Bella' Blog

When asked, all we all want that love is unique, is eternal. But sometimes reality evolutions of the opposite. One day, suddenly one of them no longer feel love again and to tell her. Thousands of people have taken the breakup really gentle, natural and simple. But for many people, it was so heavy and difficult to accept.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone significant to you, to finally realize that he was not born to you and can only go to him ...

Do not try to extend if your lover to tell her. Let him go, do not try to hook people to stay. Do not turn yourself into a miserable man in the eyes of him. You should know that life is a myriad of ways, there are thousands of doors. So, when this door closes another door is opened. What you should do is stop waiting, stop standing before the door closed forever to the pain that rodents find an open door for you.

I know, do all that it's difficult when you are "abandoned." Are you still love and can not understand why his rejection, you do not accept that fact. I used to like that. It all upset and I never had any preparation to receive it. So, I was suffering and traumatized.

Naturally, the first reaction in this situation we are trying to hook and "change" the situation. But certainly what we get only lukewarm attitude, hiding, even cruel of him ... As a result, you will fall into the mood of despair, suffering and negative reactions to yourself. You get upset, grief, in my heart always has a heavy weighted stone, you become everyone should be skeptical, fearing they will encounter someone like that again ...

On it, in a moment, I realized that when I'm pain free "tortured" her, the man was quickly forgotten about me, found a new love and are very happy. I lost my balance, lost faith in love. Hostility, hatred filled my heart for making me into a world of melancholy, grief, and "self-destruction." Life goes on and I have wasted more than a few months because he broke.

When asked, no one desired breakdown occurred, but the loss of love lost and then, whether your fault no matter who they love can not continue to exist. Everything is a principle of life: the decline of this is the beginning of a new, better. Love lost, despite what you may regret it can not return. The past is behind your back, you went through, can not go back to pull it back toward you. But the future lies ahead, you can put out, pulling the future closer towards her. Although the love of two people sticking binds together the past 10 years is more reasonable period of time that he is only a very small part, a very short journey in your life. Period, but was really happy, "the happiest place is not the most peaceful place", all you need is a place of peace for your soul in life, so "where peace is most certainly where you find happiness. "

Do not blame each other do, do not hurt each other because if so, then your love has become so selfish and petty ... Do not ask why he changed again, do not love you anymore?! No longer simply a love of all love, that's all. You can not catch him and continue to love you even though he is not able to catch your heart to love when it was no longer little emotion with you.

If you are an active break, then do not panic, take time to prepare psychologically and the other, can not say goodbye is the absolute right things, see it as the shake off a coat. By doing that you were too selfish to only think about their feelings without empathy for others. Please do everything to the breakup did not cause severe damage to the person you've ever loved

Time the color will be a remedy to heal all wounds. And time will also help revive all my heart hurts, returns for its ability to love as early dau,you can be sure that: a lost love means you will have the opportunity to choose select a new love worthy, less mistakes than.