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Outrage of bereaved mother at Brown's misspelled letter.

Outrage of bereaved mother at Brown's misspelled letter

Jenny Booth

The mother of a soldier who was killed in Afghanistan has accused Gordon Brown of disrespecting her son’s memory by misspelling their surname in a letter of condolence.

Jacqui Janes, whose son Jamie, 20, of the 1st Battalion The Grenadier Guards, was killed by an explosion on October 5, received a hand-written note from Mr Brown, which began: “Dear Mrs James”.

After reading reports of her outrage, Mr Brown personally contacted Mrs Janes this morning to assure her that he had not meant any disrespect and had no intention of causing offence, Downing Street said today.

Mrs Janes, whose Grenadier Guardsman son was aged 20 when he was killed by an explosion on October 5, received a hand-written note from Mr Brown, which began: "Dear Mrs James".


Mrs Janes, 47, told the Sun newspaper: "He couldn’t even be bothered to get our family name right. That made me so angry.

"Then I saw he had scribbled out a mistake in Jamie’s name.

"The very least I would expect from Gordon Brown is to get his name right. The letter was scrawled so quickly I could hardly even read it and some of the words were half-finished. It’s just disrespectful."

In total, said Mrs Janes, there were 20 mistakes in the letter, which was only four sentences long.

"In the days after Jamie's death I got letters from Prince Philip, Buckingham Palace, the Defence Secretary and his regiment. They were all written from the heart and made me feel Jamie's death was important to them," she added.

"Then I got Gordon Brown's. I only got through the first four lines before I threw it across the room in disgust."

A spokesman for No10 said the Prime Minister had spoken to Mrs Janes this morning and assured her that he did not intend any offence when he spelt her son's name wrongly.

“As soon as the Prime Minister was told about this he personally contacted the mother to make absolutely clear that he never meant any offence and to underline his deepest sympathy for her, his complete admiration and thanks for the bravery and sacrifice of her son and he said he would do whatever he could to help her at this most difficult of times,” the Downing Street spokesman said.

Earlier, Downing Street insisted that the Prime Minister took a great deal of time writing letters of condolences.

"The reason he personally writes to every family is to acknowledge the debt of gratitude owed by the country to those who have died to protect the people of Britain. He would never knowingly misspell anyone’s name."

Asked about the controversy, Ed Miliband, the energy secretary, told the BBC that Mr Brown would be horrified at having caused offence.

"I think anyone who sees Mrs Janes's upset will very much regret what she is feeling," said Mr Miliband.

"And I'm sure the Prime Minister will feel that he intended to offer her some little comfort at the most difficult time for her. I'm sure he will be very upset himself at the upset she's feeling."

The Prime Minister also angered some veterans by failing to bow his head as he laid a wreath at the Cenotaph in Whitehall on Remembrance Sunday.

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I USED TO TEND TO THE EVERY NEED OF MY HOUSE GUESTS - FRENCH BULLDOGS - SNUGGY(ESTER) AND MR BOOTS(BILLY)

These creatures arrived in my life once from outer space. Snuggy(Ester)sadly died - old age but Mr Boots(Billy)is still alive, well and very busy being a very naughty boy! ...




I LOVE POKER DICE - DON'T YOU?

In poker, players construct hands of five cards according to predetermined rules, which vary according to which variant of poker is being played. These hands are compared using a hand ranking system that is standard across all variants of poker; the player with the highest-ranking hand winning that particular deal in most variants of poker. In some variants the lowest-ranking hand can win or tie.

Although used primarily in poker, these hand rankings are also used in some other card games, and in poker dice.



And if you are interested here is a list ( in card format) for the various permutations of game dice throws ...



Great game - hope you enjoy it too ...

SOME TIME AGO ...

Some time ago I would drink too much. This developed into a drinking problem. I sought help initially through my Doctor(GP) who's years of experience(I say this sarcastically) told him to have me sectioned. I realised his cunning plan and extricated myself from the "system" smartly and phoned "Drink-line". The next night I was at Alcoholics Anonymous. AA made no sense to me at all. Although I stayed for over three years I went to simply to occupy my life and break my habit. Looking back the habit was broken after about two weeks. Make a note of that!

I left AA and quite quickly life improved. I decided to drink again another two and a half years later. I put my recovery(I hate that word if used as a term) to meeting L - she is absolutely gorgeous and we are still together. AA was simply the trigger to change - and I will always be grateful for that. I have found that I had learnt from the past and can drink with control and moderation.

The reason for this piece is the experience or put it better the cyber experience I had on-line and the wacky nutters I met in cyber space who hate AA. Oh boy the are quite the weirdest people I've met for some time - weirder than some of the folks in AA. Presumably as there are thousands of contentious issues discussed on line then these folks are not alone.

About 90% of the individuals I encountered in the Anti-AA arena suffer from something I will call Chronic Politically Thin-skinned Syndrome(CPTS), and it's no joke. In fact disagreement is verboten. The progress and symptoms are best described like this ...

There are two sides to every issue: one side is right and the other is wrong, but the middle is always evil. The man who is wrong still retains some respect for truth, if only by accepting the responsibility of choice. But the man in the middle is the knave who blanks out the truth in order to pretend that no choice or values exist, who is willing to sit out the course of any battle, willing to cash in on the blood of the innocent or to crawl on his belly to the guilty, who dispenses justice by condemning both the robber and the robbed to jail, who solves conflicts by ordering the thinker and the fool to meet each other halfway....

When men reduce their virtues to the approximate, then evil acquires the force of an absolute, when loyalty to an unyielding purpose is dropped by the virtuous, it's picked up the scoundrels—and you get the indecent spectacle of a cringing, bargaining, traitorous good and a self-righteously uncompromising evil.


You will be labelled a troll for having the temerity to disagree and challenge the bullshit they ardently believe in. However they will troll and gang-stalk AA sites to stir up trouble. They will also reverentially refer to one member at least as the great all-seeing eye, a font of all knowledge; their Guru. I found this person to be the funniest - whereas I have learnt that a self-deprecating attitude is an asset - woe-betide trying to get this person to laugh at themselves. Don't hold your breath. It's always difficult to see the light when one's head is stuck up one's backside - don't you agree?

Another example where it is difficult for me at least to empathise or sympathise with for that matter - is the public school junky bore These guys are great. Mummy and Daddy spent an awful amount of money on their offspring only for them to spend years whining about the cure for their troubles year on year. You see give somebody the means and they will abuse it in some cases. The best joke is that as AA/NA is free they spend thousands on re-hab and then sit with us plebs months later boasting/whining about their £5000/wk re-hab bills.

I can go on but I think you'll get bored. If you think you have or know somebody with a substance or drink problem follow my links in my sidebar. The choice is all yours or theirs ...

Good luck.

Rob - just an ordinary Rob.

ELECTRIC CIRCUS 1977 - I WAS THERE - MANCHESTER'S PUNK VENUE. COLLYHURST

THESE WERE THE DAYS ~ GREAT DAYS AND NIGHTS ...

BILLY MACKENZIE - RIP - THE ASSOCIATES

Billy it was really nothing - you were really something ... RIP Billy ... wherever you are ...