I had a problem with him and should have went to him, period. I'm impressed and grateful he did not post anything negative in return. Over the years I have gotten to know him and I feel like a big fat idiot. Sure I was going through things and it's generally in my passive aggressive culture's nature to do such things, no excuse.
The same thing that can bother me about him (picking at me a bit ) also helps me immensely. He has been a very good friend to me and although his methods I wasn't sure about at first for helping me work through some personal things, I'm eternally grateful for now.
I imagine if he does or did see this, he'd say it's no big deal, but I disagree. Some of the simplest things I did not see in myself I was able to take a good look at and it is thanks to Lorenzo. One example: in conversation I would always speak of my ex's and stories relating to other people all the time, I didn't really talk about 'me'.
I realized I felt I had to give 'credit' to where the source was from which some knowledge I had or gained came from or go on about ex's (because still had emotional baggage there but masked it as conversation) or friends because I felt their life was more interesting than mine. Um, nope, it seems I'm weird enough all on my own to be interesting , it turns out
and no..really..no I didn't truly realize that. (I mean people call me weird and a dork all the time but I am just kinda used to it, I didn't really think that made me interesting at all)
So..I could site many more examples but I'm not quite as personal on this blog as you may tend to believe, some would be just too personal.
So , on that note, regardless of what anyone else may know or think, I Lorenzo and think he is a wonderful and good guy. Ok, enough of the mushy crap