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A little bit more about my trip...

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After posting my last post last Monday, I received a message from one of my Opera friend. He wanted to share with me his personal experience(more precisely his friend's experience) with a humanitarian organization who was supposed to help people in need. But instead of spending money to help people, they were using their budget to pay big salaries to their employees and instead of working on the field, they were surfing on the net or drinking coffee and eating. His friend was very disgusted by what he has witnessed and anyone with a shred of conscience would have been too. On the other hand, it doesn't surprise me that much having working a big part of my life in the public service, I'm aware of all the wasting that could occur in these type of enterprises.

His message gave me the idea to write another post about what exactly is the humanitarian organization that organize my trip to the Guatemala and what exactly we are going to do there. This way you will have a better idea of what kind of engagement I took and how I will spend my 5 weeks there.

First of all, the name of the organization is C.A.S.I.R.A and it has been founded by a Catholic priest who has done a lot of humanitarian work in Central America and has decided to give the opportunity for interested Quebecois to make a concrete gesture of solidarity. But the main goal behind this organization is to elevate North Americans awareness of inequalities present in this world. I have met the priest twice so far and what I appreciate the most about him is that even if I don't believe in his God(or any Gods) I feel right at my place among his project.

The Organization only counts on private donations to operate and every participant who will take part in the Guatemala experience has to pay all their expenses(plane, food, lodging,etc.). For a 5 weeks trip, like mine, it represents about $3000 CAD(a part of it qualifies for a charitable donation tax credit.) and of course, the work we will do there is volunteer.

But not all of this money will go directly to help the people living there because in addition to the work, we have cultural visits on weekends and also the opportunity to stay with a Guatemalan family to learn Spanish and that is what I will do on my first week there. From Sunday to Friday, I'll be the single host of a middle class Guatemalan family and for $130, I will be feed, lodge and receive personal Spanish courses everyday, a bargain! This Spanish immersion will help to resume my Guatemalan adventure because the following two weeks, I'll be working in an agricultural co-op, side by side with Guatemalans. On this rare piece of land owned by Guatemalan farmers, I will do mostly some construction work but also help with the pineapple culture or the tilapia's breeding. I will stay in basic habitation with no running water and will eat typical Guatemalan food.

For my two weeks remaining(more one and a half week because we arrive and leave on Wednesdays), I haven't decided which working site I will choose but what I know is that I will be staying at the CASIRA's casa that is located in the highest criminal district of Guatemala City. There we will be among Quebecois, we will cook are own food, sleep in 4-8 beds bedrooms, with running water, electricity and internet connection(Maybe some Volkuro's blog Guatemalan updates! :D ). But among the possible work sites near the casa, the ones that interest me the most are a centre dedicated to help people who wants to get out of their street gangs or an AIDS orphan centre.


But since we are not working on weekends, we will use this precious free time to visit all the majestical sites that can be found in Guatemala. Among them are the Pacaya Valcano, Lake Atitlán, Tikal and Antigua. To travel to these places, we will use a veeery comfortable :rolleyes: school bus(to go to Tikal it will be a 8 hours drive!) and we will stay in the cheapest hotels. Those cultural visit are no obligatory and we have to pay for every of them but I think it would be the dumbest thing to be in Guatemala and don't visit these places.

I will be back in Quebec on October 22 and I will probably give you a full and illustrated trip report in the following weeks but until then, I will try to study Spanish the most seriously as I can and read more on this country history.

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Pre-trip orientation weekend

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This weekend, I had to go to the small town of Thetford Mines for a pre-trip orientation weekend for my upcoming 5 weeks humanitarian work-trip to Guatemala. I gave a lift to two other participants(two women around 60) and on our way there, we were talking about this upcoming orientation and we all wonder what it would be about because non of us had any clue. But now that I've done it, I realize that it should have been obvious...

One of the big part of this formation was about the Guatemala reality. Their history, the Spanish conquest of the Mayas, the 1960-1996 civil war, etc. We also learned about the 21st century Mayas who still today form the majority of the population with the Ladinos(Mixed aborigine). What I retained the most about this civilization, was the fact that the are a proud population loving their country who prefer to live as refugees in their own land or beg in the street than leaving their birthplace.

The other big part of this weekend, maybe the biggest, was about social relation and respect. Social relation and respect among our group and social relation and respect with other cultures. During opening minds workshops and games we have created bonds among the group and began to understand what will wait us in this trip. But it all began when we were asked to put our luggage in the dormitory. 32 persons, men and women sleeping in the same room, beds 1 meter apart, no privacy, only basic facilities. The morning after the first night everyone said that they didn't sleep but let me tell you that with all the loud snoring that have kept me awake all night some of us must have slept! Lesson #1: bring my earplugs to Guatemala :rolleyes:

After, they made us participate to a fake spiritual celebration provoking many reactions among the group. They putted us in many other uncontrollable situations where our values, our judgements, our team work was challenged. For example, they separated us in small groups with playing cards. We had 5 minutes to individually read this new game playing instructions and rules. They took back the instructions and ask us to play in complete silence. Of course, there were some differences among the group members' comprehension of the game but that wasn't so bad but when they said that the nominated winner and loser of each table had to move to another table, the real trouble began! The migrating players didn't had the same already agreed rules of their host table and the impossibility to communicate with words created all kind of reactions. After the game we have learned that no group has received the same game instructions and rules at the beginning so while everyone thought they were right, no one had the truth. A good analogy for someone who has to live and work in a different country who has a different culture...

The rest of the weekend was used to talk about the practical aspects of the trip: The humanitarian projects, A typical day of work, The security precautions we need to take while working in the most criminal part of the capitol, etc.

At the end of the last day, it was amazing to already see the complicity of the group. Not everyone of us will travel at the same time of the year, only 6 of the people who were there will travel on the same dates as me. There are several pre-trip weekends organized so I haven't met all my future workmates. But among the people I have met, I discovered many interesting individuals even if I'm 15-20 years younger than the age average of the group. The most touching moment of this weekend happened during the last activity where we were asked to explain in front of the group, using a pool drawing on a board, how much deep we were willing to plunge in this venture. Since most of the member's reserve toward the group was now disappeared, there were many emotional, hand and voice shaking testimonies heard from many different persons who were about to fulfill a long awaited dream, a big personal challenge or new life resolution. Me, I said that I was choosing the highest dive board to jump in the deepest part of the pool because I plan to plunge in this experience as deep as I can.

To conclude this short weekend report I would like to talk about one of the trainer who was there: Hugo, a Guatemalan political refugee. This authentic aboriginal really gave me the taste of Guatemala with his amazing knowledge about the politics, culture and history of his country and with his interesting and funny way of explaining it. He became even more funnier Saturday night when a few of us sat around a camp fire to talk and have a couple of beers. Nothing beats a half drunk Guatemalan telling Newfie jokes! :lol:

Although, later that night the conversation took a more serious but interesting turn when we talked about men and women respect and relationships. First, the different cultural realities appeared between our two countries but soon after, many different perceptions about love and respect appeared among the Quebecois group itself...

No consensus was found when I went to bed that night, but on my way to the dormitory, I saw a shooting star and I made a wish.

July update

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I guess some of you might be wondering what I'm up to this days because I wrote only a single post so far in July and I haven't comment on anyone's blog either.

Well the major reason is that my “real” life has kept me quite occupied.

First my job, or should I say my ex-job because since July 11, I'm a pre-retired man! (not exactly but it's the running gag among my friends p: ). But what's true is that I have finished working at the park. It was my 8th years there and it was more than the time for me to move along and do something else. Some of the employees(many of them or more friends than ex-colleagues) has organized a little party for the occasion and gave me a nice card. They even collect a good amount of money to give me as a departure gift. I didn't felt comfortable receiving it since many of the people who has contributed can't hardly make ends meet. So what I decided is to bring this money with me in my upcoming trip to Guatemala so it could profit to people in real need..

And what I will do next?

For the moment, I take a break. I spend my accumulated vacations and I have managed to have unemployment insurance benefits after. So financially, I will be okay for a while. Anyway I can't really find a job right now because I'm leaving for the Guatemala in around 50 days(check my sidebar countdown :right: ) and I don't think any employer would accept to give a 5 weeks vacation after 1 month of work! :rolleyes: Maybe I will find a little job on the side or do some volunteer work but nothing serious...


Ok next: Guatemala!

I already have my plane ticket in hand:

Departure: Montreal Dorval Pierre Elliot Trudeau - September 17, 06H05
Connect in Atlanta 08H54 – 09H50
Arrival: Guatemala City 11H19

I'll be there 5 weeks and I haven't decided yet what job I will do (working in a school, in a farm, in a convalescence home, etc.) but I'm sure it will be a great experience. :yes:
I have a pre-departure formation weekend on August 22, but I don't know what exactly they will teach us. :confused: Until then, I have begun a Spanish course with my 16 years old niece who prove to be a great teacher. She prepares her course with great care and seriousness, creating some interesting exercises, and games to help me learn faster. I'm really proud of her. :happy:

The only down side to my trip to Guatemala and also what occupied my mind most of the time right now, is the fragile relationship I have just begun with a wonderful woman who unfortunately has to go through a difficult moment before being really free and abandon herself to this promising new life that is waiting in front of her. So the trip for me comes unexpectedly at a bad time but then again, maybe it will be at the perfect time and when I will come back, the return will be sweeter.

Until then I might be more or less present on the OC. To be frank, I go with the flow. But nevertheless, I've heard some interesting rumours:

:sst: Seems like the co-writers of Barney & Amélie have begun talking about the overdue final episode. Does anyone where the story was left off?

And seems that the Canadian football season has begun and the first game between my implacable Alouettes and San's asthenic Lions will take place next Friday and normally those games give some amusing repercussion on some blogs...
:whistle:

Guatemala, cycling, love & asbestos

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Today is my last day of my one week holiday. I have done a lot of things during this holiday like going to my Guatemala volunteer work trip's meeting in Thetford Mines. It's a small town in decline located 300 kilometres south-east from where I live. It's a declining small town because the major part of its economy is based on asbestos mining and since that asbestos is now banned in many countries due to its potentially health-damaging reputation, the production has dropped dramatically.


The meeting was very interesting. First I realized that maybe I'm a bit young to start doing international volunteer work. Well, I was visibly the youngest of the group and most of the participants(we were about 100) were retired or pre-retired. It must have to do with the financial security you have gained at this life phase, it's easier to travel without any income for a long period. Only a fool will quit is job to start doing some voluntary work trips! p:

The trip itself is really what I want to do: Working with locals on different sites and different kinds of job, learning Spanish, visit the country cultural attraction, all that in the voluntary simplicity way. I could do construction work or work on a pineapple farm. I could also work 2 weeks in a school run by Guatemalan nuns or work in a paediatric AIDS centre and take care of the children. Everything is well organized and I really like the philosophy of the charity organism behind this project. I will tell you more about it in the upcoming weeks but now I can tell you that at the beginning of July I will know my date of departure. I will stay there for 5 weeks, it's less that what I thought initially but with the latest developments that has occurred in my life in the past weeks, this shorter trip suits me just fine.:happy:

After the meeting, I began to explore the region. I pitched my tent in a campsite in Montmagny(+3°C at night and rainy!!). From there I took my bike and went for a 74 km ride west on my first day. And the second day, I took a ferry I went cycling on a beautiful small island of the St-Lawrence River called Isle-aux-Grues. I have talked with one of the 123 habitants of the island, and this young lady explained me a lot of things about their amazing islander life. Like how she went to elementary school by plane mornings and evenings! :eyes: It was only a 7 minutes flight but hey! What an uncommon way to go to school!



There were a few craft artists on the island, a nice local cheese dairy and many swallows! Tree swallows everywhere nesting in wood nesting boxes place on almost every electrical post, it was so nice to see...





After that I've started my way back to home but I stopped at my sister's house in Quebec city for a night, did a bit of cycling there too. And Friday I went to Montreal to help my mother with her annual spring cleaning. I choose Friday because I had to be in Montreal anyway at night for the City Night Bike Tour. We were 12000 participants (there's always less participants at the nightly version than at the classic day tour) and it was really fun. People were in the street cheering at us, I almost felt like a real athlete! :lol:

And this weekend, I'm more on the relax mode. There are still many unknowns in my love life and going through this emotional roller-coaster ride is hard on the body and mind. But I'm not alone going through this and I know that it's even harder for that other person. But we must stay positive (you know I'm a positive man! :wink: ) and maybe soon everything will settle by itself and we all be able to look in front of us and start a new journey. Hey San, I may have found a new NLBC member!:hat:




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40 ans!

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40 years! a round number.

Reaching 20 or 30 didn't change my life very much. Since the age of 17, I've always felt like being 21 or 22 in my body and mind. But in the last two years, visible signs of aging have appeared like permanents wrinkles around the eyes and I don't hear any more exclamations like “Are you kidding? I thought you were in the twenties!” But don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that I'm feeling old. I'm in perfect shape, I don't suffer from any serious disease and I can do almost everything I want. Of course, I can't recover in a flash from a sleepless night like in my teenage years but I have lost this ability a long time ago!

But beyond a few wrinkles and a couple of minor sores, what characterize the most my 40 years birthday is my change of attitude towards life. I've always been a big defender of the freedom of choice, that every life should be lived in the present moment and not for better upcoming days. Why your 27th years should be less important than your 65th? I always believed that no one should compromise on his wellbeing to achieve a financial success. Many great principles of life that, I now realize, have stayed at the blathering stage without any action taken and that is what I want to change. Call it a mid-life crisis or what ever name you want but the feeling is strong and I'm determined to take that direction.

The first step I took is my decision to quit my job at the park somewhere during the current year. The second one was to register myself to do voluntary work inside a humanitarian organization called Casira and the mission I will join will take place in Guatemala. In May, I will attempt a weekend long meeting where the date of departure, length of the trip and all other important informations will be transmitted. The best scenario for me would be to leave in September for 3 months. I will see if it is possible. Since it will be voluntary work, I won't get paid for it, it even will cost me money but I'm convinced that I will return from there with richer human values and an international mission experience that could help me eventually, with my already acquired managing experience, to find a paid job with other humanitarian organizations like CareCanada or Médecins Sans Frontières who hire coordinators for their international missions.

All this may look a bit idealistic but that is why I start with a voluntary work in Guatemala. I may turn crazy after 3 weeks, living with 30 to 60 people in the same “casa” sharing everything but if it is the case, I'll stop asking myself if I can do it. At least, I will know and move to something else. But now is the right moment in my life to try it. I'm single, I'm healthy. It's obvious that I will miss some of my close friends but in our today's whirling lives, everyone is so busy anyway that we never have the chance to see the people we love as much as we would like to.

Speaking of friends, 16 of them has been invited to come to my place tomorrow to celebrate my 40 years birthday. But this party will also be the first official planning meeting of an ambitious project that has originated 2 years ago around a table decorated with a few alcohol beverages which is to all celebrate our 40th birthday on a beach in the south. With a b-day in january, I'm the first of my group of friends(I'm talking about 20 years and over friendships) that is reaching the 40 years milestone. All the others will reach it during the current year and in November, at the cheapest time of the year to travel south, we would all go for a one week celebration at an all-included resort. However it's far from being done, we all have our lives and obligations. I'm even the first one who doesn't know where I will be then and if I'll be able to go! Although I don't know why, maybe it's because every time we meet the subject comes up, but I'm quite convinced that it will work out...

Ok that's a long enough post! :rolleyes:

Now... where I will sit 16 persons in my small apartment?...what if some of them come with their kids? :yikes:
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