"HAVING SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS IS A GREAT BLESSING FOR OURSELVES. BEING SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS IS A GREAT BLESSING TO OTHERS"
Saturday, 10. October 2009, 03:56:17
"So true and yet we do not seem to grasp the idea of understanding each other, of being there for each other. Why you may ask? Because we are to busy. Think about about it, most of the time we do not take time for ourselves, let alone try to understand the needs of others, especially of those who we are suppose to love or at least care about it. That is the reason why we need each other, whether is to listen, to lend a hand, or just to be there in the stillness of the night. Because we care, because we understand, because we dare to love those who are around us, or those who are still in our memories. Actually those are the ones that understand the most,it is them that we take our most inner deepest secrets because they know us from the inside out, and understand where we are coming from. In sorrow, in joy, in happiness, in tribulations, in victories, in satisfactions, in everything that we do we need UNDERSTANDING from family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, and those who filled our everyday life. When we give understanding we surely are able to get understanding. That is when we are BLESSED. WHEN TWO INDIVIDUAL REACH THAT GOAL AND ARE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND AND SHARE THAT WHICH IS PART OF THEIR LIFE IS TRULY A BLESSING.
WHEN WE HONESTLY ASK OURSELVES WHICH PERSON
IN OUR LIVES MEAN THE MOST TO US, WE OFTEN FIND THAT
IT IS THOSE WHO, INSTEAD OF GIVING ADVICE,SOLUTIONS,OR CURES,
HAVE CHOSEN RATHER TO SHARE OUR PAIN AND TOUCH OUR WOUNDS WITH A
WARM AND TENDER HAND. THE FRIEND WHO CAN BE SILENT WITH US IN A MOMENT OF DESPAIR
OR CONFUSION, WHO CAN STAY WITH US IN AN HOUR OF GRIEF AND BEREAVEMENT, WHO
CAN TOLERATE NOT KNOWING, NOT CURING, NOT HEALING AND FACE WITH US THE REALITY
OF OUR POWERLESSNESS, THAT IS A FRIEND WHO CARES. [HN]
As you see that is pure and simple understanding, something that only comes when true friendship exits and is kept alive amongst those who dare to care for each other. Remember even silence can be understood if we are willing to listen, but only true friends knows that when silence is golden it does mean something for the one who understand and remains watchful. Give UNDERSTANDING A CHANCE. You will be blessed with friendship as you would have never imagine. HOWEVER SOMETIMES UNDERSTANDING MIGHT COME WITH A PRICE BUT IS WORTH EVERY BIT OF IT IF YOU REALLY WANT TO TASTE TRUE FRIENDSHIP. Here is for those who are willing to give it a shot, thanks
WHEN WE HONESTLY ASK OURSELVES WHICH PERSON
IN OUR LIVES MEAN THE MOST TO US, WE OFTEN FIND THAT
IT IS THOSE WHO, INSTEAD OF GIVING ADVICE,SOLUTIONS,OR CURES,
HAVE CHOSEN RATHER TO SHARE OUR PAIN AND TOUCH OUR WOUNDS WITH A
WARM AND TENDER HAND. THE FRIEND WHO CAN BE SILENT WITH US IN A MOMENT OF DESPAIR
OR CONFUSION, WHO CAN STAY WITH US IN AN HOUR OF GRIEF AND BEREAVEMENT, WHO
CAN TOLERATE NOT KNOWING, NOT CURING, NOT HEALING AND FACE WITH US THE REALITY
OF OUR POWERLESSNESS, THAT IS A FRIEND WHO CARES. [HN]
As you see that is pure and simple understanding, something that only comes when true friendship exits and is kept alive amongst those who dare to care for each other. Remember even silence can be understood if we are willing to listen, but only true friends knows that when silence is golden it does mean something for the one who understand and remains watchful. Give UNDERSTANDING A CHANCE. You will be blessed with friendship as you would have never imagine. HOWEVER SOMETIMES UNDERSTANDING MIGHT COME WITH A PRICE BUT IS WORTH EVERY BIT OF IT IF YOU REALLY WANT TO TASTE TRUE FRIENDSHIP. Here is for those who are willing to give it a shot, thanks
WIDGETIZE