORTH: $ 7 Billion
( 06 )The Olayan Group began as a trucking concern in 1947. In 1954 its founder, Suleiman Olayan, launched General Trading Company, the group’s food and consumer distribution business and was instrumental in bringing commercial insurance to Saudi Arabia, founding Arab Commercial Enterprises — which went on to become the region’s largest insurance and reinsurance broker. NET WORTH: $ 6.9 Billion
( 07 )Sulaiman Al Rajhi is chairman of Al Rajhi Bank, Saudi Arabia’s largest Islamic bank, established by royal decree in 1988. The bank’s origins date back to the 1940s when it started operating as a money changer in the Kingdom. Today, its operations include retail, corporate and investment banking. NET WORTH: $ 5.2 Billion
( 08 )Issam Al Zahid is chairman of the Alzahid Group of Companies, launched in 1951 with Alzahid Construction.At that time, the firm was involved in town planning, as well as the construction of buildings, roads, and other facilities. It also had the honourable distinction of being the first company to build coast guard stations along the shoreline of Saudi Arabia. By 1958 the company was in full swing, building everything from bridges to tunnels and flyovers — indeed much of the basic transport infrastructure upon which the Kingdom still relies.Today, the diversified conglomerate has over 30,000 employees and significant interests in mining, logistics, oil and gas, industry, manufacturing, IT, foodstuffs, retail and many other sectors. NET WORTH: $ 5.1 Billion
( 09 )Established in 1945, the Abdul Latif Jameel Group (ALJ), and its president Mohamed are legends not just in Saudi Arabia, but across the Middle East.Today, ALJ is the world’s largest Toyota dealership with operations in the Middle East, UK, Central Asia and China. It is also active in the fields of real estate, financing, software solutions, advertising and media, and distribution and sales of electronics and household appliances. ALJ employs more than 10,000 people worldwide with around 2,000 in the UK alone, and the group also operates Saudi Arabia’s largest consumer finance company. Jameel has also funded a gallery showcasing more than 10,000 Islamic artefacts at London’s Victoria and Albert Museum. NET WORTH: $ 5 Billion
( 10 )Over the last 40 years Saleh Kamel has built an empire on the back of his close relationship with the Saudi government, and his company now incorporates investments of billions of dollars across 40 countries.During the oil boom of the 1960s, Kamel put his company forward for a string of infrastructure contracts, so helping turn the government’s vision into a reality. The successful delivery of roads, pipelines and sewerage networks led to a contract to maintain the pilgrimage sites and Holy Mosques of Mecca and Medina, and public works continued with the Dallah Avco Trans Arabia Company, which was responsible for building and maintaining Saudi’s airports. NET WORTH: $ 4.9 Billion