I want you to believe in what I believe, for I believe you can!
Life is infinitely better with a daily appreciation practice. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything, they just make the best of what they have.
MusicPlaylist at MixPod.comHi all ma friends =)!! I miss u all guys, long time not see in ya!!..So today i wanna share with u all one small story i got it from ma app phone called "INSPIRE_ME" I ALWAYS TRY READ SMTHING NEW FROM THIS APP, SOME INSPIRE ME ON ALL MA DAY...So I really liked it, there's something to think about! So read enjoy the music, think and share your thoughts! Hmm lets start to read =) Today's Quotation:
A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
BY: Erin Majors Today's Meditation:
And a teacher loses nothing by teaching another person. Many people have the mistaken idea that they somehow diminish themselves when they give to someone else, but nothing could be further from the truth. We are flames ourselves--lights in the darkness--and our flame diminishes not even the slightest bit when we share what we are with other human beings. If I give away money, the amount of money I have does diminish. But my spirit grows. If I give away part of my book collection or my record collection, then they grow smaller. But my soul grows richer. And I have found through experience that it is not until I am ready and willing to give things away without conditions attached that I am able to attract more of the same back to me. We do not receive until we are able to give, for the door of giving and receiving is the same door, and we have to unlock and open it from the inside. But those are material parts of our lives. How can we light someone else's candle with our own flame? Through encouragement, through teaching, through compliments and kind words--by being there to listen and by accepting them for who they are, exactly as they are. And not only do we lose nothing in lighting their candle, but our flame can grow more steady and more sure as we reach out and touch other people's lives. Our souls, just as two flames touching, burn brighter when they unite. And the aggregate light of the world will grow with every new candle that is lit, bringing more and more light to the darker places in this world we share.
"Good time are even better when they're shared"
Questions to consider:
Have you lit someone else's candle recently? How? How did it feel? Why do many people shy away from giving to other, even just encouragement or kind words? How can we increase the amount of light in the world?
For further thought:
Simply give others a bit of yourself; a thoughtful act, a helpful idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart, and put it into the other person's mind and heart.
from:InspireMe.com By:Charles H. BurrThank you for taking the time to visit my blog! SHARE UR THOUGHT HERE !! & DON'T BE SHY !!
Hi every one.. I don't know hw start this blog.. But i will try.. I think allot and I wanna talk about the "trust & love in relationship" ..I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and love and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it!! We human and we destroyed allot in our life... So Today i read Osho Quotes about "love & Trust" .. and i understood one thing .. That relationship of trust and love, are built from the first day of relations ... And then love with trust is like a magnet joined to the iron, it's like the magic of infinity, this indescribable feeling ... You feel lightness in love and trust ...But the wat if you say you can trust someone then u r admitting to something even greater then love. Trust involves all your thoughts and emotions to be given to someone so they can have. Trusting someone is knowing that you can be hurt so bad that none can even know. This is why trust is a word of great power. OSHO said: "The master loves, his presence is love. His very presence is magnetic. Without saying a word… just to be close to him, you will feel a certain pull, a certain love, a trust. The relationship with the master is not of the same category as all other relationships. It is intrinsically different. It is love, but not only love. It is love with a center of trust. Love alone is unexplainable, and now it has joined hands with an even greater mystery. Trust is absolutely something of another world. In this world, there is distrust in everybody. Even in people who love each other, there is no trust. There are friends who can, if there is need, die for each other — but there is no trust." "I don't trust him." "You can't trust her." Broken trust is like Humpty Dumpty; it can never be put back together again. The dictionary definition of trust is the "firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character of a person or thing."
We speak about "love" all the time, but love without trust cannot exist. An old Irish saying states, "When mistrust comes in, love goes out."
Trust is a necessary factor in creating a long-term relationship. It is a necessity in marriage. Trust is something that must be earned.
A deep friendship will never form without trust. Each person must believe the other will not intentionally hurt him by using his own vulnerabilities against him; each must feel the other's respect for personal feelings and values; and neither is expected to "push buttons" to intentionally upset the other. This is the "safety factor" in a relationship.............. by: Karon Brandt But hw u think guyz, can u share with me ur thought plz !!
What Does “I Love You” Mean? BEFORE I START THIS NEW BLOG. I FOUND ONLINE VERY INTERESTING ARTICLE FOR ME & ALSO I WANNA SHARE WITH YOU GUYZ WITH THIS ARTICLE ... So read, enjoy with a muzik and also live ur thought what you think about a word " I LOVE YOU " WHEN SOME ONE SAID TO YOU ... *****
It is not enough to tell someone you love them on a regular basis if there is no passion and fire behind the statement. We often say the words, “I love you” without really feeling the meaning of them. Yeah we know the words mean, ”You matter to me… I care about what happens to you…. I think you’re pretty cool.” But there is so much more to it then that. When we are first falling in love, we think about the ideas of what that means. We analyze the relationship and each other. We really look at what is developing and we evaluate whether or not it is safe to say those three little words. It is a big deal to make the decision to say it to someone else. How will they receive it? Do they feel the same way? Will they say, “I love you, too” or will they mumble something about having a meeting they forgot about? After the relationship is going along successfully, we forget to really think about what it means to still be saying, “I love you” to the other person. Here’s an exercise for you that should help you rediscover what it means to say those words to someone. Think about tone and voice inflection. You can change the meaning of a sentence by which word you give extra punch to. “I love you” is different from “I love you” which is also different from “I love you.” Let’s look at each version separately.
When we say it as “I love you” one is reminded of when someone is depressed and thinks that nobody cares about them. We let the person know they are wrong by letting them know we want to be seen as the exception to that belief system. But take it a step further…. Who are you? What does it mean when YOU are the one saying that you love someone else. What does that entail? Who exactly is loving them?
When we say it as “I love you” then it means more then just “I like you” or “I want you” or “I admire you.” What does the word love mean to you? Are you using the right word? Maybe you really should be saying “I care about you” or “I love how I feel when I’m around you” or “I think you’re amazing.” Sometimes we just cluster a whole bunch of positive emotions together and put them under the umbrella word – love. So take some time and think about what that word means to you and how it is used.
When we say it as “I love you,” what comes to mind is someone being accused of wanting someone else and they adamantly reply, “No! I love YOU!” For this portion of the exercise, think about who it is you say those words to. Who are they really? Are they the same person today as they were when you first started saying it? If you met them on the street for the first time today, as they are now, would you still fall in love with them all over again? Do you still see them for who and what they are deep down inside or are you just saying the words to a memory of who they were when you first met them?
Finally, blend all of these concepts together in your mind. When you tell your partner that you love them, what is it you’re saying in it’s biggest fullest sense? Now write it all down. “I love you means….” You may only have one or two sentences or you may have pages and pages of words describing what it means for you to love that person. It is not important how much you have written, but that you have now reconnected yourself with the root of what it is the words “I love you” means to you. When you say it to your partner, you will say it with real passion and fire again because the meaning will be fresh in your mind. You won’t be simply repeating it on autopilot like so many of us do. Perhaps you will add a passionate kiss and even tell them about this exercise and what came to mind as you contemplated what it means to love them.
You could even ask your partner, “So tell me, what does it mean to you when you say the words, ‘I love you’ to me?” Give them time to think through their answers. Don’t pressure them. It’s a lot like the first time you tell someone that you love them…. you still have to put yourself out there and wait for the honest openhearted response that they give you. Just like with a new relationship, you can’t yell at them for not responding correctly or start nagging about how they ought to be more in touch with their feelings – especially their feelings about you. Perhaps it would be better to agree that you will each take pen and paper and spend some time alone thinking through what you would like to say to the other. Maybe you are both open enough to sit cuddled together on the sofa and share the free flowing thoughts that come to mind as you contemplate together what “I love you” means to you at this stage of your life together. The worst thing you can do is make it like a pop quiz in school where your partner feels like a big fight is going to occur if they don’t answer it correctly and in a timely manner. The author: by ~ Skye Thomas http://www.tomorrowsedge.net/what-does-i-love-you-mean.html
Another idea you could try is to write out your own thoughts about what it means to love your partner in your best handwriting and leave it for them as a love letter somewhere that you are sure they will find it. Even if they do not do the same for you, you may still find a deeper more meaningful response from them the next time you tell them those three magical words.
I wanna ask YOU ..........What does love mean to you?......... ~“So tell me, what does it mean to you when you say the words, ‘I love you’ to me?” ~...........What does love mean to you? So THING, SHARE WITH ME UR THOUGHT, YOUR ANSWER .......What does love mean to you? We talk about love all the time, but rarely do we sit down and think about what it is, and how our behavior helps us get more or less of the kind of love we desire.
How does platonic love differ from romantic love? How does the love we get from a parent differ from the love we get from a friend? Or a dog? Is love a feeling or a set of behaviors?
Most of the time we found mismatch in understanding by our heart and mind. We see something happening but still we don't want to believe it. It is just like storm hides the sky from our sight. We see only a storm at moment. Once storm calms down and we can see the beautiful sky again.
What we see from heart is just like pleasing sky and what we see from mind is harsh reality.
One of best friends put me in similar situation where my outlook towards him was totally different. He was rude, harsh, proud and strict whenever I see from my mind. But when I saw him from my inner deep feelings I found him my life's best teacher. I learn a lot about the world's realities. Probably whatever he did was purposefully. When I believed my heart, he was quite peaceful, helpful and kind person. Anyway till date I am in confusion. Let's hope for good! He was what my heard said!
Helen Keller said " The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
A newborn baby feels safe when he is with his mother. Why? It really doesn't take any help from mind. Heart functions first, minds understand later. That's why Frank Lloyd Wright says, " The heart is the first feature of working minds."
We all free whenever our hearts feel free. We are similar to newborn baby. Vernon Baker defines home through heart. " Where is home? Home is where the heart can laugh without shyness. Home is where the heart's tears can dry at their own pace."
Understanding comes from heart and not from mind. When our mind makes us selfish, heart makes us generous. "See from another's point of view" - is taught by our heart. Mind just takes our points while making decision. Heart touches and feels other heart and makes true decision.
Roberta Sage Hamilton said "In our deepest moments of struggle, frustration, fear, and confusion, we are being called upon to reach in and touch our hearts. Then, we will know what to do, what to say, how to be. What is right is always in our deepest heart of hearts. It is from the deepest part of our hearts that we are capable of reaching out and touching another human being. It is, after all, one heart touching another heart."
Heart is a platform from where we start loving someone. I start thinking of my lovely days that I spent with my sister. Every one of us loves someone. Say you love your parents, wife, children, brother, sister or if nothing then your cat or dog. Work out an exercise. Think of someone you love most. You try to recall each and every pleasant moment you spent with you loved once. You will feel good. Your face will start smiling. You can touch your deeper heart feeling when you focus to your heart. You may think from your mind but smiling and happiness departure from your heart.
It is felt that we put ourselves in problems getting weaken our heart. Any disturbance and unhappiness is also created from heart. Negative forces weaken our heart. Dr. Charles H. Mayo said "Worry affects the circulation, the heart, the glands, the whole nervous system, and profoundly affects heart action." When we cry, tears come from our eyes but in reality we cry from our heart rather eyes. If we want to stop such forces, we need to spread positive forces of happiness over our hearts always. There is a Chinese saying. "If I keep a green bough in my heart, then the singing bird will come." Living life in great sense is to keep our heart garden green.
"One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter" says James Earl Jones. We find ourselves dumb and stupid if we fail expressing our feelings. Even those who are good communicators face such problems. This is because feelings rise from heart. Love, emotions and feelings are heard to express since having their deep relations with our heart.
Anything that results from heart is likely to be strong and tough. If you can't utter, understand it. Think from your heart before making any decision. Mind is part of human body. Heart is part of soul. Ralph Waldo Emerson said "What your heart thinks is great, is great. The soul's emphasis is always right." All physical things have relations with human body. Soul is independent from every material thing in the world. Heart connects human body to soul that enables human life. So next time no need to think much just believe your heart. Chandogya Upanishad says, "There is a light that shines beyond all things on earth, beyond the highest, the very highest heavens. This is the light that shines in your heart". That light or soul is nothing but great divine.
Charles Chestnut said, "The workings of the human heart are the profoundest mystery of the universe. One moment they make us despair of our kind, and the next we see in them the reflection of the divine image." By: Jay C http://www.buzzle.com
I hope you enjoyed this post and were inspired by it. So leave your comment & SHARE your thought, don't be shy
Our lives are made up of a million moments, spent in a million different ways. Some are spent searching for love, peace and harmony. Others are spent surviving day to day. But there is no greater moment than when we find that life — with all its joys and sorrows — is meant to be lived one day at a time. There are so many people out there who will tell you that you can't. what you've got to do is turn around and say "watch me" You think that I can't live without your love You'll see, You think I can't go on another day. You think I have nothing Without you by my side, You'll see Somehow, some way **** You think that I can never laugh again You'll see, You think that you destroyed my faith in love. You think after all you've done I'll never find my way back home, You'll see Somehow, someday ***** All by myself I don't need anyone at all I know I'll survive I know I'll stay alive, All on my own I don't need anyone this time It will be mine No one can take it from me You'll see ***** You think that you are strong, but you are weak You'll see, It takes more strength to cry, admit defeat. I have truth on my side, You only have deceit You'll see, somehow, someday ***** All by myself I don't need anyone at all I know I'll survive I know I'll stay alive, I'll stand on my own I won't need anyone this time It will be mine No one can take it from me You'll see You'll see, you'll see
Hi ppl i don't know why i start this blog, Inspire Me .. Maybe because yesterday i read one wonderful Quotation from my cellphone APP " When you live in the past, with its mistakes and regrets, it is hard. I am not there. My name is not "I was." When you live in the future, with its problems and fears, it is hard. I am not there. My name is not "I will be." When you live in this moment, it is not hard. I am here. My name is "I Am."by:~Helen Mellicost ... After this Quota i start think on this word.. But it is true that some people live in past time, sоmе in mеmоry, some have in their life problem, sоmе loose love, sоmе loose close one, sоmе live in a future etc.. But life goz on & (and) if ur heart still "bomm bomm bomm" u still alive!! Get up!! Stop live with past time, stop live with future, start live this day, begin to live this time, as you woke up started a new life, each day a little bit of joy, because you can breath , because your heart beats make "bomm bomm" every day & night , and you can feel breeze, and you can see every day, sunset and sunrise ! Just call to your mother & father, say how you love them, say thank you to them for your life ...It dozen't meter hw old are you, even u are 16 or 100, if your parents still alive, call them and say thank you for their love to you... Add a little color into your life and life to your closest one "parents, brother or sister, friends or ur X love etc .... Because life this is OCEAN... How saying one wise man Epes Sargent about life in his Quotes "Life on the Ocean Wave. " ~
A life on the ocean wave!
A home on the rolling deep,
Where the scattered waters rave,
And the winds their revels keep!
QUOTES; by ~ Epes Sargent (1813–1881)"
PS: I am so sorry about my English & my mistakes in writing lol Let's continue thinking about us .. About our emotions, depression, and why we often live in the past, and sometimes the future and not try to live this day ... All I want to share with you next, it's not my thoughts and my words .. These words from my cellphone APP "inspire me" .. From reading, I was inspired and I began to look at my life differently ...
Today's Meditation:
Over the course of my life--in all the reading and research and living that I've done--the concept that is the most dominant in respect to living a full life is that of living in the present moment. As this new year gets going, my hope is that I'm able to learn even better just what it means to live in the present without letting the past or the future interfere with my current experiences. I'm really glad that Helen wrote these words--for they definitely help me to envision the concept of living in the "now" in a completely different way. I am. Right here, right now. I may have dreams and desires of how things will be, but those ideas are caught somewhere in the future. I've been with many people who are so wrapped up in what they want to be "someday" that they don't focus much on what they are right now. I've watched them go through much surprise and dismay as time rolled on and they haven't become what they were sure they would be. There are many things that have happened in everyone's past that could cause them to be resentful and unhappy if they let them. But if I were to focus on what was, it's very hard to see what is. I've known people who are able to talk only of their pasts--every conversation is about what happened in the ago. They aren't able to learn too well the lessons that life is giving to them right now because their minds are still on yesterday or yesteryear. "I am." That's not just the name of God in the Bible--that's a description of each one of us who lives on this planet right now. I don't want to live my life focusing on what I will be, or what I was. I am. Here and now. Here I am. What am I going to do with that?
Questions to consider:
Why is it hard to live in the past or future? How can we learn from our past mistakes and aspire to become more in the future by living in the right now? What kind of beautiful things full of potential are within your reach right now?
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For further thought:
"I've stopped thinking all the time of what happened yesterday. And stopped asking myself what's going to happen tomorrow. What's happening today, this minute, that's what I care about. I say: 'What are you doing at this moment, Zorba?' 'I'm sleeping.' 'Well, sleep well.' 'What are you doing at this moment, Zorba?' 'I'm working.' 'Well, work well.' 'What are you doing at this moment, Zorba?' 'I'm kissing a woman.' 'Well, kiss her well, Zorba! And forget all the rest while you're doing it; there's nothing else on earth, only you and her!'" exceprt from Zorba the Greek
By:~ Nikos Kazantzakis
Different people define love in different ways. For some it's passion, for others love means loyalty, compassion, giving, friendship on fire. What's your definition of love between adults? And how do you know when you are in love? Share your wisdom on the meaning of love here.
At some stage in life most of us will ask ourselves: How do I avoid costly mistakes in life? Do we know the answer? I doubt it. Life is unpredictable and consequently, there is no prescription for not making mistakes! In fact, avoiding mistakes is a stepping stone to peace of mind, but the question is still there: How to avoid mistakes?
In every loss in every lie In every truth that you’d deny And each regret and each goodbye was a mistake to great to hide And your voice was all I heard That I get what I deserve
So give me reason to prove me wrong to wash this memory clean Let the floods cross the distance in your eyes Give me reason to fill this hole connect the space between Let it be enough to reach the truth that lies Across this new divide...
Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. Unless it's a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from. Al Franken, "Oh, the Things I Know" For some people the right answer could be: Mistakes are an inevitable part of life. We need to try our best, hoping that we won’t make costly mistakes. For the others, the right answer is: Obviously nobody wants to make mistakes, but, unfortunately everybody will make mistakes at some time or another in their life. Life without mistakes is impossible.
As we already agreed, mistakes are inevitable, therefore the next question could be: How to handle mistakes? People handle their own mistakes differently, depending on their character, attitude and personality.
If you think about how to handle the situation when mistakes occurred, try this approach: -Accept the situation - that you made a mistake. -See if you can undo whatever is possible. If you can, then do it immediately. -Forgive yourself for making mistakes. -Learn from your mistake; mistakes are our teacher. Analyze what you did wrong and take steps to make sure you don’t make the same mistake next time. -Despite mistakes, stay positive - an optimist; and take pride in what you have done well. I have learned throughout my life as a composer chiefly through my mistakes and pursuits of false assumptions, not by my exposure to founts of wisdom and knowledge. Igor Stravinsky (1882 - 1971) Talking about making mistakes, we must say: Admitting mistakes is a challenge for all of us, and it takes courage to do that. People who know how to deal with mistakes are people who possess a great sense of personal responsibility. These people will admit when they’ve made mistakes and accept their responsibility for making mistakes. They won’t blame life or circumstances for their mistakes. Honestly, how many of us will admit: Yes, I made mistake and I’ll take responsibility for it? Definitely not so many.
If we believe we will feel better for not taking personal responsibility, we’re simply wrong. Not accepting our mistakes will make us worse, not better, or less guilty. Maybe you don’t trust that statement? You have a choice and the responsibility to take whatever course you want. Accepting our responsibility for making mistakes doesn’t mean we need to feel down, inadequate or incompetent. No; everyone has made mistakes at some point of life. Mistakes are part of the human experience and also an opportunity for learning and growing.
From the view point of many spiritually oriented people, our attention should be on how we respond to mistakes. What makes the difference is how we keep our peace of mind, despite making mistakes. How do we teach ourselves that optimism and a meaningful life are independent of external circumstances? Happiness depends upon our state of mind and is not related to our status in life or our income.
Therefore, our focus shouldn’t be only on how to avoid mistakes and the turmoil in the world, but on the needs of our soul. The soul holds the truth and meaning, accomplishment and greatness. Fulfillment in every aspect of life, which includes the spiritual, the mental, the emotional and the physical, can bring peace in our life. Satisfaction with life will come not just from avoiding mistakes, but also from our attitude. Attitude will make a difference in how we see reality. Doing something that gives us pleasure and meaning will give us life satisfaction. If your current situation does not provide you with meaning or pleasure, be sure to include some meaningful engagement in your life. If inner peace is within us, why are we looking for inner peace in the external world? We can create our inner peace of mind with our own actions. Just remember where your inner peace is located and admit to yourself that we cannot control everything in life.
Searching for meaning is actually searching, acting and knowing your own virtues. Start with your positive thoughts; create an active and meaningful life now, when you‘re, hopefully healthy, not when you are already depressed or sick.
As we know, there is a connection between the mind and the body. The mind-body connection is crucial for our physical health. When we feel happy and joy, the whole body literally feels sensations of happiness and joy, which is actually a result of "happy chemicals". We feel pleasure, satisfaction and joy because of chemicals. This is the mind -body connection at work.
If we wish to feel happy and satisfied we shouldn’t forget friendships. It’s important that we share our feelings with our friends. Our friends are there for us to give us support in tough times. Not just support, but a different perspective on things when we need it the most. Even if we make mistakes in life, our friends are there at every step of the way until we reach our goal.
Everybody, at some time or another, will feel inner conflict due to mistakes in life. How do I avoid costly mistakes in life? BY: Jahiel Yasha Kamhi http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-avoid-costly-mistakes-in-life.html If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down. Mary Pickford (1893 - 1979 Mistakes, obviously, show us what needs improving. Without mistakes, how would we know what we had to work on? By: Peter McWilliams The greatest mistake is trying to be more agreeable than you can be. Walter Bagehot (1826 - 1877) If I had to live my life again, I'd make the same mistakes, only sooner.
Why is love important? Why do people say it's overrated? Surely, there is something about it that we miss in our way of life. Surely, we don't read in between all those moments and those smiles. To know what love means and how important it is, for everyone, read the following article.
Love is... That First Meeting By The Water Cooler Remember the first time you both met. Wasn't that a beautiful moment? Didn't you immediately feel that there was something special happening to you? How many such special moments have passed since then? Love is important because it gives you such special moments to smile and laugh throughout your life. Love brings in happiness into your life and the company of a special one, that lasts forever. Love is important because, without love, our life would lack such special moments and days, because our life would be incomplete. Life becomes a wonderful journey when it passes through these brilliant memories. Love is... Your Secret Weapon Love is important because it gives you strength to fight weakness. It helps you survive the bad times with a smile on your face. It helps you fight that every negative emotion which shouldn't exist in your life. Love is important because it can kill a thousand worries with one smile, with one hug. Love can fight the entire world with values of faith and belief. Love is important because it brings people to together, to unite. It stays on your side when luck says goodbye and walks by. Love stays with you even when you're defeated, only to make you stronger and try again, not being disheartened. In the end love will win, something we all believe in, isn't it? Love is... A Necessity, Not a Luxury Love is important because it is a necessity and all necessities are important. Love is something that will happen to you even if you don't want it. Without love, you can survive but with love, you can learn how to live. Have you ever felt what it is to go weak in your knees and experience the thunder bolt? Once in a lifetime, everyone experiences it. We all have to live with that one someone being the social animals we are. Today or tomorrow, that one someone will walk by and you'll connect just like magnets do. Can it happen more than once?! Yes, it can happen as many times as you want it to. You just need that basic instinct to hit the bulls eye. Love is... Supporting Each Other in Old Age Love is important because it assures you a better tomorrow. It promises a future with happiness and contentment. Love makes us feel that no matter how old we become, we'll always have one another. Love is thinking she'll look more beautiful at 80. Love is telling her how gray hair makes her look pretty. Love is, knowing you'll have someone to praise you and give you attention even when you have less number of teeth and speed that of a snail. Love promises a support for a lifetime, even when the bones fail with theirs. Love is to know that someone will wish you good morning and goodnight every single day.
Love is... A Sign That Spring Can't Be Far Away Love is important because it teaches you to hope. It teaches you that when bad times are here, good times are on their way. Love is when you smile through your tears. Love is when you learn to see the silver lining. Love is when sadness doesn't affect you because you know happiness can't leave you for long. Love is when a hug assures you that everything is going to be fine. Love is important because it gives you a high when times are low. Love teaches you to have patience for the good and some more of it for the best. Love tells you that even though winters are bad, they're here to only make way for the spring.
Now that you know why love is important and so necessary in life, you would perhaps never want to let go of it. Next time you fight with your loved one, remember what is more important, the love or the fights. If one feeling can give us so much to look forward to in life, it's only right that we respect it and cherish it. Treasure love if you have it as those who don't, often die for it!
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Today's Quotation:
A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
BY: Erin Majors 
Today's Meditation:
And a teacher loses nothing by teaching another person. Many people have the mistaken idea that they somehow diminish themselves when they give to someone else, but nothing could be further from the truth. We are flames ourselves--lights in the darkness--and our flame diminishes not even the slightest bit when we share what we are with other human beings. If I give away money, the amount of money I have does diminish. But my spirit grows. If I give away part of my book collection or my record collection, then they grow smaller. But my soul grows richer. And I have found through experience that it is not until I am ready and willing to give things away without conditions attached that I am able to attract more of the same back to me. We do not receive until we are able to give, for the door of giving and receiving is the same door, and we have to unlock and open it from the inside. But those are material parts of our lives. How can we light someone else's candle with our own flame? Through encouragement, through teaching, through compliments and kind words--by being there to listen and by accepting them for who they are, exactly as they are. And not only do we lose nothing in lighting their candle, but our flame can grow more steady and more sure as we reach out and touch other people's lives. Our souls, just as two flames touching, burn brighter when they unite. And the aggregate light of the world will grow with every new candle that is lit, bringing more and more light to the darker places in this world we share.
"Good time are even better when they're shared"
Questions to consider:
Have you lit someone else's candle recently? How? How did it feel? Why do many people shy away from giving to other, even just encouragement or kind words? How can we increase the amount of light in the world?
For further thought:
Simply give others a bit of yourself; a thoughtful act, a helpful idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart, and put it into the other person's mind and heart.
from:InspireMe.com By:Charles H. Burr
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