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Happy Birthday Mom....

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Today is my Mom’s birthday – her birth certificate states she was born in 1931 so that makes her officially 75. That sounds ‘old’, but as I age I am finding that the definition of old is not a number. In my line of work I see people who both look and act old when they are in their 40’s and I see others in their 80’s and 90’s come striding in to the Lab wearing fashionable clothes, smiles on their faces and eager to make conversation. I want to be like them when I grow up. My Mom is like that. She is uncomplaining and generally a ‘modern’ woman.

She grew up in Winnipeg, the only daughter of two immigrants from northern Europe. Her father worked as a cook and her mother in the garment industry. She says she didn’t miss having other siblings – she had lots of cousins and didn’t ever have to share a bedroom. One of her first memories is her first day of school. Her father took her, dropped her off and left. This small 6 year old who didn’t speak a word of English. She managed to learn English and get through school but she admits she wasn’t much of a scholar. Sister San says she found Mom’s high school transcript a while back :devil: and she had barely passing grades. But… she did get an A in PE. Which is too funny to think of our Mom excelling in physical education – nowadays her idea of exercise is shopping!

Anyway, she did graduate from high school and hit the road soon after.

She and a girlfriend hitch hiked west to Calgary to start a new life. This was in the early 50’s. And get this – she got a job in a bank – someone who barely passed math. Now, I might make fun of my mom for her poor grades because in fact she is quite intelligent – she did the accounting for my Dad’s business for many years, she can complete very difficult crossword puzzles and can keep all her on-going contest entries straight in her head.

So, the things I love and admire about my Mom:

-she was always a stay – at – home mother


-she made the best desserts

-she made home made bread





-she learned to drive only a few years before me:yikes:
-she let me make my own mistakes :cool:
-she made all of my clothes while I lived at home – even matching panties for my micro mini dresses! :eyes:
-She successfully raised 4 children even though she says we were all accidents:eyes:
-She can program a VCR :up:
-She started playing video games as soon as they got a computer –Leisure Suit Larry, I think. It was quite something to have her grandchildren phone her up to ask how to get to the next level of a game.
-She grows the most amazing flowers, saving seeds year to year to scatter about
-She is the ‘contest queen’ :queen:
-Amazingly, she doesn’t have a belly button :D

Anyway Mom,
I love you:cheers: and Happy Birthday :hat:

Remembering...

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Ordinary things bring many memories. Today is a bright sunny day so I decide to hang laundry up on the clothesline I have in my garden.
I remember bringing in very frozen clothes for my mother – my father’s pants so stiff they could stand up by themselves. I remember hanging my baby’s diapers out on a long line – each one looking like a kite flying in the wind. And then bringing them in again all snowy white from being bleached by sunlight and smelling so fresh. I remember traveling in Asia with Sanshan and seeing all the laundry hanging from lines from balconies.

I remember looking at a neighbor’s laundry on the line – so organized – all the socks facing the same way, all the underwear together, all the towels at one end…I was envious – an organized clothesline = ?? an organized life.
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